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La vidéo dure 00:26:50 secondes et porte le titre 5 ans de NoFap/Rétention de sperme en tant que culturiste, fournis par l’auteur. La description détaillée est la suivante :« Coaching: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1b76o8ltc6ldbukm8yrfuw0jspd0kj4rhjfr3eeiysca/edit#resses merch: https://my-store-7324949.creator-spring.com/ acheter mon livre: https:/a.co/kynunbbbr.com/ 0:00 – Introduction 1:22 – Avantages 8:47 – Beyond Nofap 16:07 – Comment j’ai riposté 20:25 – Défis 21:09 – Conseil ».

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L’abstinence conduit à des changements positifs dans la vie des hommes.

Observer la relation entre l’abstinence de la masturbation et la baisse des niveaux d’anxiété et de dépression.

Pour les hommes, l’addiction à la pornographie et à la masturbation génère une anxiété considérable. Après avoir arrêté ces comportements, beaucoup observent une réduction de la dépression et un meilleur contrôle de leurs actions.

Évaluer les bienfaits psychologiques de l’abstinence chez l’homme est essentiel.

L’abstinence réduit l’anxiété et la dépression, tout en améliorant la confiance en soi. Les forums NoFap regorgent de témoignages montrant de réels progrès psychologiques.

Examiner l’impact de l’abstinence sur la performance érectile.

Selon des recherches, l’abstinence masculine permet de surmonter les dysfonctions érectiles associées à la masturbation.

Les hommes bénéficient d’un soutien précieux grâce à la communauté NoFap dans leur lutte pour la sobriété.

Les forums NoFap permettent d’accéder à une communauté de soutien avec des discussions ouvertes.

Les forums offrent un soutien social crucial pour les hommes qui pratiquent l’abstinence, et proposent également des études scientifiques pour enrichir leur expérience.

Analyser comment les forums et les groupes de soutien aident à surmonter les obstacles rencontrés par les individus.

Des études ont prouvé que les forums de soutien en ligne, tels que ceux de la communauté NoFap, augmentent les chances de succès dans la lutte contre des comportements comme la dépression et l’anxiété. Les recherches scientifiques soulignent l’importance de la solidarité au sein de la communauté NoFap pour lutter contre la masturbation de manière efficace.

Mettre en évidence la contribution du soutien social et émotionnel dans le processus d’abstinence.

La plateforme Nofap et ses forums offrent un environnement propice pour que les hommes partagent leurs expériences et solutions, tout en les soutenant dans la gestion de la dépression, de l’anxiété, et des rechutes. Un encadrement professionnel est parfois crucialc’est le cas de ce spécialiste du Nofap.

Optimiser ses chances de succès sur NoFap

Conseils de la communauté NoFap pour réussir sans rechute

Il est primordial d’intégrer des activités comme l’exercice et la méditation pour renforcer la motivation et éviter les déclencheurs.

Des stratégies sont essentielles pour gérer les rechutes pendant NoFap.

L’étude scientifique montre que les rechutes sont fréquentes dans NoFap. Les hommes doivent prendre du recul pour comprendre les causes de l’échec et solliciter l’aide de la communauté pour se remettre sur la bonne voie.

Consulter des plateformes pour des témoignages et conseils sur NoFap.

Des études scientifiques et des recherches menées par des spécialistes tels que Nicole Prause offrent une compréhension plus profonde des effets de l’addiction à la pornographie et à la masturbation et des moyens pour y faire face.

Découvrir le NoFap : un nouveau départ pour les hommes

NoFap est un mouvement prônant l’abstinence de pornographie et de masturbation.

NoFap, une initiative globale, propose aux hommes de s’abstenir de pornographie et de masturbation afin de réduire leur dépendance. Ce mouvement met en avant les bénéfices pour la santé mentale, la vitalité et l’équilibre émotionnel.

Examiner l’influence de la pornographie sur la santé mentale et physique des hommes.

Les effets de la pornographie sur la santé des hommes ont été étudiés par des chercheurs, mettant en lumière des problèmes tels que la dysfonction érectile, l’anxiété, la dépression et l’addiction. Nicole Prause a notamment publié une étude sur les conséquences de la masturbation excessive et de la pornographie sur le bien-être des individus.

Les motivations derrière NoFap sont souvent liées à la recherche d’un meilleur contrôle de soi et d’une santé améliorée.

Les motivations des participants au mouvement NoFap incluent la lutte contre les effets de la pornographie, l’amélioration de la performance érectile et la réduction de l’anxiété. De nombreux hommes sondés ont constaté une baisse de la dépression et des pensées suicidaires après l’abandon de ces pratiques.

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Retranscription des paroles de la vidéo: of all the things a man can do resisting sexual temptation is among the hardest I’ve built an incredible natural physique I graduated at one of the top universities in the world while battling several learning disabilities I’ve written a book and now I’m starting a fitness coaching industry and I can tell you with full confidence without a hint of hesitation that withdrawing from sexual temptation is one of the hardest things that I’ve done I don’t actually know how long it’s been since I’ve gotten any kind of let’s just say release off because all I know is that I started around Co time and Co was about 5 years ago so that’s why I put 5 years in the title I haven’t become a monk or anything I just haven’t had the opportunity to get married and I don’t have frankly the means to get married right now so about 85% of men have watched pornography in the past week and I’d imagine that it’s much worse among Generation Z and generation Alpha that effectively means that at least 85% of men are addicted to pornography I say at least because I imagine it’s actually a lot worse than that because a lot of people aren’t going to openly admit the fact that they watched pornography it’s frankly a humiliating act and a shameful thing to admit and it’s important to understand that pornography has a sort of all-consuming Allure to men it completely hijacks the way your brain is supposed to work you could see more beautiful women on a singular shameful night than your ancestors could see in their entire lifetime let’s talk about the benefits I’ve seen after quitting first of all what this did is that it reconsidered my sexual appetite and I’ve generally heard this from a lot of other people it reconsiders it reconfigures their sexual appetite it’s well established that porn Works kind of like a drug right the more you do it the more you are more you have this desire to seek novel fetishes or Kinks as they say and those fetishes move you away from understanding the actual purpose of sex being bonding and babies this is because it makes you focus intently on the pleasure of the ACT not the end goal of the act it fundamentally shifts things such that pleasure is the end goal as opposed to understanding that pleasure is merely a byproduct concomitant to the sexual act quitting has made me more drawn to the Natural female figure this is how it’s supposed to be as opposed to being attracted to unnatural BBL arguably cartoonish women it’s sort of like look at the differences between NFL wives and NBA wives I’ve noticed that a lot of the NFL Wives have a sort of natural beauty to them they’re like you know the sweetheart that you meet in high school or a college girl that you’d see at your campus whereas NBA wives are more common to have a bunch of plastic surgery and have like bbls and a lot of other gross stuff and this is possibly because most NFL players are in college for at least 3 years the NFL requires you to be out of high school for at least three years as opposed to the NBA wherein you can go to the NBA right out of college first right out of the first year of college so perhaps the fame and fortune doesn’t get to them as much and they think more about school they think more about the the the intimate things in life more and that’s a deterrent and also helps them warm up into the pro league porn quite literally removes your will it makes you a sort of lobotomized zombie with lower impulse control and poorer decision-making so everyone in the comments who’s probably going to get mad at me for this damning critique of pornography that I’m going to uh going to elucidate you guys on you guys quite literally do not have the mental wherewithal to properly assess and evaluate what I’m saying their brain is unable to believe anything beyond naked lady pretty must touch PE PE apolly says naked lady pretty but you don’t touch p PE must attack apolly I mean these people are just not in the habit of thinking at all whatsoever their impulse control and decision-making key parts of what separates biologically humans from animals is impaired they have rewired themselves to a juvenile State the prefrontal cortex has lost gray matter and they are unable to just critically think anymore so often people when I when I give my critique of pornography they they go out lashing like hyenas and this is clearly a symptom of the fact that they themselves are addicted fourthly here porn makes life in general less interesting I’ve kind of mentioned this before but you become kind of incapable of recognizing the natural beauty of a woman you won’t be able to just look at her eyes and just adore her eyes for for being what they are but it goes even beyond that because life itself becomes dull it’s hard to find the motivation to do anything because frankly like what’s the point none of anything in life is going to give you the same dope Rush that you get from watching pornography and your brain is already telling you that you fulfilled your basis desire because as guys let’s face it most of what we do is ultimately to reproduce so by artificially fulfilling that through pornography we’re telling our brain that we’ve already fulfilled our basist purpose fifthly I realized that I was wasting a lot of time I don’t think I need to get into the specifics of things cuz that’s just kind of weird but yeah I was wasting a lot of time sixthly I think my ADHD symptoms actually went down I think this is because I start to take more Delight in actual regular accomplishments it isn’t actually quitting porn in and of itself that reaps results it is the ideology of putting in time and effort in order to reap results to delay gratification and put in work in order to succeed seventhly it made me feel extremely empowered I feel like I had control over my life and I can do anything I want so long as I put my mind to it as men we have this influx of testosterone during these critical periods of our life and we need to learn to transmit that energy into something productive we can’t spend these critical years and this critical testosterone boost that we get from puberty withing ourselves away in the shackles of pornography pursue those repressed dreams that you’ve had don’t be locked in the snares of pornography learn that skill you’ve always want to learn about pursue that dream that you’ve always had live life with a fire in your eyes most people who watch my videos lift weights because this is a fitness channel lifting weights increases your testosterone and this may seem like it’ll make it harder for you to to ward off these Temptations and it will but if you are able to actually channel that testosterone channel that extra testosterone into something productive you will be a greater force for good than you could have ever believed that power that you have once harnessed will be a greater force for good and the last benefit I’ve realized from quitting pornography is that it really helps my relationship with God it removes extra barriers that pull me away from God before I would feel as though my prayers aren’t really all that useful not really all that meaningful because I know that in the next couple of days or even hours that would probably just go back to sinning not like just sinning inadvertently but consciously sinning by watching pornography so perhaps most importantly of all it made it such that I could actually maybe you shouldn’t actually think this way but this is just how what happened when I when I quit I could actually face God and I feel as though I’m not you know contradicting Myself by praying think about what you’re actually doing when you’re watching pornography you’re sitting there watching watchingg somewhat like a cuck someone else having sex remove the screen and replace it with I don’t know binoculars or something and you’ll realize just how pathetic it actually is when we look at porn we’re like faceless onlookers peering like stalkers through a hotel while someone else is buying a prostitute but it’s worse than that because pornography is less honest at least the Peeping Tom is forced to reckon with his behavior he’s out in the cold ducking in the bushes and from there he sees the entire act for all it is the whole dismal exchange he doesn’t get to flip in and out of dozens of scenes consuming portions of it and glancing here and there at different scenes he doesn’t get to close the tab when it’s all over and act like nothing happened he’s there like a stalker like a stranger in the dark he has to go home and deal with the reality of who he is and what he has he’s just become he’s getting off to what ideally he would want to do but instead he settles for the scraps the porn viewer on the other hand feels insulated what he’s doing is identical but doesn’t seem that way because he feels safer it’s a screen not a window it’s an amateur porn star not a prostitute his actions are legal even normal by today’s standards yes he tells himself I’m different but you’re not that’s a lie everything about pornography is a lie we are growing up in a society wherein everyone has grown up on a diet of porn addiction and hookups who knows what Society is going to look like hopefully we’ll be able to ban the whole thing but I’m not very confident that that’s going to happen and if the idea of banning pornography sounds crazy to you then consider the fact that you are extremely beholden to this thing you’re like gollin as precious desperately Clinging On to this thing for most of human existence for most of Western Society in general we did not have this and we worked perfectly fine in fact we worked better and now this is the part of the video where I’m either going to lose you or you’re going to love me I don’t want to just make another poor and bad video because those are kind of a dime of dozen at this point a lot of people kind of understand that I’m going to go even further Beyond I’m going to go Super Saiyan 3 on this I’m going to go much deep deeper and tell you guys that you should also be a virgin I myself am also a virgin so I guess in this sense I’ve been on semen retention or whatever it’s called for the past 5 years people generally understand that they probably shouldn’t be watching porn and maybe they justify to themselves but they I think that in our brain we all inherently know that it’s a shameful act but saving yourself for marriage that doesn’t seem to be as intuitive to a lot of people this is where I start to lose a lot of people when I start talking about sexual Purity but really noof fap is only one part of the story if you just St at nofap you’re only really getting like like frankly you’re only like 30% of the way there if you’re still having premarital sex you’re missing the bigger picture what you’re actually doing really is you’re trading one masturbatory device for another masturbatory device I won’t explain this part too much because it kind of detracts from the main point of the video maybe I can make a video about that later but just know that understanding that virginity is uh meant for marriage and your sexual all sexual acts are meant for marriage is a key part in the sexual reconfiguration being a virgin now at 25 is not cool I get shamed for it but I must stay strong if you’re in the same position that I’m in don’t let anyone shame you for being a virgin because yeah even Christians that I know shame me for being a virgin they’re at the at best confused and at worse they actually shame me for being a virgin I went to a Christian school and I talked to my classmates every once in a while and this is their exact reaction they’re confused and they like kind of Shame me for it when I was in college there was this guy who claimed to be a Russian Orthodox Christian and he said that his goal was to make me lose my virginity before I graduated college that and he said it with a Steely sort of conviction he was dead serious that he was going to do it and he would constantly look through girls on Instagram and try and get them try and DM them and try and get me to hook up with them there are wolves and sheep’s clothing they are masquerading as Christians and they are not your friend not everyone who says Lord Lord is truly with Christ so now being a virgin and being abstinent actually is good but you also need to actually be pursuing women and you also have to need to be actually attracting women if your goal is to get married you should be able to still make yourself attractive right some Christians take pride in the fact that they’re a virgin but they don’t really have any tempt they’re not really fighting any Temptations so it not that it’s a bad thing to you know not have these Temptations but if you don’t even have the ability to attract a woman then it does it doesn’t seem as impressive right I’m talking specifically about people who can attract women who have attracted women but they have warted off The Temptations now if you’re a virgin and you’re saving yourself from Marriage that still is in and of itself a good thing but it’s it’s no there’s no doubt that it’s more character building if you have the Temptations and you’re able to Ward them off and build your character from overcoming them now on relationships being a virgin does not help you on the surface but as you dig deeper and deeper into it you realize that It ultimately does help you most people will think that you’re immature when you tell them you’re a version they’ll think that you’re some kind of so kind a 13-year-old child who’s just getting into his first relationship but no you are not immature you are actually the most manly person that they’ve ever met but their brains are too corrupted by sexual corrosion to realize it you have reigned in your sexual desires for the proper good and have vigorously toiled against literal demons and came out on top on the internet in the circles that I’m in I do get some congratulatory remarks for being a virgin on nofap but even then generally speaking people just think I’m kind of weird and again many Christians say the same thing about me this is a really damning critique on the state of Christianity and I mean damning literally right some people get mad when I say this but I mean literally damning as in this sort of mentality is literally going to damn you and pornography itself is putting you on a track to literally damn yourself so I mean it in the completely biblical sense when I say damning I say with no hesitation that you should wear your virginity as a badge of honor what we gain too easily we esteem too lightly if you are a virgin with a couple of days or even years on noap consider the fact that your first sexual encounter will be with the one that you love and the one that you will be with for the rest of your life your template for sexual attraction itself will be molded around that one person you aren’t the weird one everyone else is the weird one you were acting in accord to how you were intelligently designed you’re standing clean in god-given pure water whereas everyone else is literally ruminating in their own feces and asking you to join in in a world where divorce and Rel relational dissatisfaction are rampant you dare to be different tons of women offer themselves up like a masturbatory device like essentially a a sentient Fleshlight but you resist and speaking of women going back to relationships being a virgin is an extremely good way to weed out bad women if they are turned off by the fact that you’re a virgin they fundamentally do not understand relationships let me say this again in another way if women turn you down because you’re not experienced enough you should get down on your hands and knees and thank God because you just dodged a bullet you two are so fundamentally incompatible that it is just going to cause you a ton of headaches if you get into a relationship with that person relationships are about growing with someone on the Grand Adventure of life not about them gaining the maximum amount of pleasure that they can derive from you as an aside this is also why the idea of being sexually compatible is literally fake or rather it fundamentally misunder understands the purpose of sex I have no doubt that some people have sexual appetites that match better with other people compared to another person but the point is bonding and giving yourself up to that other person the Bible says that our body is not ours and likewise the wife’s body is not theirs there’s a push and pull relationship in that sense you give yourself up to her and she gives herself up to you and if you are humbly attuned enough you will derive maximum pleasure from the fact that you’re just with your wife when you’re on noof fap and a virgin you’re very sensitive to any sort of sexual titilation no pun intended make make sure that as your brain forms this critical sexual Benchmark that with the right person with the person that you will be with forever in the union the holy Union of matrimony your first sexual encounter leaves a powerful mental imprint your brain creates powerful synapses that Bond you towards everything that happened leading up to the event everything that happens within the event becomes very much ingrained sex is the biggest dopamine hit we can get naturally so it’s going to create very powerful synapses and this is why people get unnatural sexual desires like furries this is one of those things wherein they’ll admit it if you ask them but the moment you point it out they get mad at you for pointing it out ask furries how they came to their sexual fetishes and they’ll tell you every time that they had some kind of weird experience when they were younger and that sort of left a permanent mental imprint and now they want to have sex and anthropomorphic animal costumes now imagine your first sexual experiences with your husband or your wife if you can find all sexual experiences between you and your spouse the likelihood that you will search for sexual experiences outside of there are much lower hence why people who are virgins tend to have longer marriages virgins at the marriage bed tend to have longer marriages you are molding your sexual appetite around her and she likewise so a lot of you guys are likely wondering how I was able to fight back I go to the gym there’s a lot of there’s a lot of Temptation there’s always things competing for my attention one of the ways I fight off against it is by decorating my room with lots of Christian paraphernalia I mean this shirt is is one example right I don’t really wear this in public but you know if you have a bunch of clothes like this about Christian attire then the likelihood that you’re going to lustfully flirt with another woman is extremely low because that’s just an insane cognitive dissonance that you’d have to be almost mentally deranged to ignore this is also part of the reason I created my own Christian merchandise I don’t have it with me right now I’m I’m not wearing it right now but I can link in the description if you’re interested but I have a bunch of Japanese wee um Christian attire because I think it looks cool and also because it makes me focus on what actually I’m trying to focus on my car before I crashed it actually had at the front of his license plate that said believe so if I wanted to if I wanted to go up with a girl I’d have to walk outside and see my car with a cross that says believe on it and then I had to really reconsider why I’m going on this date second of all this is possible for you not exactly possible for me right now but try to go to a gym with fewer women I know that some people will tell you that well when there’s woman there you live more that’s probably true but what’s an extra few pounds to your own soul honestly I take my soul over that but yeah if that’s not possible for you then you’re going to have to be constantly looking at the ceiling or looking at the ground because that’s what the sexual Revolution did it made it such that guys can’t walk around and look forward anymore we have to look at the ceiling or look at the ground now what I also did is I really internalized the idea that porn is cheating this is one of those claims that sounds insane to people who have a porn habit who are probably watching porn in their relationships right now but it makes makes a lot of sense to people who still have the ability to actually think your porn habit is an adultery habit I think it goes without saying that actively searching out for other women while you’re in a relationship is cheating actively getting off to other women while you’re in a relationship is even worse that’s what porn is though actively getting off to other women just because it’s online just because there’s a screen in front of you doesn’t change your state of mind you are fundamentally giving into your sexual desire with someone who is not your partner but if you don’t have a partner and you’re like okay well this is all cool we don’t have a partner you’re still training yourself to become an adult adulterer if you ever do get a partner because even if you aren’t literally having sex with the women on your screen you’re still mentally doing something very similar and your brain doesn’t know the difference this is why sexing with other people is considered cheating the physical act doesn’t absolve you of all the blame apart from the most debased people I think basically everyone was going to agree with this for some reason though porn gets this random exception it seems to really do that all the time when it comes to like age verification laws as well porn gets this random exception people seem to like just love giving porn this random exception probably just indicative of the fact that they are so beholden to it and they don’t want to see it be criticized or gone away in any sense the fact of the matter is very clear porn is cheating your partner shouldn’t have to be competing with a screen lastly what I did is I made an extremely long document on my computer about all the reasons I hate pornography and all the reasons I want to save myself for marriage I actually still have the document and I basically used that and copied and pasted and made it this video and after I did this it took me like 3 or 4 days to write it down I end up writing like tens of thousands of words on it it created such a strong cognitive dissonance that I didn’t even want to watch pornography anymore it also ironically led to me developing my book I shared it with some of my cool friends and they told me that it was really good and it was a really passionate dissertation and that I should write a whole book on it obviously I didn’t write a book on it but I did take the idea of writing a book on things I’m passionate about and that transformed into muscular Christianity and now you just got an extended preface to my book which I obviously did not elucidate on in the actual book but yeah this also means that in a very direct way that if I didn’t stop watching pornography I wouldn’t have written my book not only because I wouldn’t have had the will to write my book I wouldn’t have had the discipline to write my book but also because I wouldn’t have even had the idea to write something to write so passionately about a topic but I wouldn’t have had the idea to write long form about something that I get really passionate about doing all this is great but there are a lot of ch Alles right I’m not hypogonadal I still am a young male with an extremely high sex drive I still have this desperate desire for female companionship Paul said that it’s best to be celibate but if you can’t be celibate then you should be you should be getting married and I think that only people who have like the supernatural gift of celibacy could probably go their entire life without having sex this is like the the nuns the priests and the people who are just especially devoted to God unfortunately I don’t think I have that ability I think that I definitely do want to get married and in general right I’m not perfect it’s not as though I still don’t struggle with Temptations I ultimately know that being celibate is just a stepping stone to the end point of getting married so I think it would be a bad idea to leave this video off without giving you guys some advice I understand many people have fallen into sexual sin and they feel guilty about it and I’m sorry about that on one hand it’s good to acknowledge the fact that what you did was wrong but on the other hand you can’t fully take back the natural consequences of your sin God will of course spiritually forgive you and watch you knew but there still are temporal elements of our sin that don’t get fully vanished the average person is first exposed to pornography when they’re like 9 years old at this point before they even know what sex is they’ve already binged hundreds of hours of pornography most likely what chance do people have at a healthy sexual relationship they’ve already been injecting hundreds of of hardcore pornography into their cerebral before they’ve ever even thought about being with a woman before they’ve seen a woman naked before they’ve slept with a woman before they kissed with a woman before they’ve even held hands with a Woman They they’ve already seen a woman debased and defiled in every which way this isn’t an excuse for our problems but it’s to just give it perspective we are all simultaneously victims of a terrible culture and we are also participants active willing participants of the terrible culture and this likely the experience of all of our lives right cuz I’m a male born the 21st century I’ve dealt with this I think that older people Boomers they might not fully understand the scope of things but like I do I was there with you guys now the only hope for a better future is to stop now literally today don’t go ahead and schedule like you know I’m going to do this after the video no you literally stop right now your brain is luckily very plastic and can mold itself back to its default setting to some degree but it becomes much harder if you don’t start now you need a sufficiently long period of abstinence people who struggle with porn are not irredeemably bad people right I won’t yell at a person who struggles with porn addiction anymore I’ll yell at a crack addict who is trying to get his next fix but at least the crack addict won’t find many people aside from his dealer I guess who will actively tell him that it’s actually a good thing it’s actually a healthy thing to be smoking crack if he Ventures outside of his abandoned Shack where he scores his dope he probably won’t find any respectable person who tells you hey man it’s totally fine just you do you crack isn’t even a big deal it’s actually totally natural to smoke crack so in a way the crack addict actually has a leg up over the porn addict the porn addict has has to fight a myriad of people who are actively egging him on to continue his addiction he has to fight off against people who are trying to convince him that it’s just harmless fun and even worse porn is far more ubiquitous and easy to access just type in four letters into Google and you get your hit and you can’t even watch too many modern shows nowadays that don’t have a random sex scene in it you have to understand right now that your brain is telling you that it needs to have porn but you need to fundamentally rewire it into telling it that it doesn’t actually need it this is actually why you get the Cravings that you get what I used to do to help myself is whenever I would feel these urges I would literally just push my technology away to the side and I would sit there and wait for the urges to go away this is my way of reprogramming my brain to tell it that you don’t actually need to do this thing you can just put it away and sit there and nothing’s going to happen to you but of course in my experience the best way to actually curb this is to tell your brain that there’s something better out there there’s actual female companionship that you can look forward to your mind craves female companionship and it grows restive without it and I understand not everyone can do this because of where they are in life and if that’s not possible for you then a good step is to create a bunch of porn blockers on your phones and your tablets and and your computers and stuff Idle Hands Are The Devil’s play things or however that quote goes and there is a lot of Truth to that go out and do things especially go out of your room and do things because your room is just room makes it way too easy if you need Solitude to like do homework and stuff and you feel like your room is the only good place to do that then no it’s not go to a library or something go to a coffee shop or something and do it and finally get a support group what that be like-minded real life communities or like-minded online communities I’m not sure which one to recommend because this is not what I did but I hear it’s it’s very helpful and then just logically speaking is very helpful so if you guys have any ideas put those in the comments and help people out every fiber of your being needs to be dedicated to rebelling against this thing you need to hate it and if you think you hate it right now you need to hate it even more rebel against the entire sexual Revolution I hate what this did to my own life and I hate what it’s doing currently to young men’s lives I hate how this Force at least in my spirit erience is perhaps the number one deterrent from people becoming Christian I cannot tell you how many people get a whiff of sex and then all of a sudden they become more loose in their Christian beliefs I can’t tell you how many people leave Christianity altogether their eternal security is being sacrificed at the altar of of hentai because theic are connected right once you start being permissive of one thing then other things become more permissible and ultimately if you’re allowing all these things in your head then at some point you’re going to have to choose between God and your desires and your habitual desires will be too overwhelming that you’re not going to be able to choose the right thing it’s extremely hard for most people to even see the truth if their eyes are blurred by pornography I’m so done with it I want it gone destroyed burnt to the ground and instead a 10,000 ft statue of Jesus Christ is erected lastly I’ll leave you with this message transcend your primitive desires become all who God made you to be fulfill the natural functions that God designed you to fulfill God has the best plan for you in life and you should trust him I honestly believe that this is a right of passage for all men and upon completion you will become one step closer to becoming that ideal self that God has envisioned for you thank you for watching don’t forget to 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0.08 of all the things a man can do resisting
0.08 sexual temptation is among the hardest
0.08 I&;ve built an incredible natural
0.08 physique I graduated at one of the top
0.08 universities in the world while battling
0.08 several learning disabilities I&;ve
0.08 written a book and now I&;m starting a
0.08 fitness coaching industry and I can tell
0.08 you with full confidence without a hint
0.08 of hesitation that withdrawing from
0.08 sexual temptation is one of the hardest
0.08 things that I&;ve done I don&;t actually
0.08 know how long it&;s been since I&;ve
0.08 gotten any kind of let&;s just say
0.08 release off because all I know is that I
0.08 started around Co time and Co was about
0.08 5 years ago so that&;s why I put 5 years
0.08 in the title I haven&;t become a monk or
0.08 anything I just haven&;t had the
0.08 opportunity to get married and I don&;t
0.08 have frankly the means to get married
0.08 right now so about 85% of men have
0.08 watched pornography in the past week and
0.08 I&;d imagine that it&;s much worse among
0.08 Generation Z and generation Alpha that
0.08 effectively means that at least 85% of
0.08 men are addicted to pornography I say at
0.08 least because I imagine it&;s actually a
0.08 lot worse than that because a lot of
0.08 people aren&;t going to openly admit the
0.08 fact that they watched pornography it&;s
0.08 frankly a humiliating act and a shameful
0.08 thing to admit and it&;s important to
0.08 understand that pornography has a sort
0.08 of all-consuming Allure to men it
0.08 completely hijacks the way your brain is
0.08 supposed to work you could see more
0.08 beautiful women on a singular shameful
0.08 night than your ancestors could see in
0.08 their entire lifetime let&;s talk about
0.08 the benefits I&;ve seen after quitting
0.08 first of all what this did is that it
0.08 reconsidered my sexual appetite and I&;ve
0.08 generally heard this from a lot of other
0.08 people it reconsiders it reconfigures
0.08 their sexual appetite it&;s well
0.08 established that porn Works kind of like
0.08 a drug right the more you do it the more
0.08 you are more you have this desire to
0.08 seek novel fetishes or Kinks as they say
0.08 and those fetishes move you away from
0.08 understanding the actual purpose of sex
0.08 being bonding and babies this is because
0.08 it makes you focus intently on the
0.08 pleasure of the ACT not the end goal of
0.08 the act it fundamentally shifts things
0.08 such that pleasure is the end goal as
0.08 opposed to understanding that pleasure
0.08 is merely a byproduct concomitant to the
0.08 sexual act quitting has made me more
0.08 drawn to the Natural female figure this
0.08 is how it&;s supposed to be as opposed to
0.08 being attracted to unnatural BBL
0.08 arguably cartoonish women it&;s sort of
0.08 like look at the differences between NFL
0.08 wives and NBA wives I&;ve noticed that a
0.08 lot of the NFL Wives have a sort of
0.08 natural beauty to them they&;re like you
0.08 know the sweetheart that you meet in
0.08 high school or a college girl that you&;d
0.08 see at your campus whereas NBA wives are
0.08 more common to have a bunch of plastic
0.08 surgery and have like bbls and a lot of
0.08 other gross stuff and this is possibly
0.08 because most NFL players are in college
0.08 for at least 3 years the NFL requires
0.08 you to be out of high school for at
0.08 least three years as opposed to the NBA
0.08 wherein you can go to the NBA right out
0.08 of college first right out of the first
0.08 year of college so perhaps the fame and
0.08 fortune doesn&;t get to them as much and
0.08 they think more about school they think
0.08 more about the the the intimate things
0.08 in life more and that&;s a deterrent and
0.08 also helps them warm up into the pro
0.08 league porn quite literally removes your
0.08 will it makes you a sort of lobotomized
0.08 zombie with lower impulse control and
0.08 poorer decision-making so everyone in
0.08 the comments who&;s probably going to get
0.08 mad at me for this damning critique of
0.08 pornography that I&;m going to uh going
0.08 to elucidate you guys on you guys quite
0.08 literally do not have the mental
0.08 wherewithal to properly assess and
0.08 evaluate what I&;m saying their brain is
0.08 unable to believe anything beyond naked
0.08 lady pretty must touch PE PE apolly says
0.08 naked lady pretty but you don&;t touch p
0.08 PE must attack apolly I mean these
0.08 people are just not in the habit of
0.08 thinking at all whatsoever their impulse
0.08 control and decision-making key parts of
0.08 what separates biologically humans from
0.08 animals is impaired they have rewired
0.08 themselves to a juvenile State the
0.08 prefrontal cortex has lost gray matter
0.08 and they are unable to just critically
0.08 think anymore so often people when I
0.08 when I give my critique of pornography
0.08 they they go out lashing like hyenas and
0.08 this is clearly a symptom of the fact
0.08 that they themselves are addicted
0.08 fourthly here porn makes life in general
0.08 less interesting I&;ve kind of mentioned
0.08 this before but you become kind of
0.08 incapable of recognizing the natural
0.08 beauty of a woman you won&;t be able to
0.08 just look at her eyes and just adore her
0.08 eyes for for being what they are but it
0.08 goes even beyond that because life
0.08 itself becomes dull it&;s hard to find
0.08 the motivation to do anything because
0.08 frankly like what&;s the point none of
0.08 anything in life is going to give you
0.08 the same dope Rush that you get from
0.08 watching pornography and your brain is
0.08 already telling you that you fulfilled
0.08 your basis desire because as guys let&;s
0.08 face it most of what we do is ultimately
0.08 to reproduce so by artificially
0.08 fulfilling that through pornography
0.08 we&;re telling our brain that we&;ve
0.08 already fulfilled our basist purpose
0.08 fifthly I realized that I was wasting a
0.08 lot of time I don&;t think I need to get
0.08 into the specifics of things cuz that&;s
0.08 just kind of weird but yeah I was
0.08 wasting a lot of time sixthly I think my
0.08 ADHD symptoms actually went down I think
0.08 this is because I start to take more
0.08 Delight in actual regular
0.08 accomplishments it isn&;t actually
0.08 quitting porn in and of itself that
0.08 reaps results it is the ideology of
0.08 putting in time and effort in order to
0.08 reap results to delay gratification and
0.08 put in work in order to succeed
0.08 seventhly it made me feel extremely
0.08 empowered I feel like I had control over
0.08 my life and I can do anything I want so
0.08 long as I put my mind to it as men we
0.08 have this influx of testosterone during
0.08 these critical periods of our life and
0.08 we need to learn to transmit that energy
0.08 into something productive we can&;t spend
0.08 these critical years and this critical
0.08 testosterone boost that we get from
0.08 puberty withing ourselves away in the
0.08 shackles of pornography pursue those
0.08 repressed dreams that you&;ve had don&;t
0.08 be locked in the snares of pornography
0.08 learn that skill you&;ve always want to
0.08 learn about pursue that dream that
0.08 you&;ve always had live life with a fire
0.08 in your eyes most people who watch my
0.08 videos lift weights because this is a
0.08 fitness channel lifting weights
0.08 increases your testosterone and this may
0.08 seem like it&;ll make it harder for you
0.08 to to ward off these Temptations and it
0.08 will but if you are able to actually
0.08 channel that testosterone channel that
0.08 extra testosterone into something
0.08 productive you will be a greater force
0.08 for good than you could have ever
0.08 believed that power that you have once
0.08 harnessed will be a greater force for
0.08 good and the last benefit I&;ve realized
0.08 from quitting pornography is that it
0.08 really helps my relationship with God it
0.08 removes extra barriers that pull me away
0.08 from God before I would feel as though
0.08 my prayers aren&;t really all that useful
0.08 not really all that meaningful because I
0.08 know that in the next couple of days or
0.08 even hours that would probably just go
0.08 back to sinning not like just sinning
0.08 inadvertently but consciously sinning by
0.08 watching pornography so perhaps most
0.08 importantly of all it made it such that
0.08 I could
0.08 actually maybe you shouldn&;t actually
0.08 think this way but this is just how what
0.08 happened when I when I quit I could
0.08 actually face God and I feel as though
0.08 I&;m not you know contradicting Myself by
0.08 praying think about what you&;re actually
0.08 doing when you&;re watching pornography
0.08 you&;re sitting there watching watchingg
0.08 somewhat like a cuck someone else having
0.08 sex remove the screen and replace it
0.08 with I don&;t know binoculars or
0.08 something and you&;ll realize just how
0.08 pathetic it actually is when we look at
0.08 porn we&;re like faceless onlookers
0.08 peering like stalkers through a hotel
0.08 while someone else is buying a
0.08 prostitute but it&;s worse than that
0.08 because pornography is less honest at
0.08 least the Peeping Tom is forced to
0.08 reckon with his behavior he&;s out in the
0.08 cold ducking in the bushes and from
0.08 there he sees the entire act for all it
0.08 is the whole dismal exchange he doesn&;t
0.08 get to flip in and out of dozens of
0.08 scenes consuming portions of it and
0.08 glancing here and there at different
0.08 scenes he doesn&;t get to close the tab
0.08 when it&;s all over and act like nothing
0.08 happened he&;s there like a stalker like
0.08 a stranger in the dark he has to go home
0.08 and deal with the reality of who he is
0.08 and what he has he&;s just become he&;s
0.08 getting off to what ideally he would
0.08 want to do but instead he settles for
0.08 the scraps the porn viewer on the other
0.08 hand feels insulated what he&;s doing is
0.08 identical but doesn&;t seem that way
0.08 because he feels safer it&;s a screen not
0.08 a window it&;s an amateur porn star not a
0.08 prostitute his actions are legal even
0.08 normal by today&;s standards yes he tells
0.08 himself I&;m different but you&;re not
0.08 that&;s a lie everything about
0.08 pornography is a lie we are growing up
0.08 in a society wherein everyone has grown
0.08 up on a diet of porn addiction and
0.08 hookups who knows what Society is going
0.08 to look like hopefully we&;ll be able to
0.08 ban the whole thing but I&;m not very
0.08 confident that that&;s going to happen
0.08 and if the idea of banning pornography
0.08 sounds crazy to you then consider the
0.08 fact that you are extremely beholden to
0.08 this thing you&;re like gollin as
0.08 precious desperately Clinging On to this
0.08 thing for most of human existence for
0.08 most of Western Society in general we
0.08 did not have this and we worked
0.08 perfectly fine in fact we worked better
0.08 and now this is the part of the video
0.08 where I&;m either going to lose you or
0.08 you&;re going to love me I don&;t want to
0.08 just make another poor and bad video
0.08 because those are kind of a dime of
0.08 dozen at this point a lot of people kind
0.08 of understand that I&;m going to go even
0.08 further Beyond I&;m going to go Super
0.08 Saiyan 3 on this I&;m going to go much
0.08 deep deeper and tell you guys that you
0.08 should also be a virgin I myself am also
0.08 a virgin so I guess in this sense I&;ve
0.08 been on semen retention or whatever it&;s
0.08 called for the past 5 years people
0.08 generally understand that they probably
0.08 shouldn&;t be watching porn and maybe
0.08 they justify to themselves but they I
0.08 think that in our brain we all
0.08 inherently know that it&;s a shameful act
0.08 but saving yourself for marriage that
0.08 doesn&;t seem to be as intuitive to a lot
0.08 of people this is where I start to lose
0.08 a lot of people when I start talking
0.08 about sexual Purity but really noof fap
0.08 is only one part of the story if you
0.08 just St at nofap you&;re only really
0.08 getting like like frankly you&;re only
0.08 like 30% of the way there if you&;re
0.08 still having premarital sex you&;re
0.08 missing the bigger picture what you&;re
0.08 actually doing really is you&;re trading
0.08 one masturbatory device for another
0.08 masturbatory device I won&;t explain this
0.08 part too much because it kind of
0.08 detracts from the main point of the
0.08 video maybe I can make a video about
0.08 that later but just know that
0.08 understanding that virginity is uh meant
0.08 for marriage and your sexual all sexual
0.08 acts are meant for marriage is a key
0.08 part in the sexual reconfiguration being
0.08 a virgin now at 25 is not cool I get
0.08 shamed for it but I must stay strong if
0.08 you&;re in the same position that I&;m in
0.08 don&;t let anyone shame you for being a
0.08 virgin because yeah even Christians that
0.08 I know shame me for being a virgin
0.08 they&;re at the at best confused and at
0.08 worse they actually shame me for being a
0.08 virgin I went to a Christian school and
0.08 I talked to my classmates every once in
0.08 a while and this is their exact reaction
0.08 they&;re confused and they like kind of
0.08 Shame me for it when I was in college
0.08 there was this guy who claimed to be a
0.08 Russian Orthodox Christian
0.08 and he said that his goal was to make me
0.08 lose my virginity before I graduated
0.08 college that and he said it with a
0.08 Steely sort of conviction he was dead
0.08 serious that he was going to do it and
0.08 he would constantly look through girls
0.08 on Instagram and try and get them try
0.08 and DM them and try and get me to hook
0.08 up with them there are wolves and
0.08 sheep&;s clothing they are masquerading
0.08 as Christians and they are not your
0.08 friend not everyone who says Lord Lord
0.08 is truly with Christ so now being a
0.08 virgin and being abstinent actually is
0.08 good but you also need to actually be
0.08 pursuing women and you also have to need
0.08 to be actually attracting women if your
0.08 goal is to get married you should be
0.08 able to still make yourself attractive
0.08 right some Christians take pride in the
0.08 fact that they&;re a virgin but they
0.08 don&;t really have any tempt they&;re not
0.08 really fighting any Temptations so it
0.08 not that it&;s a bad thing to you know
0.08 not have these Temptations but if you
0.08 don&;t even have the ability to attract a
0.08 woman then it does it doesn&;t seem as
0.08 impressive right I&;m talking
0.08 specifically about people who can
0.08 attract women who have attracted women
0.08 but they have warted off The Temptations
0.08 now if you&;re a virgin and you&;re saving
0.08 yourself from Marriage that still is in
0.08 and of itself a good thing but it&;s it&;s
0.08 no there&;s no doubt that it&;s more
0.08 character building if you have the
0.08 Temptations and you&;re able to Ward them
0.08 off and build your character from
0.08 overcoming them now on relationships
0.08 being a virgin does not help you on the
0.08 surface but as you dig deeper and deeper
0.08 into it you realize that It ultimately
0.08 does help you most people will think
0.08 that you&;re immature when you tell them
0.08 you&;re a version they&;ll think that
0.08 you&;re some kind of so kind a
0.08 13-year-old child who&;s just getting
0.08 into his first relationship but no you
0.08 are not immature you are actually the
0.08 most manly person that they&;ve ever met
0.08 but their brains are too corrupted by
0.08 sexual corrosion to realize it you have
0.08 reigned in your sexual desires for the
0.08 proper good and have vigorously toiled
0.08 against literal demons and came out on
0.08 top on the internet in the circles that
0.08 I&;m in I do get some congratulatory
0.08 remarks for being a virgin on nofap but
0.08 even then generally speaking people just
0.08 think I&;m kind of weird and again many
0.08 Christians say the same thing about me
0.08 this is a really damning critique on the
0.08 state of Christianity and I mean damning
0.08 literally right some people get mad when
0.08 I say this but I mean literally damning
0.08 as in this sort of mentality is
0.08 literally going to damn you and
0.08 pornography itself is putting you on a
0.08 track to literally damn yourself so I
0.08 mean it in the completely biblical sense
0.08 when I say damning I say with no
0.08 hesitation that you should wear your
0.08 virginity as a badge of honor what we
0.08 gain too easily we esteem too lightly if
0.08 you are a virgin with a couple of days
0.08 or even years on noap consider the fact
0.08 that your first sexual encounter will be
0.08 with the one that you love and the one
0.08 that you will be with for the rest of
0.08 your life your template for sexual
0.08 attraction itself will be molded around
0.08 that one person you aren&;t the weird one
0.08 everyone else is the weird one you were
0.08 acting in accord to how you were
0.08 intelligently designed you&;re standing
0.08 clean in god-given pure water whereas
0.08 everyone else is literally ruminating in
0.08 their own feces and asking you to join
0.08 in in a world where divorce and Rel
0.08 relational dissatisfaction are rampant
0.08 you dare to be different tons of women
0.08 offer themselves up like a masturbatory
0.08 device like essentially a a sentient
0.08 Fleshlight but you resist and speaking
0.08 of women going back to
0.08 relationships being a virgin is an
0.08 extremely good way to weed out bad women
0.08 if they are turned off by the fact that
0.08 you&;re a virgin they fundamentally do
0.08 not understand relationships let me say
0.08 this again in another way if women turn
0.08 you down because you&;re not experienced
0.08 enough you should get down on your hands
0.08 and knees and thank God because you just
0.08 dodged a bullet you two are so
0.08 fundamentally incompatible that it is
0.08 just going to cause you a ton of
0.08 headaches if you get into a relationship
0.08 with that person relationships are about
0.08 growing with someone on the Grand
0.08 Adventure of life not about them gaining
0.08 the maximum amount of pleasure that they
0.08 can derive from you as an aside this is
0.08 also why the idea of being sexually
0.08 compatible is literally fake or rather
0.08 it fundamentally misunder understands
0.08 the purpose of sex I have no doubt that
0.08 some people have sexual appetites that
0.08 match better with other people compared
0.08 to another person but the point is
0.08 bonding and giving yourself up to that
0.08 other person the Bible says that our
0.08 body is not ours and likewise the wife&;s
0.08 body is not theirs there&;s a push and
0.08 pull relationship in that sense you give
0.08 yourself up to her and she gives herself
0.08 up to you and if you are humbly attuned
0.08 enough you will derive maximum pleasure
0.08 from the fact that you&;re just with your
0.08 wife when you&;re on noof fap and a
0.08 virgin you&;re very sensitive to any sort
0.08 of sexual
0.08 titilation no pun intended make make
0.08 sure that as your brain forms this
0.08 critical sexual Benchmark that with the
0.08 right person with the person that you
0.08 will be with forever in the union the
0.08 holy Union of matrimony your first
0.08 sexual encounter leaves a powerful
0.08 mental imprint your brain creates
0.08 powerful synapses that Bond you towards
0.08 everything that happened leading up to
0.08 the event everything that happens within
0.08 the event becomes very much ingrained
0.08 sex is the biggest dopamine hit we can
0.08 get naturally so it&;s going to create
0.08 very powerful synapses and this is why
0.08 people get unnatural sexual desires like
0.08 furries this is one of those things
0.08 wherein they&;ll admit it if you ask them
0.08 but the moment you point it out they get
0.08 mad at you for pointing it out ask
0.08 furries how they came to their sexual
0.08 fetishes and they&;ll tell you every time
0.08 that they had some kind of weird
0.08 experience when they were younger and
0.08 that sort of left a permanent mental
0.08 imprint and now they want to have sex
0.08 and anthropomorphic animal costumes now
0.08 imagine your first sexual experiences
0.08 with your husband or your wife if you
0.08 can find all sexual experiences between
0.08 you and your spouse the likelihood that
0.08 you will search for sexual experiences
0.08 outside of there are much lower hence
0.08 why people who are virgins tend to have
0.08 longer marriages virgins at the marriage
0.08 bed tend to have longer marriages you
0.08 are molding your sexual appetite around
0.08 her and she likewise so a lot of you
0.08 guys are likely wondering how I was able
0.08 to fight back I go to the gym there&;s a
0.08 lot of there&;s a lot of Temptation
0.08 there&;s always things competing for my
0.08 attention one of the ways I fight off
0.08 against it is by decorating my room with
0.08 lots of Christian paraphernalia I mean
0.08 this shirt is is one example right I
0.08 don&;t really wear this in public but you
0.08 know if you have a bunch of clothes like
0.08 this about Christian attire then the
0.08 likelihood that you&;re going to
0.08 lustfully flirt with another woman is
0.08 extremely low because that&;s just an
0.08 insane cognitive dissonance that you&;d
0.08 have to be almost mentally deranged to
0.08 ignore this is also part of the reason I
0.08 created my own Christian merchandise I
0.08 don&;t have it with me right now I&;m I&;m
0.08 not wearing it right now but I can link
0.08 in the description if you&;re interested
0.08 but I have a bunch of Japanese wee um
0.08 Christian attire because I think it
0.08 looks cool and also because it
0.08 makes me focus on what actually I&;m
0.08 trying to focus on my car before I
0.08 crashed it actually had at the front of
0.08 his license plate that said believe so
0.08 if I wanted to if I wanted to go up with
0.08 a girl I&;d have to walk outside and see
0.08 my car with a cross that says believe on
0.08 it and then I had to really reconsider
0.08 why I&;m going on this date second of all
0.08 this is possible for you not exactly
0.08 possible for me right now but try to go
0.08 to a gym with fewer women I know that
0.08 some people will tell you that well when
0.08 there&;s woman there you live more that&;s
0.08 probably true but what&;s an extra few
0.08 pounds to your own soul honestly I take
0.08 my soul over that but yeah if that&;s not
0.08 possible for you then you&;re going to
0.08 have to be constantly looking at the
0.08 ceiling or looking at the ground because
0.08 that&;s what the sexual Revolution did it
0.08 made it such that guys can&;t walk around
0.08 and look forward anymore we have to look
0.08 at the ceiling or look at the ground now
0.08 what I also did is I really internalized
0.08 the idea that porn is cheating this is
0.08 one of those claims that sounds insane
0.08 to people who have a porn habit who are
0.08 probably watching porn in their
0.08 relationships right now but it makes
0.08 makes a lot of sense to people who still
0.08 have the ability to actually think your
0.08 porn habit is an adultery habit I think
0.08 it goes without saying that actively
0.08 searching out for other women while
0.08 you&;re in a relationship is cheating
0.08 actively getting off to other women
0.08 while you&;re in a relationship is even
0.08 worse that&;s what porn is though
0.08 actively getting off to other women just
0.08 because it&;s online just because there&;s
0.08 a screen in front of you doesn&;t change
0.08 your state of mind you are fundamentally
0.08 giving into your sexual desire with
0.08 someone who is not your partner but if
0.08 you don&;t have a partner and you&;re like
0.08 okay well this is all cool we don&;t have
0.08 a partner you&;re still training yourself
0.08 to become an adult adulterer if you ever
0.08 do get a partner because even if you
0.08 aren&;t literally having sex with the
0.08 women on your screen you&;re still
0.08 mentally doing something very similar
0.08 and your brain doesn&;t know the
0.08 difference this is why sexing with other
0.08 people is considered cheating the
0.08 physical act doesn&;t absolve you of all
0.08 the blame apart from the most debased
0.08 people I think basically everyone was
0.08 going to agree with this for some reason
0.08 though porn gets this random exception
0.08 it seems to really do that all the time
0.08 when it comes to like age verification
0.08 laws as well porn gets this random
0.08 exception people seem to like just love
0.08 giving porn this random exception
0.08 probably just indicative of the fact
0.08 that they are so beholden to it and they
0.08 don&;t want to see it be criticized or
0.08 gone away in any sense the fact of the
0.08 matter is very clear porn is cheating
0.08 your partner shouldn&;t have to be
0.08 competing with a screen lastly what I
0.08 did is I made an extremely long document
0.08 on my computer about all the reasons I
0.08 hate pornography and all the reasons I
0.08 want to save myself for marriage I
0.08 actually still have the document and I
0.08 basically used that and copied and
0.08 pasted and made it this video and after
0.08 I did this it took me like 3 or 4 days
0.08 to write it down I end up writing like
0.08 tens of thousands of words on it it
0.08 created such a strong cognitive
0.08 dissonance that I didn&;t even want to
0.08 watch pornography anymore it also
0.08 ironically led to me developing my book
0.08 I shared it with some of my cool friends
0.08 and they told me that it was really good
0.08 and it was a really passionate
0.08 dissertation and that I should write a
0.08 whole book on it obviously I didn&;t
0.08 write a book on it but I did take the
0.08 idea of writing a book on things I&;m
0.08 passionate about and that transformed
0.08 into muscular Christianity and now you
0.08 just got an extended preface to my book
0.08 which I obviously did not elucidate on
0.08 in the actual book but yeah this also
0.08 means that in a very direct way that if
0.08 I didn&;t stop watching pornography I
0.08 wouldn&;t have written my book not only
0.08 because I wouldn&;t have had the will to
0.08 write my book I wouldn&;t have had the
0.08 discipline to write my book but also
0.08 because I wouldn&;t have even had the
0.08 idea to write something to write so
0.08 passionately about a topic but I
0.08 wouldn&;t have had the idea to write long
0.08 form about something that I get really
0.08 passionate about doing all this is great
0.08 but there are a lot of ch Alles right
0.08 I&;m not hypogonadal I still am a young
0.08 male with an extremely high sex drive I
0.08 still have this desperate desire for
0.08 female companionship Paul said that it&;s
0.08 best to be celibate but if you can&;t be
0.08 celibate then you should be you should
0.08 be getting married and I think that only
0.08 people who have like the supernatural
0.08 gift of celibacy could probably go their
0.08 entire life without having sex this is
0.08 like the the nuns the priests and the
0.08 people who are just especially devoted
0.08 to God unfortunately I don&;t think I
0.08 have that ability I think that I
0.08 definitely do want to get married and in
0.08 general right I&;m not perfect it&;s not
0.08 as though I still don&;t struggle with
0.08 Temptations I ultimately know that being
0.08 celibate is just a stepping stone to the
0.08 end point of getting married so I think
0.08 it would be a bad idea to leave this
0.08 video off without giving you guys some
0.08 advice I understand many people have
0.08 fallen into sexual sin and they feel
0.08 guilty about it and I&;m sorry about that
0.08 on one hand it&;s good to acknowledge the
0.08 fact that what you did was wrong but on
0.08 the other hand you can&;t fully take back
0.08 the natural consequences of your sin God
0.08 will of course spiritually forgive you
0.08 and watch you knew but there still are
0.08 temporal elements of our sin that don&;t
0.08 get fully vanished the average person is
0.08 first exposed to pornography when
0.08 they&;re like 9 years old at this point
0.08 before they even know what sex is
0.08 they&;ve already binged hundreds of hours
0.08 of pornography most likely what chance
0.08 do people have at a healthy sexual
0.08 relationship they&;ve already been
0.08 injecting hundreds of of hardcore
0.08 pornography into their cerebral before
0.08 they&;ve ever even thought about being
0.08 with a woman before they&;ve seen a woman
0.08 naked before they&;ve slept with a woman
0.08 before they kissed with a woman before
0.08 they&;ve even held hands with a Woman
0.08 They they&;ve already seen a woman
0.08 debased and defiled in every which way
0.08 this isn&;t an excuse for our problems
0.08 but it&;s to just give it perspective we
0.08 are all simultaneously victims of a
0.08 terrible culture and we are also
0.08 participants active willing participants
0.08 of the terrible culture and this likely
0.08 the experience of all of our lives right
0.08 cuz I&;m a male born the 21st century
0.08 I&;ve dealt with this I think that older
0.08 people Boomers they might not fully
0.08 understand the scope of things but like
0.08 I do I was there with you guys now the
0.08 only hope for a better future is to stop
0.08 now literally today don&;t go ahead and
0.08 schedule like you know I&;m going to do
0.08 this after the video no you literally
0.08 stop right now your brain is luckily
0.08 very plastic and can mold itself back to
0.08 its default setting to some degree but
0.08 it becomes much harder if you don&;t
0.08 start now you need a sufficiently long
0.08 period of abstinence people who struggle
0.08 with porn are not irredeemably bad
0.08 people right I won&;t yell at a person
0.08 who struggles with porn addiction
0.08 anymore I&;ll yell at a crack addict who
0.08 is trying to get his next fix but at
0.08 least the crack addict won&;t find many
0.08 people aside from his dealer I guess who
0.08 will actively tell him that it&;s
0.08 actually a good thing it&;s actually a
0.08 healthy thing to be smoking crack if he
0.08 Ventures outside of his abandoned Shack
0.08 where he scores his dope he probably
0.08 won&;t find any respectable person who
0.08 tells you hey man it&;s totally fine just
0.08 you do you crack isn&;t even a big deal
0.08 it&;s actually totally natural to smoke
0.08 crack so in a way the crack addict
0.08 actually has a leg up over the porn
0.08 addict the porn addict has has to fight
0.08 a myriad of people who are actively
0.08 egging him on to continue his addiction
0.08 he has to fight off against people who
0.08 are trying to convince him that it&;s
0.08 just harmless fun and even worse porn is
0.08 far more ubiquitous and easy to access
0.08 just type in four letters into Google
0.08 and you get your hit and you can&;t even
0.08 watch too many modern shows nowadays
0.08 that don&;t have a random sex scene in it
0.08 you have to understand right now that
0.08 your brain is telling you that it needs
0.08 to have porn but you need to
0.08 fundamentally rewire it into telling it
0.08 that it doesn&;t actually need it this is
0.08 actually why you get the Cravings that
0.08 you get what I used to do to help myself
0.08 is whenever I would feel these urges I
0.08 would literally just push my technology
0.08 away to the side and I would sit there
0.08 and wait for the urges to go away this
0.08 is my way of reprogramming my brain to
0.08 tell it that you don&;t actually need to
0.08 do this thing you can just put it away
0.08 and sit there and nothing&;s going to
0.08 happen to you but of course in my
0.08 experience the best way to actually curb
0.08 this is to tell your brain that there&;s
0.08 something better out there there&;s
0.08 actual female companionship that you can
0.08 look forward to your mind craves female
0.08 companionship and it grows restive
0.08 without it and I understand not everyone
0.08 can do this because of where they are in
0.08 life and if that&;s not possible for you
0.08 then a good step is to create a bunch of
0.08 porn blockers on your phones and your
0.08 tablets and and your computers and stuff
0.08 Idle Hands Are The Devil&;s play things
0.08 or however that quote goes and there is
0.08 a lot of Truth to that go out and do
0.08 things especially go out of your room
0.08 and do things because your room is just
0.08 room makes it way too easy if you need
0.08 Solitude to like do homework and stuff
0.08 and you feel like your room is the only
0.08 good place to do that then no it&;s not
0.08 go to a library or something go to a
0.08 coffee shop or something and do it and
0.08 finally get a support group what that be
0.08 like-minded real life communities or
0.08 like-minded online communities I&;m not
0.08 sure which one to recommend because this
0.08 is not what I did but I hear it&;s it&;s
0.08 very helpful and then just logically
0.08 speaking is very helpful so if you guys
0.08 have any ideas put those in the comments
0.08 and help people out every fiber of your
0.08 being needs to be dedicated to rebelling
0.08 against this thing you need to hate it
0.08 and if you think you hate it right now
0.08 you need to hate it even more rebel
0.08 against the entire sexual Revolution I
0.08 hate what this did to my own life and I
0.08 hate what it&;s doing currently to young
0.08 men&;s lives I hate how this Force at
0.08 least in my spirit erience is perhaps
0.08 the number one deterrent from people
0.08 becoming Christian I cannot tell you how
0.08 many people get a whiff of sex and then
0.08 all of a sudden they become more loose
0.08 in their Christian beliefs I can&;t tell
0.08 you how many people leave Christianity
0.08 altogether their eternal security is
0.08 being sacrificed at the altar of of
0.08 hentai because theic are connected right
0.08 once you start being permissive of one
0.08 thing then other things become more
0.08 permissible and ultimately if you&;re
0.08 allowing all these things in your head
0.08 then at some point you&;re going to have
0.08 to choose between God and your desires
0.08 and your habitual desires will be too
0.08 overwhelming that you&;re not going to be
0.08 able to choose the right thing it&;s
0.08 extremely hard for most people to even
0.08 see the truth if their eyes are blurred
0.08 by pornography I&;m so done with it I
0.08 want it gone destroyed burnt to the
0.08 ground and instead a 10,000 ft statue of
0.08 Jesus Christ is erected lastly I&;ll
0.08 leave you with this message transcend
0.08 your primitive desires become all who
0.08 God made you to be fulfill the natural
0.08 functions that God designed you to
0.08 fulfill God has the best plan for you in
0.08 life and you should trust him I honestly
0.08 believe that this is a right of passage
0.08 for all men and upon completion you will
0.08 become one step closer to becoming that
0.08 ideal self that God has envisioned for
0.08 you thank you for watching don&;t forget
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0.08 more mentorship like this and I&;ll catch
0.08 you all next time peace
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