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La vidéo dure 00:50:37 secondes et porte le titre You humans masturbate a lot, fournis par l’auteur. La description détaillée est la suivante :« Vous, les humains, vous masturbez beaucoup 00:00:00 – Silence 00:00:35 – Parlez s’il vous plaît ne prenez pas cette vidéo comme une attaque personnelle. Traitez-le comme un bruit et continuez, laissez la conscience faire son travail. Merci et je t’aime *** Considérations de la chaîne: 1. N’écoutez pas mes mots, écoutez mon silence. 2.C’est mon expérience et non la vôtre, faites la vôtre. 3.Je peut ne pas sembler bien mais je serai honnête avec vous. 4.Je ne suis pas meilleur que vous ou quelqu’un d’autre 5. Je ne suis en fait pas un extraterre (tagstotranslate) La découverte de soi ».

La plateforme YouTube permet une grande variété de contenus vidéo qui touchent des sujets allant de l’humour à des intérêts personnels divers. Elle met un point d’honneur à fournir un espace sûr et respectueux où chacun peut découvrir de nouveaux points de vue tout en suivant les directives communautaires.

Analyser les avantages d’un sevrage réussi

Mettre l’accent sur le chemin vers une épanouissement permanent

Diminuer la dépendance permet de vivre des bénéfices durables dans la vie privée, professionnelle et sociale.

Expliquer l’amélioration progressive de la santé mentale

Lorsque l’on cesse, l’énergie augmente, l’humeur s’améliore et la concentration devient plus claire.

Illustrer l’évolution vers des relations plus saines et plus équilibrées

Les échanges avec un partenaire deviennent plus riches, avec une relation émotionnelle et physique solidifiée.

Analyser les racines et les manifestations de la dépendance à la masturbation

Analyser les indices d’une dépendance potentielle

La dépendance se manifeste par une augmentation de la fréquence, associée à une incapacité à se contrôler, ce qui peut nuire à la qualité des rapports avec un partenaire.

Observer les influences sur le bien-être physique et mental

L’abus de masturbation et la consommation habituelle de pornographie stimulent de manière constante le système dopaminergique, ce qui peut causer des troubles comme une éjaculation précoce, une baisse d’énergie et une insatisfaction sexuelle.

Dresser un portrait des pratiques associées à la masturbation

Connue pour ses effets bénéfiques sur la santé, comme la gestion du stress et une meilleure conscience corporelle, la masturbation peut devenir problématique si elle est pratiquée de manière habituelle.

Établir une feuille de route pour arrêter

Proposer des solutions pratiques pour réduire cette activité

• Remplacer cette habitude par d’autres occupations : Pratiquez une activité physique ou testez de nouveaux passe-temps.
• Identifier les sources de déclenchement : Faites attention à ce qui vous incite à agir.
• Remplacer par de nouvelles activités : Faites du sport ou explorez de nouveaux intérêts.

Proposer un guide pour éviter de rechuter

• Créer un emploi du temps quotidien : Inscrivez des tâches et activités à réaliser chaque jour.
• Organiser un emploi du temps quotidien : Planifiez des tâches à accomplir pour occuper vos journées efficacement.

Mettre l’accent sur l’importance d’un réseau de soutien

• Voir un sexologue : Ce professionnel peut fournir des stratégies adaptées à vos besoins. comme ce leader de la chasteté installé Paris.
• Participer à des groupes de soutien : L’échange avec des personnes ayant des objectifs similaires est motivant.

Identifier les raisons de l’élargissement de cette pratique

Aborder les aspects psychologiques et émotionnels

L’anxiété, le stress ou des insatisfactions ailleurs dans la vie peuvent conduire à l’excès de cette pratique.

Analyser les conséquences de la pornographie sur les comportements

La pornographie est un facteur significatif. Elle accroît fréquemment l’envie de se masturber et peut altérer la perception de la sexualité.

Étudier l’impact de l’isolement sur le désir

L’isolement et un désir non satisfait dans une relation ou dans la vie personnelle sont des éléments clés dans l’engagement dans cette pratique.

Repenser la masturbation : un défi pour une sexualité épanouie

Pour de nombreuses personnes, hommes et femmes confondus, mettre fin à la masturbation peut représenter un véritable défi. Si cette activité est souvent vue comme une pratique saine et normale pour mieux comprendre sa sexualité, elle peut toutefois devenir problématique lorsqu’elle prend une place instinctive et empiète sur d’autres sphères de la vie, comme le travail ou la santé mentale.

En conclusion

Arrêter la masturbation excessive est une démarche qui nécessite de la patience et de la persévérance. En suivant un plan détaillé et avec l’aide appropriée, il est tout à fait possible de franchir cet obstacle et de profiter des avantages d’une vie plus épanouie et orientée vers des objectifs plus gratifiants.

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Retranscription des paroles de la vidéo: modern man is a masturbatory man modern man put himself to sleep with masturbation perhaps the biggest epidemic that we are facing is masturbation addiction and no one really talks about it because it’s very personal very private very shameful very guilty pleasure that’s the problem guilty pleasure it cannot be together this guilt and pleasure cannot be together I see people talk about guilty pleasure all the time I’m like why do you do that to yourself either feel guilt or pleasure why do you mix these two together because the moment you mix these two together you become comfortable with whatever you’re doing because you already accepted the guilt to understand masturbation we need to look at the structure of the society why masturbation happens what is this masturbation why do we do it we turn masturbation to coping mechanism the way that the society works is so unjust that you need a coping mechanism when you become a teenager one of the best coping mechanism for any man is to masturbate and get himself to a state of pleasure get get himself to the state of orgasm and for once it feels something meaningful for once in this life feels something so joyful that worth living because if you look at the society if you go into the society you will realize that there is nothing worse really living everything is pain everything is anguish stress anxiety the fear of missing out the fear of not making it then you become a teenager you realize you have a profound energy in you you realize that there is something that is so powerful and give you so much drive to live but the slowly by and by you don’t use this energy to become let’s say an athlete you don’t use this energy to become let’s say master of a craft because that takes time that does not come with instant gratification but instead there’s something that we can do to ourselves and it comes with instant gratification it comes with orgasmic joy so naturally you tend to choose that one the instant gratification because competing in the world is not the easiest it comes with lots of pressure so to release this pressure you need masturbation to release this pressure of life you need to stimulate yourself enough to get to a point that you can find certain amount of meaning certain amount of joy no matter how futile and useless this activity is you want that joy you want that orgasm you continue doing this process until you break it your brain doesn’t give you enough joy and orgasm for just simply releasing for just simply ejaculating now your brain wants novelty now your brain tells you this is not enough you need to create more imagination you need to create more fantasy to be able to maintain this extreme otherwise even ejaculation will not cut it so what we do we come across porn we come across hypersexualized world we continuously objectify females because we are in the state of masturbation we have to objectify female because we don’t have access to it therefore in our mind in our head we start imagining things we see woman in the street we instantly imagine things we instantly find ourselves in bed with them why is this why we have to continuously objectify woman why we cannot just be simply friends with them simply look at them as another human being this again goes back to masturbation the more you masturbate the lonelier you become the more you masturbate everything becomes so hard in terms of communicating with the female energy why is this happening these days so many people talk about men and their isolation I think men brought this to themselves by just masturbating a lot watching porn continuously they don’t need the feel for going after a female because continuously releasing continuously let go of this life force energy this life force energy can turn you to someone that you can be very comfortable very good with female energy but no you choose to completely become lonely I say this because I know how it feels masturbation addiction plus porn addiction will lead you to loneliness that’s an addiction that it’s best when you are alone you cannot watch porn with others you cannot masturbate with others so you have to find yourself in a state of aloneness in a state of safe comfort to be able to let go how many times you find yourself that you wanna go home you rather go home then hanging out because you know if you go home everything is just there for you to enjoy yourself and the more you go deeper in this state of masturbation the lonelier you become because also depression comes in it just holds you down hugs you internet is there to give you all sort of stimulation all sort of fetishes and kinks onlyfans is there to even add more taste and spices to your lonely times and then 10 years passes by you look back you realize you did nothing you realize that you’ve been masturbating all your life you realize that every single night you went to sleep watching porn and then expect your brain to give you a good night’s sleep how is that even possible your brain just watched something that it does not make sense at least in terms of activity with the rise of AI you will have access to all sorts of fetishes all your wildest dreams are becomes available to you but do you really want to continue this process do you really want to continuously release your life force energy for instant gratification I understand that this addiction is not the easiest addiction to quit perhaps is one of the hardest addictions to quit because unlike any other addiction the means for it is always available to you either it’s going to be yourself alone in a even public toilet a stall your phone is available everything is there any other addiction you have to acquire the means for it drug addict you gotta go buy the drug alcohol you need to go buy the alcohol when you put it away it’s easier for you to just quit it like when you want to quit a smoking the first thing you do is just throw away the cigarette right I know that you might go pick it up tomorrow but in that moment that you want to quit a smoking you throw away the cigarette you don’t put it in your pocket and say okay I quit the smoking that’s just not possible because you know that if it’s there you will use it you know that if it’s there it’s there now you cannot throw away your hands you cannot throw away your genital it’s always there you cannot throw away your phone internet porn it’s always there no matter what you do it’s always there now you got to a state that you objectify every female energy every female body now you have your phone that there are females there good or bad they also figured out that sex sells so they might be a carpenter and they just put a reel from carpentry but their ass is a little bit more in the frame than the chair that they are working on why is that because it sells because the views comes in no one goes there for the chair everyone goes there for the vision for the imagination now let’s understand what is this masturbation what is it masturbation in men is different than masturbation in woman men are givers it’s an extrovert energy it has to give something woman they are receivers it’s an introvert energy they receive something when a man masturbates it releases his life force energy when a woman masturbates it takes the life force energy so woman’s masturbation is not so dangerous unless it becomes obsession unless it becomes another types of addiction psychological but in itself it’s not dangerous but men’s masturbation is highly dangerous and addictive why because you have access to it yourself when you become a teenager and at the same time there is a force that is forbidding you to do it there is a force that it does not allow you to do it and this two comes together and makes it a perfect match because now you want to do it because it’s yours now you want to do it because no one can not tell you not to do it it’s completely private and perhaps it is dangerous because it gives you one of the strongest compounds that your brain can achieve orgasmic experience then it’s not so easy to get rid of it because it it’s not simply an addiction anymore it’s a coping mechanism the moment you feel stressed the moment you feel anxious you want to masturbate the moment you feel sad the moment you feel depressed you want to masturbate because that’s the only substance that you have access to and it gives you so much pleasure when you masturbate when you release your energy you go into the state of calmness relaxation now you don’t really want to do something else you just wanna chill you just wanna be there and relax because this estate in your life is pretty rare by and by you find yourself that you are masturbating a few times every single day by and by you realize that loneliness is just embracing you by and by you realize that no matter how hard you try even if you go in a relationship masturbation overpower the sexual activity then you masturbate while you are in a relationship this is this is catastrophic to a human being this is catastrophic if you are in a relationship and yet you masturbate this means you will not ever have a long term relationship this means soon enough you become fed up with your partner soon enough you will find yourself that you want to be alone more and more because when you are with your partner you cannot really masturbate when you are with your partner perhaps you feel shame and guilt to tell your partner that look I need this release at the same time that I need you perhaps then you seek loneliness perhaps you seek aloneness because you want to also have your own times alone not only that you also find yourself that you lost taste in your partner perhaps you are a porn addict as well the stimulation that comes from the screen now your partner after it loses its novelty after it loses its mystery you don’t really want it anymore mystery that’s one thing that hooks every single one of us even you when it comes to porn and imaginary things you prefer to have a layer of clothes over the body because you know that your imagination works better than the body itself the body itself doesn’t arouse you anymore the body itself doesn’t have anything it’s the layers over the body that gives meaning to it because your imagination works better I say all of this because I used to be a to to be an addict myself porn addict masturbation addict since I was 12 years old I discovered pornography I discovered masturbation and I think for 15 years I masturbated every single day if not more than once everyday and perhaps I watched porn every single day until depression became too heavy that I could not really accept whatever is happening in my life and don’t get me wrong I wasn’t lonely or not social I was always a social person always friends but at the same time I had another life that it was totally different than my social life you can easily relate to it in private I was a hardcore addict in public I was a great person let’s say like normal perhaps not great but I was fun to be around although it was not so easy for me to find a girlfriend because of course I was a porn addict a masturbation addict when you masturbate a lot when you watch porn a lot then it makes it much harder for you to be able to communicate with female energy communicate with woman your sexual desires change your sexual desires completely gets distorted and then perhaps you find a woman that you like perhaps you get to a a state of relationship and soon you realize that things are not going well at least in terms of sexual life things are not so working and usually the problem is you usually you just don’t find any attraction anymore then you fall back to your addiction then you fall back your watching porn masturbation perhaps in private perhaps in times that you don’t want your partner to see and a slowly a slowly your relationship falls out and then you have to wait for so long until you find another chance to meet a girl because these are just like accidental events because we are not going for it and it happens because we masturbate all the time and if we don’t masturbate then we can easily go for it because it gives you us possibility to go for it a person who doesn’t masturbate perhaps can find another relationship so fast because it doesn’t need an accidental event it needs that person’s drive to go and find let’s say a woman until the depression became too unbearable for me and I just really thought about ending it and when I talk about this depression it has so many aspects to it one aspect perhaps was there masturbation and porn addiction but it wasn’t a big deal for me you you need to realize this it’s not always a big deal it’s just there it was never something that I wanted to just quit or get rid of no it was always there I was fine with it I was just having fun I didn’t necessarily need to have a relationship I was totally fine with masturbation totally fine with porn addiction because I thought to myself well fuck it this is going to be and that’s fine but this adds up to the other aspects of your life this adds up to the depression in other aspects of your life because you’re using it as a coping mechanism right and then you get to a point that you get so fed up with life that you’re like what’s the point of it like why am I living this shit here is a very critical point here either you make it or break it a suicidal man is the prime man to change is a suicidal man is the best man to really actualize himself but most of us don’t do that most of us break don’t make why because breaking is much easier than making but if you really choose to make it you can really create this shift in your life and make yourself fully actualized and some people would ask but how is it how can I just like get rid of masturbation how can I get rid of porn addiction I tried many times I tried all my best I joined all the communities anywhere I could to be able to get support to get rid of this addiction and it’s not possible I know that I tried it many times myself many times and I failed failed failed in masturbation in porn I failed many times but then I realized first thing first this process of you wanting to get rid of it is enough for it to go away it might take 10 years it might take 20 years it might take 30 years but it will go away no matter what either your hormones get less and it goes away your libido becomes completely drained it goes away it’s because you want it to go away but if you don’t want it to go away this is the tricky part if you don’t want it to go away if you don’t actively try to quit it no matter what even if you’re failing but actively try to quit it so if you fail it’s okay continue quitting it continue this process because if you don’t do it then you get to a point that you cannot really easily control your brain when it comes to novelty when it comes to fetishes and kinks how you can get off it’s not so easy anymore your sexual relationships becomes completely distorted you might end up becoming an absolute pervert because all this sex all this porn addiction will get you to a point that you become perverted there’s no other way your brain makes you a perverted because you are so fixated on this sexual energy you’re so fixated on this process that your brain to get off every time needs something new watch yourself when you are looking for porn what you looking for you don’t look for the normal porn do you I don’t think so because you want something new because you want something novel enough to be able to get you off otherwise you might even not feel aroused and that’s what’s happening in your sexual life as well your partner doesn’t really make you aroused until you become so open to your partner then you start talking about your fetishes your perversion just gets bigger and bigger then you try all these new things with your partner and most of the time usually woman don’t really want all these fetishes again unless they are also psychologically conditioned and traumatized but usually woman they just want something simple like sensual because they want the intimacy perhaps this is for another topic and all this sex life perhaps we need to talk about it exclusively but when you don’t do anything about it you become older when you become older now you need to try twice to make yourself aroused and in the in the world that we are living everything is just so hypersexualized and everything looks in a way that a man should be active sexually for 90 years hundred years because it’s possible and that’s unfortunate on its own but let’s not talk about it one thing very important that I want to mention is your perversion becomes so big that you might find yourself in the grey area that area that you don’t wanna go there because you know it’s illegal you know that it’s dangerous you know that you it’s not you it’s your mind that you’re taking to you take you there you get to a gray area that you start hating yourself you start really feeling shame and guilt why do you have these thoughts in your head why do you nasty imagination it’s just because the normal doesn’t cut it anymore why do you think we have all these pedophiles in the world now yeah we always had pedophiles but in this estate of the world perversion it becomes so insanely big that a 50 year old 60 year old have access to TikTok and TikTok will just allow you to have all sort of range of sexual orientations and whatever you have in your head because now you’re young now you might be young you might also be old but what I’m trying to say here is that if you’re young beware that if you do not actively try to quit this process when you are old you’re gonna be in big trouble because when you’re young it’s fine you’re young your attraction is actually not at the same your age you might be like 18 years old 19 years old you might be attracted to 30 years old woman because that’s just has a better psychological effect on you we don’t wanna get in there that’s another topic and everything else but when you become older Hallo Hallo we’ve been talking for more than half an hour now but when you become older now you have access to younger generation now you want younger generation because that’s just like your psychology the older you become the less appealing you become and now in your head your imagination goes toward more younger people later stages in your life you need to actively try to put this away it doesn’t matter how long will it take for you to get rid of it what matters is you really actively try I don’t wanna give you any method I don’t wanna give you any way to quit it perhaps I will in the future but that’s not important what’s important is continue this process no matter how much how many times you fail be in the state of putting it away because if you take this out of your life and does not make it a coping mechanism I promise you you become so comfortable with yourself you become so in tune with your outside world that you can achieve anything you want the sun been in my eyes for so long now I can’t really see but I feel like I want to talk a little bit more about this because I think I need to touch some points that is important for you to understand after I personally quitted masturbation crows agree slowly slowly things became easier for me in terms of socializing with females after I actively tried not to put myself in the state of objectifying woman I could easily become friends with woman I could easily be there and not have any sexual thoughts and I often found myself that I often found others that what am I talking about I often was asked yeah this is better I often was asked like how is it possible that you are so comfortable with woman why there is always woman around you that might sound a little bit weird huh in this context it doesn’t matter anyway I was always hanging out with woman that also sounded very weird ah that doesn’t matter people always ask like what’s the secret how you can have these kind of communications so easily and I often ask one question again why I do use I’m getting into my own head now and that’s not a good thing but I asked one question do you masturbate and the answer is always yes right and slowly slowly I have to break it to that person because you don’t also want to intrude their privacy this is just like a grey area right you don’t want to get like don’t fucking masturbate dude like what the fuck right that’s the reason you cannot be comfortable with woman you have to always slowly break it then I’m like the next question you masturbate every day right and the answer is like yes then I’m like you masturbate watching porn right and the answer is like of course yes and I just simply tell them that I don’t do the do those things anymore and that helps me to be me that helps me to just be and not care about anything else but for you you care about a lot because you just continuously condition yourself to be with woman while you want to masturbate while you want to get sexually aroused but if you just put that aside then everything becomes easy everything becomes natural everything becomes less pressured because perhaps you will have a partner and your sexual activity will be enough for you to give you enough joy and enough orgasmic experience to not think about sex itself to not think about ejaculation as a source of energy source of orgasmic energy then your orgasmic energy comes from different sources other sources your orgasmic energy comes from socializing your orgasmic energy comes from your partner simply looking at your partner and you feel orgasmically joyful you don’t even need to have porn masturbation or even sexual activity because the partner itself give all you need let’s wrap it up huh let’s wrap it up to wrap it up I have to mention something very important you need to realize we go back again with that guilty pleasure you need to realize that you need to feel only pleasure when it comes to porn masturbation pleasure has to be your first priority guilt has to go away no guilt no shame no feeling of unworthiness oh I just hate myself that’s what we do right every ejaculation post not clarity we just hate ourselves our guts everything about ourselves because we know that we want to quit this shit but just because we can’t and after the reality hits afterwards you get to hate yourself in the time that you wanna do it you don’t hate yourself because you want that end result and after the end result hit now you’re there absolutely bamboozled like what what just happened for this this doesn’t even give me any joy anymore why do I do it why I can’t stop it you bring guilt shame into your life then you stop yourself from pleasuring then you stop yourself from pleasuring next time look pleasure has to be there you do this process only for pleasure and if you do it right by and by you will realize that it’s not worth it the pleasure if you do this right you will realize that this activity that I am participating in is taking me away from life this activity that I am indulging myself in it’s not allowing me to be myself as simple as that but if you bring guilt into it you can’t have this when you bring guilt into it then you’re totally fine with it I know it’s a little bit paradoxical but if you think a little bit about it you will realize that it’s the guilt part because the more you observe this process the more you meditate on this process you feel wait a second this doesn’t really feels as good as before because now it’s not a taboo anymore now it’s like something available to you now it’s like okay you wanna watch porn let’s watch porn okay you wanna masturbate let’s masturbate before it was like oh you wanna watch porn no no no no you cannot do that that’s a bad thing oh you wanna masturbate no no no no you cannot do that because so many reasons then you wanted more that’s just simply how things work like why do you think we are sexually so perverted in this society in this world because of religion of course takes everything for granted and give you all these taboos then you have to deal with these taboos for the rest of your life there is nothing wrong with masturbation there is nothing wrong with watching porn nothing absolutely nothing wrong it’s the process that is crippling you the thing itself that does not add anything to you or take anything from you it’s the process that is just taking you from yourself and you can easily get back to yourself by observing this process by observing like why am I doing this what’s the point of it and if you observe this process more and more awareness comes in the more awareness comes in the more you realize that this is completely useless this is completely futile it does not lead you anywhere and if you have a little bit of brain you will quit it simply you just like put it away like at least for a for a while right and that’s enough that’s what we’re talking about if you quit it for a while fine again you fail that’s also fine just observe and move on observe and move on this awareness will lead you to a point that you will just easily quit it it might take five years it doesn’t matter that’s the problem everyone wants to quit something instantly they got so used to instant gratification that they even want to quit the addiction with instant gratification it cold Turkey right well sometimes you can’t go to cold Turkey just go hot Turkey OK d’accord and don’t worry about all this thing if you hang around enough I will help you to get rid of this estate if you really want to you know if not that’s up to you I don’t really care but I thought maybe I share this with you because also I had so many comments about this whole masturbation thing and I didn’t really want to talk about it publicly because again public talks don’t get anywhere really it’s mostly private talks that get to somewhere when you get so private then you know that you have access to great let’s say information and knowledge that just plays a role in your head but when it’s publicly available you’re like yeah it’s publicly available who cares it doesn’t work or it’s not effective or whatever but when you pay for it or make it private then you just appreciate it perhaps that’s the problem with human beings right they have to always obtain something for themselves to be able to appreciate it if it’s just there you can’t appreciate it if the flower is there I can’t really appreciate it but if the flower is in my at my home on the table I love it because I paid for it or I picked it and I put it there now it’s mine I will just enjoy it but anyways if you are that one person that really want to get rid of this addiction really want to get rid of this life consuming monster this detox is needed and I will be there to help you you take care of yourself see you soon bye .

Déroulement de la vidéo:

4.964 modern man is a masturbatory man
12.698 modern man
17.764 put himself to sleep with masturbation
27.898 perhaps the biggest epidemic that we are facing is
35.398 masturbation addiction and no one really talks about it
44.498 because it’s very personal very private very shameful
54.798 very guilty pleasure that’s the problem
63.564 guilty pleasure
69.998 it cannot be together this guilt and pleasure cannot be together I see people talk about guilty pleasure all the time
77.964 I’m like why do you do that to yourself either feel guilt or pleasure
83.131 why do you mix these two together because the moment you mix these two together
88.398 you become comfortable with whatever you’re doing because you already accepted the guilt
95.558 to understand masturbation
104.858 we need to look at the structure of the society why masturbation happens
112.892 what is this masturbation why do we do it
128.758 we turn masturbation to coping mechanism the way that the society works is so unjust
139.825 that you need a coping mechanism
149.658 when you become a teenager one of the best coping mechanism for any man is to
159.825 masturbate and get himself to a state of pleasure get get himself to the state of orgasm
168.758 and for once it feels something meaningful for once in this life
175.758 feels something so joyful that worth living
181.625 because if you look at the society if you go into the society you will realize that there is nothing worse
189.492 really living everything is pain everything is
195.192 anguish stress anxiety the fear of missing out the fear of not making it
209.958 then you become a teenager you realize you have a profound energy in you
219.425 you realize that there is something that is so powerful
224.458 and give you so much drive to live
232.425 but the slowly by and by you don’t use this energy to become
240.458 let’s say an athlete you don’t use this energy to become let’s say
246.825 master of a craft because that takes time
251.858 that does not come with instant gratification but instead there’s something that we can do to ourselves
260.225 and it comes with instant gratification it comes with orgasmic joy
271.558 so naturally you tend to choose that one
277.592 the instant gratification
282.658 because competing in the world
288.425 is not the easiest
296.825 it comes with lots of pressure so to release this pressure
305.892 you need masturbation
311.692 to release this pressure of life you need to stimulate yourself enough
319.958 to get to a point that you can find certain amount of meaning certain amount of joy
332.192 no matter how futile and useless this activity is
341.025 you want that joy you want that orgasm
347.892 you continue doing this process until you break it
353.025 your brain doesn’t give you enough joy and orgasm
358.058 for just simply releasing for just simply ejaculating
364.092 now your brain wants novelty now your brain tells you this is not enough
373.258 you need to create more imagination you need to create more fantasy
382.558 to be able to maintain this extreme otherwise
388.158 even ejaculation will not cut it
395.425 so what we do we come across porn we come across hypersexualized world
405.192 we continuously objectify females
412.092 because we are in the state of masturbation we have to objectify female
419.158 because we don’t have access to it therefore in our mind in our head we start imagining things
427.092 we see woman in the street we instantly imagine things
433.625 we instantly find ourselves in bed with them
441.592 why is this why we have to continuously objectify woman
448.225 why we cannot just be simply friends with them
455.292 simply look at them as another human being this again goes back to masturbation
464.025 the more you masturbate the lonelier you become the more you masturbate
475.358 everything becomes
480.858 so hard in terms of communicating with the female energy
491.258 why is this happening
498.292 these days so many people talk about men and their isolation
504.458 I think men brought this to themselves by just masturbating a lot
513.658 watching porn continuously they don’t need the feel for going after
524.092 a female because continuously releasing
531.358 continuously let go of this life force energy this life force energy
536.692 can turn you to someone that you can be very comfortable very good with female energy
544.292 but no you choose to completely become
550.025 lonely I say this because I know how it feels
556.225 masturbation addiction plus porn addiction will lead you to loneliness
562.025 that’s an addiction that it’s best when you are alone you cannot watch porn with others
568.225 you cannot masturbate with others so you have to find yourself in a state of aloneness
577.192 in a state of safe comfort to be able to let go
587.025 how many times you find yourself that you wanna go home you rather go home then hanging out
595.258 because you know if you go home everything is just there for you to enjoy yourself
609.425 and the more you go deeper in this state of masturbation the lonelier you become
616.192 because also depression comes in it just holds you down hugs you
624.558 internet is there to give you all sort of stimulation all sort of fetishes and kinks
631.892 onlyfans is there to even
639.992 add more taste and spices to your lonely times
656.025 and then 10 years passes by you look back you realize you did nothing
662.992 you realize that you’ve been masturbating all your life you realize that every single night
671.058 you went to sleep watching porn and then expect your brain
678.258 to give you a good night’s sleep how is that even possible
684.558 your brain just watched something that it does not make sense at least in terms of activity
697.758 with the rise of AI you will have access to all sorts of fetishes all your wildest dreams are becomes available to you
711.425 but do you really want to continue this process do you really want to continuously release your life force
718.592 energy for instant gratification
729.825 I understand that this addiction is not the easiest addiction to quit
738.858 perhaps is one of the hardest addictions to quit
745.358 because unlike any other addiction the means for it is always available to you
752.958 either it’s going to be yourself alone
758.225 in a even public toilet a stall
765.825 your phone is available everything is there any other addiction you have to acquire
773.492 the means for it drug addict you gotta go buy the drug
779.992 alcohol you need to go buy the alcohol when you put it away
785.092 it’s easier for you to just quit it
790.258 like when you want to quit a smoking the first thing you do is just throw away the cigarette
795.592 right I know that you might go pick it up tomorrow but in that moment that you want to quit a smoking
803.758 you throw away the cigarette you don’t put it in your pocket and say okay I quit the smoking
809.392 that’s just not possible because you know that if it’s there you will use it you know that if it’s there
816.858 it’s there
822.892 now you cannot throw away
828.492 your hands you cannot throw away your genital
836.558 it’s always there you cannot throw away your phone internet porn it’s always there no matter what you do
844.358 it’s always there now you got to a state that you objectify every female energy
851.392 every female body now you have your phone that there are females there
860.025 good or bad they also figured out that sex sells
865.392 so they might be a carpenter and they just put a reel from carpentry
870.792 but their ass is a little bit more in the frame than the
876.192 chair that they are working on why is that because it sells because the views comes in
884.058 no one goes there for the chair everyone goes there for the
890.992 vision for the imagination
904.692 now let’s understand what is this masturbation
909.858 what is it
917.192 masturbation in men is different than masturbation in woman
922.225 men are givers it’s an extrovert energy it has to give something
928.892 woman they are receivers it’s an introvert energy they receive something when a man masturbates
936.892 it releases his life force energy
942.292 when a woman masturbates it takes the life force energy so woman’s masturbation is not so dangerous
953.292 unless it becomes obsession unless it becomes another types of addiction
958.592 psychological but in itself it’s not dangerous but men’s
967.858 masturbation is highly dangerous and addictive why
975.625 because you have access to it yourself when you become a teenager and at the same time
981.392 there is a force that is forbidding you to do it there is a force that it does not allow you to do it
989.058 and this two comes together and makes it a perfect match
995.792 because now you want to do it because it’s yours now you want to do it
1002.192 because no one can not tell you not to do it it’s completely private
1014.958 and perhaps it is dangerous because it gives you one of the strongest compounds
1021.992 that your brain can achieve orgasmic experience
1040.092 then it’s not so easy to get rid of it
1045.558 because it it’s not simply an addiction anymore
1050.992 it’s a coping mechanism the moment you feel stressed the moment you feel anxious
1057.092 you want to masturbate the moment you feel sad the moment you feel depressed
1063.025 you want to masturbate because that’s the only substance that you have access to
1068.658 and it gives you so much pleasure
1076.458 when you masturbate when you release your energy
1082.092 you go into the state of calmness relaxation now you don’t really want to do something else
1088.992 you just wanna chill you just wanna be there and relax because this estate in your life is pretty rare
1098.958 by and by you find yourself that you are masturbating a few times every single day
1105.625 by and by you realize that loneliness is just embracing you
1110.992 by and by you realize that no matter how hard you try even if you go in a relationship
1117.025 masturbation overpower the sexual activity
1123.625 then you masturbate while you are in a relationship this is this is catastrophic to a human being
1131.992 this is catastrophic if you are in a relationship and yet you masturbate
1138.758 this means you will not ever have a long term relationship
1145.058 this means soon enough you become fed up with your partner
1153.625 soon enough you will find yourself that you want to be alone more and more because when you are with your partner
1160.292 you cannot really masturbate when you are with your partner perhaps you feel shame and guilt to tell your partner that look
1168.425 I need this release at the same time that I need you
1175.192 perhaps then you seek loneliness perhaps you seek aloneness because you want to also have your own times alone
1189.258 not only that you also find yourself that
1195.625 you lost taste in your partner perhaps you are a porn addict as well
1203.692 the stimulation that comes from the screen now your partner after it loses its novelty
1210.258 after it loses its
1216.592 mystery you don’t really want it anymore
1227.892 mystery that’s one thing that hooks every single one of us
1234.692 even you when it comes to
1240.025 porn and imaginary things you prefer to have a layer of clothes over the body
1248.858 because you know that your imagination works better than the body itself the body itself doesn’t arouse you anymore
1257.758 the body itself doesn’t have anything it’s the layers over the body that gives meaning to it
1266.225 because your imagination works better
1273.458 I say all of this because I used to be a
1279.692 to to be an addict myself porn addict masturbation addict
1285.958 since I was 12 years old I discovered pornography
1292.225 I discovered masturbation and I think for 15 years
1299.958 I masturbated every single day if not more than once everyday
1310.592 and perhaps I watched porn every single day
1320.858 until depression became too heavy
1326.792 that I could not really accept whatever is happening in my life
1335.392 and don’t get me wrong I wasn’t lonely or not social I was always a social person
1343.892 always friends but at the same time I had another life
1350.392 that it was totally different than my social life you can easily relate to it in private
1359.858 I was a hardcore addict in public I was a great person
1368.192 let’s say like normal perhaps not great but I was fun to be around
1382.425 although it was not so easy for me to find a girlfriend
1388.458 because of course I was a porn addict a masturbation addict
1394.658 when you masturbate a lot when you watch porn a lot then it makes it much harder for you to be able to communicate with
1401.792 female energy communicate with woman your sexual
1409.058 desires change your sexual desires completely gets distorted
1416.792 and then perhaps you find a woman that you like perhaps you get to a
1423.858 a state of relationship and soon you realize that things are not going well
1429.892 at least in terms of sexual life
1436.392 things are not so working and usually the problem is you
1443.558 usually you just don’t find any attraction anymore
1451.492 then you fall back to your addiction then you fall back your watching porn masturbation perhaps in private
1458.892 perhaps in times that you don’t want your partner to see
1464.392 and a slowly a slowly your relationship falls out
1470.892 and then you have to wait for so long until you find another chance to meet a girl
1478.892 because these are just like accidental events
1484.058 because we are not going for it and it happens because we masturbate all the time
1489.292 and if we don’t masturbate then we can easily go for it because it gives you us possibility to go for it
1500.258 a person who doesn’t masturbate perhaps can find another relationship so fast
1505.758 because it doesn’t need an accidental event it needs that person’s drive to go and find let’s say
1515.992 a woman
1528.825 until the depression became too unbearable for me and I just really thought about ending it
1542.225 and when I talk about this depression it has so many aspects to it one aspect perhaps was there masturbation and porn addiction
1550.658 but it wasn’t a big deal for me you you need to realize this it’s not always a big deal
1556.658 it’s just there it was never something that I wanted to just quit or get rid of
1562.558 no it was always there I was fine with it I was just having fun
1568.758 I didn’t necessarily need to have a relationship I was totally fine with masturbation
1575.158 totally fine with porn addiction because I thought to myself
1580.292 well fuck it this is going to be and that’s fine but this adds up to the other aspects of your life
1588.958 this adds up to the depression in other aspects of your life because you’re using it as a coping mechanism right
1596.792 and then you get to a point that you get so fed up with life that you’re like what’s the point of it
1602.225 like why am I living this shit
1608.092 here is a very critical point here either you make it or break it
1617.358 a suicidal man is the prime man to change is
1623.658 a suicidal man is the best man to really actualize himself
1632.258 but most of us don’t do that most of us break don’t make why
1638.992 because breaking is much easier than making but if you really choose to make it
1646.025 you can really create this shift in your life and make yourself fully actualized
1652.892 and some people would ask but how is it how can I just like get rid of masturbation
1659.025 how can I get rid of porn addiction I tried many times I tried all my best
1664.858 I joined all the communities anywhere I could to be able to get support
1672.158 to get rid of this addiction and it’s not possible
1678.092 I know that I tried it many times myself many times and I failed failed
1685.658 failed in masturbation in porn I failed many times but then I realized
1694.258 first thing first this process of you wanting to get rid of it
1700.858 is enough for it to go away it might take 10 years it might take 20 years
1707.792 it might take 30 years but it will go away no matter what
1713.825 either your hormones get less and it goes away
1719.425 your libido becomes completely drained it goes away
1730.458 it’s because you want it to go away but if you don’t want it to go away this is the tricky part if you don’t want it to go away
1738.658 if you don’t actively try to quit it no matter what even if you’re failing
1744.658 but actively try to quit it so if you fail
1751.692 it’s okay continue quitting it continue this process because if you don’t do it
1758.958 then you get to a point that you cannot really easily control your brain
1765.258 when it comes to novelty when it comes to fetishes and kinks how you can get off
1771.458 it’s not so easy anymore your sexual relationships becomes completely distorted
1777.358 you might end up becoming an absolute pervert because all this sex
1785.092 all this porn addiction will get you to a point that you become perverted
1790.492 there’s no other way your brain makes you a perverted because you are so fixated on this sexual energy
1798.292 you’re so fixated on this process that your brain to get off every time needs something new
1804.825 watch yourself when you are looking for porn what you looking for you don’t look for the normal porn
1810.792 do you I don’t think so because you want something new because you want something novel
1818.992 enough to be able to get you off otherwise you might even not feel aroused
1824.058 and that’s what’s happening in your sexual life as well your partner doesn’t really make you aroused
1830.025 until you become so open to your partner then you start talking about your fetishes your perversion just gets bigger and bigger
1837.292 then you try all these new things with your partner and most of the time
1842.625 usually woman don’t really want all these fetishes again unless they are also psychologically conditioned
1850.792 and traumatized but usually woman they just want something simple like sensual
1857.792 because they want the intimacy
1863.558 perhaps this is for another topic and all this sex life perhaps we need to talk about it exclusively
1872.492 but when you don’t do anything about it
1878.625 you become older when you become older
1884.425 now you need to try twice to make yourself aroused
1891.558 and in the in the world that we are living everything is just so hypersexualized and everything
1898.692 looks in a way that a man should be active sexually for
1903.992 90 years hundred years because it’s possible
1909.092 and that’s unfortunate on its own but let’s not talk about it one thing very important that I want to mention is
1916.392 your perversion becomes so big that you might find yourself in the grey area
1923.958 that area that you don’t wanna go there because you know it’s illegal you know that it’s dangerous
1930.258 you know that you it’s not you it’s your mind that you’re taking to you take you there
1936.258 you get to a gray area that you start hating yourself you start
1942.858 really feeling shame and guilt why do you have these thoughts in your head why do you
1952.458 nasty imagination it’s just because the normal doesn’t cut it anymore
1959.058 why do you think we have all these pedophiles in the world now
1964.225 yeah we always had pedophiles but in this estate of the world perversion
1971.425 it becomes so insanely big that a 50 year old 60 year old have access to TikTok
1980.058 and TikTok will just allow you to have all sort
1985.958 of range of sexual orientations and whatever you have in your head
1992.292 because now you’re young now you might be young you might also be old
1998.625 but what I’m trying to say here is that if you’re young
2007.658 beware that if you do not actively try to quit this process
2012.825 when you are old you’re gonna be in big trouble because when you’re young
2020.792 it’s fine you’re young your attraction is actually not at the same your age you might be like 18 years old
2027.392 19 years old you might be attracted to 30 years old woman
2032.758 because that’s just has a better psychological effect on you we don’t wanna get in there
2037.858 that’s another topic and everything else but when you become older
2058.358 Hallo Hallo
2074.658 we’ve been talking for more than half an hour now but when you become older
2081.558 now you have access to younger generation now you want younger generation
2088.025 because that’s just like your psychology the older you become
2094.058 the less appealing you become
2099.825 and now in your head your imagination goes toward more younger people
2113.458 later stages in your life you need to actively try to put this away
2119.792 it doesn’t matter how long will it take for you to get rid of it what matters is you really actively try
2128.692 I don’t wanna give you any method I don’t wanna give you any way to quit it perhaps I will in the future
2138.692 but that’s not important what’s important is continue this process
2144.358 no matter how much how many times you fail be in the state of putting it away
2151.758 because if you take this out of your life and does not make it a coping mechanism
2157.558 I promise you you become so comfortable with yourself
2162.858 you become so in tune with your outside world
2169.958 that you can achieve anything you want
2209.658 the sun been in my eyes for so long now I can’t really see but
2218.192 I feel like I want to talk a little bit more
2226.092 about this because I think I need to touch
2234.192 some points that is important for you to understand
2254.192 after I personally quitted masturbation
2266.625 crows agree
2276.425 slowly slowly things became easier for me in terms of
2282.992 socializing with females
2289.192 after I actively tried not to put myself in the state of objectifying woman
2299.392 I could easily become friends with woman I could easily be there and not have any sexual thoughts
2308.358 and I often found myself that I often found others that
2317.058 what am I talking about I often was asked yeah this is better
2324.358 I often was asked like how is it possible that you are so comfortable with woman why there is always
2332.892 woman around you
2337.958 that might sound a little bit weird huh in this context
2345.625 it doesn’t matter anyway I was always hanging out with woman that also sounded very weird
2356.425 ah
2362.258 that doesn’t matter people always ask like what’s the secret how you can have these kind of communications so easily
2372.692 and I often ask one question again why I do use I’m getting into my own head now
2379.625 and that’s not a good thing but I asked one question
2384.892 do you masturbate and the answer is always yes right
2390.192 and slowly slowly I have to break it to that person because you don’t also want to intrude their privacy
2396.892 this is just like a grey area right you don’t want to get like don’t fucking masturbate dude
2402.158 like what the fuck right that’s the reason you cannot be comfortable with woman
2413.825 you have to always slowly break it then I’m like the next question you masturbate every day right
2420.858 and the answer is like yes then I’m like you masturbate watching porn right
2428.692 and the answer is like of course yes
2435.225 and I just simply tell them that I don’t do the do those things anymore and that helps me to be me
2443.192 that helps me to just be and not care about anything else
2450.192 but for you you care about a lot because you just continuously condition yourself
2457.425 to be with woman while you want to masturbate while you want to get
2464.958 sexually aroused but if you just put that aside then everything becomes easy
2471.258 everything becomes natural everything becomes less
2477.058 pressured because perhaps you will have a partner and your sexual activity will be enough for you
2483.258 to give you enough joy and enough orgasmic experience to not think about sex itself
2491.225 to not think about ejaculation as a source of energy
2497.958 source of orgasmic energy then your orgasmic energy comes from different sources
2503.592 other sources your orgasmic energy comes from socializing your orgasmic energy comes from your partner
2513.058 simply looking at your partner and you feel orgasmically joyful
2518.792 you don’t even need to have porn masturbation or even sexual activity
2524.692 because the partner itself give all you need
2548.625 let’s wrap it up huh let’s wrap it up
2564.892 to wrap it up I have to mention something very important you need to realize
2571.058 we go back again with that guilty pleasure you need to realize that you need to feel only pleasure
2581.992 when it comes to porn masturbation pleasure has to be your first priority
2588.392 guilt has to go away no guilt no shame no feeling of unworthiness
2595.792 oh I just hate myself that’s what we do right every ejaculation post not clarity
2603.192 we just hate ourselves our guts everything about ourselves because we know that we want to quit this shit
2611.692 but just because we can’t and after the reality hits afterwards you get to hate yourself
2618.358 in the time that you wanna do it you don’t hate yourself because you want that end result
2625.025 and after the end result hit now you’re there absolutely
2631.658 bamboozled like what what just happened for this
2637.825 this doesn’t even give me any joy anymore why do I do it
2643.292 why I can’t stop it you bring guilt shame into your life
2649.492 then you stop yourself from pleasuring then you stop yourself from pleasuring next time
2657.158 look pleasure has to be there you do this process only for pleasure
2665.225 and if you do it right by and by you will realize
2670.858 that it’s not worth it the pleasure if you do this right you will realize
2678.625 that this activity that I am participating in is taking me away from life
2686.625 this activity that I am indulging myself in it’s not allowing me to be myself
2696.392 as simple as that but if you bring guilt into it
2701.958 you can’t have this when you bring guilt into it then you’re totally fine with it
2712.492 I know it’s a little bit paradoxical but if you think a little bit about it
2717.625 you will realize that it’s the guilt part because the more you observe this process
2723.458 the more you meditate on this process you feel wait a second
2729.658 this doesn’t really feels as good as before
2735.825 because now it’s not a taboo anymore now it’s like something available to you now it’s like okay
2742.625 you wanna watch porn let’s watch porn okay you wanna masturbate let’s masturbate before it was like
2748.758 oh you wanna watch porn no no no no you cannot do that that’s a bad thing
2755.225 oh you wanna masturbate no no no no you cannot do that because so many reasons
2763.392 then you wanted more that’s just simply how things work like why do you think we are sexually so perverted
2769.858 in this society in this world because of religion of course takes everything
2780.392 for granted and give you all these taboos then you have to deal with these taboos
2785.592 for the rest of your life
2792.092 there is nothing wrong with masturbation there is nothing wrong with watching porn
2797.592 nothing absolutely nothing wrong it’s the process that is crippling you
2804.392 the thing itself that does not add anything to you or take anything from you
2809.558 it’s the process that is just taking you from yourself and you can easily get back to yourself
2816.258 by observing this process by observing like why am I doing this what’s the point of it and if you observe this process
2824.358 more and more awareness comes in the more awareness comes in the more you realize that this is completely useless
2832.258 this is completely futile it does not lead you anywhere
2837.792 and if you have a little bit of brain you will quit it simply you just like put it away
2843.392 like at least for a for a while right and that’s enough that’s what we’re talking about
2850.358 if you quit it for a while fine again you fail that’s also fine just observe and move on observe and move on
2859.158 this awareness will lead you to a point that you will just easily quit it
2864.225 it might take five years it doesn’t matter that’s the problem everyone wants to quit something instantly they got so
2874.825 used to instant gratification that they even want to quit the addiction with instant gratification
2880.425 it cold Turkey right well sometimes you can’t go to cold Turkey
2885.692 just go hot Turkey
2900.292 OK d’accord
2906.458 and don’t worry about all this thing if you hang around enough
2913.758 I will help you to get rid of this estate if you really want to you know
2919.492 if not that’s up to you I don’t really care but I thought maybe I share this with you
2926.692 because also I had so many comments about this whole masturbation thing
2932.558 and I didn’t really want to talk about it publicly
2938.892 because again public talks don’t get anywhere really
2944.092 it’s mostly private talks that get to somewhere when you get so private
2949.392 then you know that you have access to great
2954.658 let’s say information and knowledge that just plays a role in your head
2960.292 but when it’s publicly available you’re like yeah it’s publicly available who cares it doesn’t work or it’s not effective or whatever
2968.658 but when you pay for it or make it private then you just appreciate it perhaps that’s the problem with human beings right
2976.092 they have to always obtain something for themselves to be able to appreciate it if it’s just there you can’t appreciate it
2983.592 if the flower is there I can’t really appreciate it but if the flower is in my at my home on the
2992.258 table I love it because I paid for it or I picked it and I put it there
2997.858 now it’s mine I will just enjoy it but anyways
3006.992 if you are that one person that really want to get rid of this addiction really want to get rid of this
3018.792 life consuming monster
3024.225 this detox is needed and I will be there to help you
3030.192 you take care of yourself see you soon bye
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