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4K et provient de [vid_author_name]. La description qui suit mérite également votre attention :« Benny, étudie en première année à l’université d’Akron. Il fait la rencontre de Christopher qui est un joueur de l’équipe de Football américain, leurs cœurs chavirent. Mais un évènement tragique ressurgit du passé et menace de déchirer leur relation.

Un film de Sasha King, Brian O’Donnell
Avec : Matthew Frias, Edmund Donovan, Joseph Melendez
Pays : Etats-Unis
Année : 2017

#lgbt #movie #gay ».

YouTube est un excellent espace pour découvrir des vidéos touchant une grande variété de sujets, allant de la culture à des réflexions personnelles, tout en assurant que chaque utilisateur puisse interagir dans un cadre respectueux et sûr.

Construire un soi authentique en se déconnectant de la pornographie

Adopter des démarches responsables et bienveillantes envers soi-même

Pratiquer la méditation ou le yoga renforce la synergie entre le corps et l’esprit, ce qui aide à maîtriser les désirs compulsifs

Cultiver des amitiés sincères améliore la stabilité émotionnelle

Des relations réelles avec un partenaire favorisent l’épanouissement sexuel en dehors de la consommation de contenu pornographique

Adopter une approche éthique de la sexualité

Vivre sa sexualité de manière éthique favorise un respect mutuel et un équilibre dans les relations intimes Le chemin pour arrêter la pornographie passe par la compréhension de ses effets, l’utilisation d’outils efficaces et le soutien d’un réseau. En suivant un plan bien défini, il est possible de se défaire de cette dépendance et de renouer avec une sexualité plus respectueuse et satisfaisante. Un suivi constant et l’engagement personnel sont cruciaux pour réussir (à ce sujet voir www.chastete.fr).

Faire un inventaire des ressources disponibles pour le soutien

S’intégrer dans des groupes d’entraide

Les groupes de soutien offrent un lieu d’échange où les participants peuvent partager leurs vécus, découvrir des stratégies éprouvées et recevoir du soutien pendant leur rétablissement.

Mettre à profit les outils numériques et applications pour suivre l’évolution

Grâce à certaines applications et outils numériques, il est possible de suivre les avancées, de recevoir des notifications motivantes et d’encourager des comportements sains pour se détacher de la pornographie.

Consulter un psychologue ou un psychiatre

Faire appel à un psychologue spécialisé en dépendances comportementales, tel un praticien de la TCC, permet d’analyser les racines du problème et de recevoir un accompagnement adéquat.

Planifier des étapes précises pour favoriser un sevrage réussi

Instaurer des tactiques pour gérer les tentations

Reconnaître les éléments déclencheurs et les éviter est essentiel. La TCC, les activités physiques ou sociales, et le soutien d’un réseau de proches sont des solutions efficaces.

Mettre en place un environnement favorable au bien-être

Bloquer l’accès aux sites pornographiques grâce à des extensions de navigateur ou des applications de contrôle parental peut être un moyen de se protéger. D’autre part, privilégier des activités créatives et enrichissantes peut réduire les envies compulsives.

Énoncer des objectifs réalisables et bien définis

Réduire la consommation de porno nécessite des objectifs mesurables, comme diminuer progressivement le temps d’exposition. Le sevrage doit inclure une prise de conscience des raisons derrière cette dépendance et des gains à long terme.

Faire le point sur l’addiction à la pornographie

Observer les indices de dépendance

L’usage excessif de pornographie, symptomatique d’une addiction, peut affecter profondément la vie sociale et les objectifs professionnels.

Explorer les dynamiques mentales sous-jacentes

L’addiction au porno est liée à la stimulation excessive du système de récompense, provoquant une libération de dopamine qui consolide les comportements répétitifs et le sentiment de dépendance.

Examiner comment le porno influence les activités quotidiennes

L’addiction influence négativement la sexualité, l’estime personnelle et les relations affectives. Le visionnage excessif de contenus pornographiques peut ancrer une dépendance émotionnelle exclusive à ces matériaux

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Retranscription des paroles de la vidéo: Aisle 4. Hello, you. What do we say? Hello. – I’ll take a cart. – We don’t need one. – I want one. – We’re not taking much. Benny’s going to want to push too. Okay, push your brother. Are you ready? All right. Can we go? Davey! Davey! Oh my God, Davey! Benny! Are you with me? Please. Standing in front of my class for hours is harassment. Calm down, my class just ended. Are you coming? I don’t think so, I have things to do. What’s more important than rugby? With the country’s future scientists? – This is nonsense. – Come on, we need you. You’re the only one who looks like an athlete on the team. I am an athlete, but I’m not on your team. Officially. Substitutes are allowed. No. Come on, look at me. Please. You, the big, strong one. Please. I don’t have a tracksuit. Perfect, John left his in my dorm. I’ll text my mom. You’re awesome. Every time you’re here, we win. You have to join the team. Shut up. – What’s up? – Hey. – You beat the shit out of us. – No, this is a team game. Only you know what he’s doing here. – My name is Christopher. – Nice to meet you, I’m Benny. You’re hard to take down. I played in high school. I see. The engineering school isn’t known for its athletes. They call themselves the Killer Rabbits, you can imagine. But we have fun. Well… We have no excuses. My team sucks. I have to go, I don’t live on campus. – I have to be home for dinner. – Okay, great. – Do you live on campus? – Yes. The Galucci building. Great. – Christopher… – Yes? Can I have your number? Benny, is that you? Yes, I’m covered in mud. – Don’t get dirty. – I know, Mom. I met someone today. What do you mean? A guy… Really? Yes, really. I think so. And? Tell me about it. I don’t want to give too much away. You started it. Who is he? I don’t know. I met him in rugby. He played against us. We kicked their ass. And… did you talk to him? Yes. – And? – I don’t want to give too much away. Fine. – Cute? – That’s not true. Benny has a boyfriend! That’s what I didn’t want. – No, he’s not my boyfriend. – Who is he? Do I know him? – How would you know him? – I know people. – Mom? – Yes? Yes, he’s cute. Hi! Is it too soon? For what? To write to you. – How are you? – Really great. And you? I’m studying, but I’m fine. – Aches and pains. – Me too. I strained my heart. – You’re silly. – Come on, we’ll go for a walk. With pleasure! I have a little sister, Becca. Freshman year in high school. And my parents. Are you close? Yes, we get along well. My dad is very laid-back. My mom likes to know everything. I told her about you. About me? What did you tell her? I told her you seem cool. What did she tell you? I told her she had nothing to say. – Why? – Even I don’t know what to say. There’s nothing to say right now. Tell me about your mom. She has a yoga studio in Jacksonville. She’s very relaxed and in touch with herself. It’s great, but she’s lonely. My parents divorced when I was six years old. Then we moved to Florida. She hasn’t had anyone since, except for two dates. – Do you do yoga? – I could, but no. It’s hard to breathe and relax when your mom is telling you what to do. Sometimes I wish I lived on campus. I love my family , but I don’t have enough space or freedom. I don’t have much space either. My roommate… never leaves. So… what exactly are you studying? Biomedical engineering. I want to be a doctor. Tissue design. And you? I’m in Arts and Sciences. My classmates think that… the less you know, the more you talk. And I like to talk, as you can see. But with smart people. Like you, Dr. Benny. Thanks. I’d like to invite you over, but my roommate will be here. It’s okay, I have to get home. To study. I like you. Me too. I want to see you again. I want to see you again. Yes. I’ll wait here for a bit. Why? Sorry. It’s okay, trust me. Call me, Dr. Benny. I promise. They’re beautiful. That’s what I tell myself too. – Do you want to come with me today? – No, I’ll stay here. Fine. Thanks, Becca. Benny wants to go to a party on campus tomorrow. He wants to sleep there. That’s good, he’ll have fun. He says he’s spending the night at Julie’s. Fine, she’s his friend. It’s not like he’s going to get her pregnant. David… What? I think he’s lying to us. – No… Really? – Don’t do this. He shouldn’t even be living with us. And we shouldn’t know what he’s doing outside the house. Imagine if your mom knew what was going on at college. I don’t know if I want him spending the night with that boy. What’s the problem? I don’t know, we don’t know him yet. I’m sure he’s a good guy, Benny’s smart. You can’t lock his dick away. It’s not funny. Let him go because he’ll go anyway. – Would you let Becca do the same? – Oh no! She’s not going to sleep anywhere until she’s married. It’s not fair. Okay, I’m just kidding. Sort of. When did he get old enough to do things that aren’t age appropriate? Gentlemen, miss. Thank you. To friends, to us, to a big night. To dancing! I’m tired. Please. This is for you. I’ll sleep at John’s and you two sleep at mine since my roommate isn’t here. – Is that true? – Of course. Happy honeymoon. You’re the best. Oh my God. Total perfection. It looked like it. Still is. I love you, Benny. I love you too. Thanks. Say goodbye to the boys, John, it’s time to go to bed. – Good night, guys. – Good night. See you later. I’d love that. Oh my gosh! I need to tell you which one is Julie’s? God save her. God save her. I want to keep you more and more. Wait, let me do this. Good morning. Good morning. What time is it? 10:20. I wish we could stay here all day. That would be great. But man… your breath stinks. – Are you ticklish? – No. Stop! Stop! I take it back, your breath doesn’t stink. How did it go? It was good. Really? Was the club good? Yes, it was great, there were a lot of people. And… what’s his name? Christopher, was he there? Yes, he was. – Is this going to get serious? – Mom… It’s just a question. I don’t know. Maybe. Mom? Dad? This is Christopher. – Hello, nice to meet you. – Nice to meet you. Nice to finally know the day you’re taking our son. I’m just kidding. It’s nice of you to invite Benny to Florida for the holidays. Yes, of course. I’d rather have him in a house than in one of those party hotels. I’m not a party animal and my mom will be there. Great. I wish I could come too. Maybe next time. – Do you know where you’re going? – Yes, the route is all mapped out. Christopher knows where we’ll sleep on the road. Okay, I’m worried, you know that. – You’ll hear from him. – Not while driving. Of course not. Come with me, Benny. Dad… Be smart. Come on, before she starts wondering. He’s cute in that picture. That’s not Benny, it’s his big brother. – His brother? – Benny had a big brother. My first child, Davey. I didn’t know, he never told me. Davey was killed when he was eight. I’m sorry. It’s okay, it happened a long time ago. Come on, the holidays can’t wait. Are you sure you want to go, you don’t even know him? Don’t take it the wrong way, Christopher, you really look fine, but he’s my little Benny, my baby. Won’t you stay? I’ll make you some dinner. It’s time for you to hit the road. – Bye, Dad. – Bye. It was a pleasure. Take care. Goodbye. There you go. That woman is crazy. – She didn’t do anything wrong. – Yes! Sorry it’s happening like this. Do you see why I want to leave? – Are you okay? – Yes. – Yes, I’m okay. – Okay. Vacation! You’ve never been out of Ohio? Never. How is that possible? You’ve never gone on vacation? We’d go camping here, go boating there… I know, it’s lame, but the one time I was supposed to go on a school trip to Washington, D.C., I got mono and had to stay home. Mono? Really? Who did you kiss? If only… No, it was at football, sharing a water bottle. You bet! I could make up some hot locker room story , but it was the water bottle. Okay, in honor of Dr. Benny’s first trip… A video. No, I hate being filmed. Stop it. – You’re so cute. – Not when I’m driving. My turn. Say hi. Oh my God! What’s this? We’re going to eat well. We’re going to the beach for the first time. – First time for me. – For everything. Make a face. I love to travel. My mom and I traveled for 2 years after Ohio. We lived in Georgia and North Carolina for a bit. I went to Texas, Arizona. After college, I’d like to go see the world. Wouldn’t that be great? Yes. You should come. I think we’re meant to travel together. Oh yeah? Yes, for one day for now. I’d like to. I have school for the next I don’t know how many years. That’s true… Doctor Benny. Yes. Doctor Benny. Can I ask you something about… Why have you never told me about your brother? I don’t know. I haven’t really thought about it. Do you miss him? I don’t really think about it. What was he like? What? What? What are you doing? Come swim. It says: No swimming at night. It doesn’t say « no midnight swim. » Come on. You call that a midnight swim? That’s a midnight swim. It’s freezing! It’s good. Holy cow! A full carton? How much sex have you planned? – My dad gave it to me. – Your dad? Shut up. He expects there to be a lot of action so… Mr. Cruz. If you don’t stop, there won’t be any for the trip. That’s what I thought. Hey, Mom. We’re almost there. We’ll be there in the afternoon. So… I’ll see you soon. There’s something I want to talk to you about… I’ll tell you when I see you. Sorry to be weird. See you soon. Bye. Christopher! I thought you’d forgotten us, it’s all dark. Forget you? How could I? I’ve been waiting for you for weeks. Benny… – Welcome. – Thank you, ma’am. Carol, please. – Are you grilling? – Yes, catfish. Look at this, fruit, salad. The whole lot for your return. When did you start grilling? I had to learn how to feed myself when you left. It’s his barbecue, he was the big chef around here. – You have to keep an eye on him. – No, it’s all right. I can save this. You see, it’s… perfect. Just don’t look at it. Come on, sit down. The table’s set. It was very good, Carol, thank you. – It wasn’t bad, was it? – It was good. You could teach an old dog new tricks. You say your mother is annoying? I stopped when I left home. Thank you. I think so. – I was never a pain in the ass to you. – No. I think I was a damn good mother. You were a good mother. You are. I always knew how to embarrass you. Okay, I’ll stop. But just so you know, Benny… He turns a nice red color when he gets a little upset. I can’t blush, I’m Mexican. I’ll put this up. She can’t wait to ask you questions. Be nice and mind your own business. What I like about that boy. Do you like that boy? He’s great. Yes, he’s great. I’m glad he has you as a friend and that you’re here. – I want you to feel at home. – I do. Very humble. Akron, Ohio, right? Chris must have told you he was born there. I was born and raised there, too. Good people. Polite. I sense you’re a good person. It’s not that there aren’t good people here in Florida , but there are fewer of them. But the climate is worth any moron. – If you’ll pardon the expression. – In Spanish, we say pendejo. Pendejo? That sounds good. Come on, Benny, come see the room. No, I’m not done with my interrogation. – Go ahead. – Thank you so much for dinner. Do you think you’ll have this hot tub to yourselves on a nice evening like this? Mom, please… Come on. I need it for my aching old bones. We’re fine here without you. Is it warmer than usual? It’s fine, Christopher. Thanks, Benny. A true gentleman. Moving here was the best decision of my life. I couldn’t stand those Ohio winters anymore. Let’s get to know each other better, Benny. Tell me something no one else knows but you. You don’t have to. No, no, it’s okay. I’ll do it. If I can think of something. This is it. – How stupid can it be? – Better stupid than tragic. Fine. In high school, I had a crush on one of my football teammates. Everyone already knew I was gay. It was hard to crush on someone before I came out, but it was even harder afterward because everyone wanted to know who Benny was after. You know boys. Most of them mistakenly assumed I was after them. However, I started to have a crush on this guy. His name was Ron. Right tackle. Not very smart, but adorable. I pretended I didn’t notice and didn’t approach him because he made me uncomfortable. So, for Valentine’s Day when everyone was handing out cards, I made him one and slipped it into his locker. It said, « I’m crazy about you. » I hadn’t signed it, of course. It was the only one he got. He wanted to show it to the whole school , wondering whose daughter it was from. He beamed all day. I was happy to be able to make him feel that way. Even just a little. I’d never told anyone about it. It’s not silly. It’s sweet. You’ve got a romantic there, Christopher. You’re crazy. Haven’t you ever told your mom? You should tell her. She’d love to know that about you. Benny and his mom are really close. I’m lucky, I have great parents. What do they do? My dad’s a lawyer , and my mom’s a stay-at-home mom with my sister and me. The Cruz family is a perfect little Midwestern family. Mom. Cruz? Is that your last name? Yes. Mom, come inside. Is your mom Lenora Cruz? Yes. Go inside. It was weird. She’s a little crazy sometimes. How does she know my mom? I told her. I’m sure she is. Do you smoke? I’m sorry, Christopher, but I need to talk to Benny. Leave us alone. Benny… I was in that parking lot that day. With your brother. – What? – Come on, let’s go home. I have to say this. Benny… We were shopping, Christopher was with me. I was driving. I was coming out of the parking lot and he… I didn’t even see him. Your brother. He was so small. I swear. He was… I didn’t see him. It was an accident. I hope you know that. A terrible accident. It was the most horrible day of my life. You need to know that. I know it was an accident, Mrs. Gaines. My poor little thing. I can’t believe you’re standing here in front of me. I think I’m going home. Benny. I’m sorry. I’m okay. No. No, I’m not. I just… What the hell. I need some time. I’m having trouble breathing. Is there anything I can do? Not really. Let me rest here. Give me a minute. Why don’t you go take a shower? I’m sorry. Shower first. It’ll be okay. Okay. One second. No, no, no… Wait, it’s Benny. Hi, Mom. Hi, sweetie. Am I bothering you? No, I’m not. It looks like you’re exercising. No, no. I mean, I just took a walk. How’s it going in Florida? It’s great. Really? – Great. – I was just calling to say that… everything’s okay. Are you okay? Yes, I’m fine. Okay . Have fun. Thanks for calling. Thanks, Mom. I love you. Me too. The shower’s free. Great. Thanks. – I’m sorry about all this. – Are you sorry? Are you kidding? I’m the one who’s sorry. I’ve never heard another side of the story. I just called my parents while they were having sex. Shit. Talk to me. Please. Do you remember that day? Not really. I must have been… six. I remember Davey being there… He was on the floor. I remember my mom screaming. I mostly remember what happened next. The funeral. My dad telling me what happened and telling me to be a good boy. I remember my mom. My mom treating me differently. For a while. My mom does too. It’s crazy. I just want to have a nice vacation. Yes. Don’t worry. I’m going to shower. Feet together. Hands at your sides. Palms forward. Breathe. Right hand above your head. Stretch. Stretch gently. Open your chest. Open your hearts. And breathe. That’s good. You can stretch a little more, Benny. I want to go home. That’s where we’re going. No. To Akron. We just got here. I hate that I want to, but I’m not comfortable. I don’t know what to do. I can’t stay. If we leave now, my mom is going to feel terrible. I know, but… right now I’m the one who feels terrible. It must have been great. The two of us here. We’re leaving in the afternoon. Thanks. Benny has a lot of tests coming up and he’s starting to get a little stressed. Then it’s best if we bring him back. I understand. Thank you very much, Mrs. Welling. Carol. The pleasure is mine. I hope you’ll come back soon. You’re welcome anytime. Thank you. Goodbye. – I’ll have a quick word with him. – Yes, of course. We’re not leaving because of so-called exams. We’re leaving because of you. – What are you talking about? – You had to tell him. I told you over and over again to stop talking, but you couldn’t stop spilling the beans. – I had to tell him. – You don’t even know him. Who said you had to talk? You have to ruin everything. All the time! We were going to have a great vacation and be a real couple. And you had to do it, ruin everything. Like you did with Dad. The past doesn’t go away. You should have faced it, sooner or later. I know that, but why did you decide that? I was happy. I was really happy. You couldn’t let me be happy. It sucks. I think I’m going to go. Benny? Let me ask you something. You knew, right? You knew about Davey and you took me there. I didn’t find out until the day we left. It was too late. You knew your mother killed my brother and you took me to that house like it was nothing. I just wanted to have a nice vacation. Why did you do that to me? I didn’t know what to do. I’m sorry. We should go our separate ways for a while. I don’t want to be with you anymore. No. Yes. I’m sorry. Who cuts their vacation short? Julie, don’t do this. Tell me what happened. You’re not with Christopher, did he do something? No, nothing. We’re just not meant to be together. You’re a great match , and you love him very much. We’re very different. And? Can we not talk about it? – What happened? – Please, Julie. Sorry. Can’t I worry about you? Worry quietly. I wanted to be with you so you could cheer me up. Okay. Was the weather bad? I don’t want to talk about it. Well… If I was on vacation at the beach, I wouldn’t want to leave. – Becca! – I don’t care. Benny? Can I come in? Sure. What is it? We need to talk about it. Whatever’s eating away at you. I hate seeing you like this. What happened in Florida? Nothing happened. You can’t keep carrying that around. It didn’t work out. What do you mean? I have to study. No, Benny. You’re going to take a minute and tell me. You were so happy when you left. What happened with Christopher? He didn’t do anything. It just wasn’t working out. Mom… Trust me… you don’t want to know. Yes. You can tell me. Did he hurt you? No. So what is it? Mom… My baby… It’s not Christopher. It’s his mother. Her name is… Carol Welling. But before… when she was married… her name was Carol Gaines when she lived here. Mom… I didn’t want to tell you. Mom… I can’t… No, no. They moved to Jacksonville after that. So you left? You had to. I… I think you made the right choice. What’s going on, honey? Que pasa, Lenora? What is it? Benny… He told me. Christopher… Christopher is Christopher Gaines. Christopher Gaines, Carol Gaines’ son. How is that possible? That’s why he… As soon as I see Christopher, I’m going to… I can’t. He doesn’t see him anymore, right? Is that wrong? No, of course not. Well? Hello . Hi. Julie said you have class until 4:00. Same as her. I wanted to give this to you. I miss you, Benny. Why didn’t you tell me? Why did you take me to Florida? – I didn’t know what to do. – You should have told me and thought about how I would feel. I thought it would be okay and by telling you I would lose you. – I didn’t want to. – You still lost me. Yes, I lost you. I’m sorry. I miss both of us. Me too. I hate it. Is Benny here? He’s coming. I’m sure he’ll come. Here he is. My God. – Why did he bring him? – I don’t know. We’re here for Becca, okay? We’ll talk to her later. Aunt Abby! Aunt Martha! Come here. We’ll be there in a minute. Come right now. What is it? Where’s Elaine? No one was supposed to come while I was gone. Well… Jonathan came by and… I don’t mean Jonathan. – Dr. Einstein was with him, but… – Not Einstein either. Who’s in that seat? We told you, Mr. Hoskins. It’s not Mr. Hoskins. Ah, well… Who could it be? You mean you’ve never seen him before? Exactly. It’s a first meeting. Everyone thinks they can get into this house. Hi Mom, hi Dad. Good evening. Mrs. and Mr. Cruz, nice to see you again. Me too. Becca was really great. Yes, wasn’t she? She was very funny, wasn’t she, Mom? I’m very proud of her. This is our star. Come here! You were great. – I’m so proud of you. – Thank you. – I’m glad you came. – That’s okay. And you too. It made me happy. I’m sure you’ll be a star. Thank you. – We’ll wait for you at the car. – Okay. We’ll talk at home. – Hi, Dad. – Do you have a minute, son? Yes. It wasn’t tonight. I thought Becca was great. Sit down. You upset your mom and me tonight. I feel sorry for you. You should slow down a little with Christopher. Why? He’s not the best for you. You don’t choose who you fall in love with. In fact, you do. Adults do. You don’t just choose with your heart, you choose with your head. And you choose for the ones who love you. It’s stupid. It’s stupid. I tried to break up with him. I stayed away from him and I was even sadder. I know it hurts. – It’ll pass. – No, you’re wrong. Benny… We love you. So much. We want the best for you. And we hope you want the best for us. You had fun with him. You… You know you love your mom. How do you know you love him? I know, Dad. That’s all. Benny… Why can’t I choose what I want? Why can’t you be happy for me? Haven’t I done anything right all these years? – When did I screw up? – Calm down. Or what? You’ll see. Okay, Dad. We’ll see. Ben. – Hi. – Hi, what’s up? Can I sleep here? Yes. Sure. – Do you remember Trucker? – Hi, Trucker. He won’t even realize we’re here. – What’s up? – Routine. My parents… They don’t want me to see you. They don’t let me live my life. You should answer. I don’t want to. I’ll let them worry a little. – We’ll make room for you. – Great. And that’s it… Shit. What? Some people are studying at university. You’re stupid! – Where’s Benny? – He didn’t come home last night. I know. Where is he? I don’t know, ask him yourself. Holy cow. – What do you want me to tell you? – Nothing. Hey, Becca, are you okay? Everything’s okay. I can’t stay home. Becca… It’s okay, don’t cry. It’ll be over soon, I’ll be back real soon. I have to leave you. Everything’s going to be okay. Promise me you won’t cry anymore. Okay, great. Bye, Becca. I love you too. Benny? Benny. You can stay as long as you want, you know that? But you can’t keep avoiding your family. You have to make things right with them. – Are you kicking me out? – No, of course. Fine, my mom wouldn’t accept it. You don’t know that. Yes, I do. Your mom won’t accept it as long as you avoid her. You have to talk to her. – Talk to her. – Forget it! You want me to leave? Fine, I’m leaving. I don’t want to talk to my mother and neither do you! I want to be left alone! Hello. I thought I heard someone. Have you come to raid the fridge? I was hungry. I’m glad to see you. Go ahead, make your sandwich. So… Final showdown. Let’s see. I did very well, I think. Good. I’m delighted. I knew everything. I guess I studied well. As always. You know where I sleep. With Christopher. Benny… He has nothing to do with it. What do you want me to do? I don’t know what to tell you. We’ve never talked about it before. You and me. He’s a really good person. He doesn’t remember. I don’t remember either. Why does it matter? It was a long time ago. A long time ago? It’s still happening now. It’s about to happen. It’s all just one long, horrible day. I don’t want you to be sad. Christopher was there that day. I can see it, and you can see it. And I see Davey, it’s too much. He’s in my life now. I’m here right now. I can’t make you understand. We’ll never understand each other. Benny. Benny, stop! Benny… stop! – Have your sandwich. – I don’t want anything from you. Benny. Sorry. You really scared me. Are you all right? Yes. Look who’s here. Benny, I know you didn’t expect to see me. Christopher told me what was going on. He said you were sleeping here. I want to make things right. – I told him not to come. – I couldn’t. And you disappeared last night? She wants to meet your mother. Oh my God. I think we need to talk. You can’t fix everything all the time. You’re not a spiritual teacher. I need to see her. She won’t want to talk to you. We can handle this. I told you not to come. You deserve your chance. I feel responsible. For you, this isn’t fair. Benny, I’d like two things. Your home address and where… where your brother is buried. – Hello. – Hello. Lenora? Forgive me for coming here, but I had to. – What? – I haven’t stopped thinking about it. I had to come. – You have no right. – Give me a moment. I went to the grave before I came. I saw the flowers. I want you to know how sorry I am. So sorry. Not a day goes by that I don’t think about it. The only way I’ve found to cope is to remember. To tell myself it was an accident. A tragic accident. Then I met Benny. Your son is… He’s wonderful. I don’t know why, but he and my son are friends. They share something unique. Have you noticed? Forgive me. Please forgive me. Benny is unique. Christopher seems like a very fine young man. But you have to go. I’ll go if you want. I wanted you to know how sorry I am. And now you’re doing this. Yes. Thank you, Lenora. I didn’t come here for myself. Not for you. It was for our boys. Who was she? Christopher’s mother. What did she want? She came to ask my forgiveness. Really? Are you okay? I’m okay. What did you say to her? I don’t know. I asked her to leave. She’s lucky I stayed and listened. My heart… My heart… Do you remember what you said to me when we lost Davey? Do you remember? I thought I couldn’t take it. The sadness. The distance from you. Missing Davey. I wanted to leave and you said, « Hang in there. » You knew I was stronger than I thought. My heart, you have to hang in there. I don’t want to. You have to. I’m here for you. You have to. Benny loves Christopher. Even if it’s just temporary, we have to deal with it. It sounds crazy, but… I don’t recognize our little boy anymore. He isn’t, he’s a grown-up. If I lose Benny… it’s like losing Davey all over again. That’s how I feel. You have to hang in there. Hello, Mom. Hello, Benny. What is it? Come home. I don’t think so. We want you to come home. We miss you. It’s not a family without you. I don’t know. We’d like you to come to dinner with Christopher. Wait. She wants you to come to dinner. Tell her yes. Okay. Great. Super. I’m very happy. So… can you be there around 7:00? – Okay. – Good. See you at 7:00. Benny… I love you. Okay. That’s good. Okay, dinner at 7:00. – Hey, boys! – Good evening, Mom. Thanks for coming. Of course. I hope you’re hungry because we have a big meal for you. Yes, there’s plenty to eat. Thank you, Mrs. Cruz. You’re welcome, Christopher. – Sit down. – You can sit here. – Next to you, Becca? – Maybe. Thanks, I’m happy to sit next to you. Come on, let’s eat, I’m hungry. Translation and subtitles: Guillaume Lhoumaud .

Déroulement de la vidéo:

83.0 Aisle 4. Hello, you.
88.4 What do we say? Hello.
105.08 – I’ll take a cart. – We don’t need one. – I want one. – We’re not taking much.
111.12 Benny’s going to want to push too.
117.24 Okay, push your brother.
127.36 Are you ready?
136.56 All right. Can we go?
165.04 Davey! Davey! Oh my God, Davey!
186.16 Benny! Are you with me? Please.
191.24 Standing in front of my class for hours is harassment. Calm down, my class just ended.
197.48 Are you coming? I don’t think so, I have things to do.
202.52 What’s more important than rugby? With the country’s future scientists?
208.08 – This is nonsense. – Come on, we need you. You’re the only one who looks like an athlete on the team.
214.36 I am an athlete, but I’m not on your team. Officially. Substitutes are allowed.
220.56 No. Come on, look at me. Please.
226.36 You, the big, strong one. Please. I don’t have a tracksuit. Perfect, John left his in my dorm.
233.72 I’ll text my mom.
268.32 You’re awesome. Every time you’re here, we win. You have to join the team.
276.0 Shut up.
282.72 – What’s up? – Hey. – You beat the shit out of us. – No, this is a team game.
288.72 Only you know what he’s doing here. – My name is Christopher. – Nice to meet you, I’m Benny.
296.52 You’re hard to take down. I played in high school. I see.
302.0 The engineering school isn’t known for its athletes. They call themselves the Killer Rabbits, you can imagine.
307.56 But we have fun. Well… We have no excuses. My team sucks.
313.64 I have to go, I don’t live on campus. – I have to be home for dinner. – Okay, great.
320.56 – Do you live on campus? – Yes. The Galucci building. Great.
327.0 – Christopher… – Yes? Can I have your number?
338.56 Benny, is that you? Yes, I’m covered in mud.
344.12 – Don’t get dirty. – I know, Mom.
350.2 I met someone today. What do you mean? A guy…
355.36 Really? Yes, really. I think so. And? Tell me about it.
361.6 I don’t want to give too much away. You started it. Who is he? I don’t know. I met him in rugby.
368.0 He played against us. We kicked their ass. And… did you talk to him? Yes.
374.0 – And? – I don’t want to give too much away. Fine. – Cute? – That’s not true.
380.56 Benny has a boyfriend! That’s what I didn’t want. – No, he’s not my boyfriend. – Who is he? Do I know him?
388.68 – How would you know him? – I know people.
394.16 – Mom? – Yes? Yes, he’s cute.
408.72 Hi! Is it too soon?
421.72 For what? To write to you.
432.4 – How are you? – Really great. And you?
441.16 I’m studying, but I’m fine.
448.24 – Aches and pains. – Me too. I strained my heart.
458.28 – You’re silly. – Come on, we’ll go for a walk.
464.28 With pleasure!
475.12 I have a little sister, Becca. Freshman year in high school. And my parents. Are you close?
481.16 Yes, we get along well. My dad is very laid-back. My mom likes to know everything.
489.4 I told her about you. About me? What did you tell her? I told her you seem cool.
496.52 What did she tell you? I told her she had nothing to say. – Why? – Even I don’t know what to say.
503.56 There’s nothing to say right now. Tell me about your mom.
510.0 She has a yoga studio in Jacksonville. She’s very relaxed
517.0 and in touch with herself. It’s great, but she’s lonely. My parents divorced when I was six years old.
524.08 Then we moved to Florida. She hasn’t had anyone since, except for two dates.
529.2 – Do you do yoga? – I could, but no. It’s hard to breathe and relax
536.2 when your mom is telling you what to do. Sometimes I wish I lived on campus.
541.68 I love my family , but I don’t have enough space or freedom. I don’t have much space either.
548.44 My roommate… never leaves. So…
553.56 what exactly are you studying? Biomedical engineering. I want to be a doctor.
559.56 Tissue design. And you?
565.56 I’m in Arts and Sciences. My classmates think that…
571.36 the less you know, the more you talk. And I like to talk, as you can see. But with smart people.
578.24 Like you, Dr. Benny. Thanks.
598.2 I’d like to invite you over, but my roommate will be here. It’s okay, I have to get home. To study.
607.36 I like you. Me too.
613.36 I want to see you again. I want to see you again.
637.4 Yes. I’ll wait here for a bit.
642.6 Why? Sorry.
649.08 It’s okay, trust me.
654.48 Call me, Dr. Benny. I promise.
674.36 They’re beautiful. That’s what I tell myself too. – Do you want to come with me today? – No, I’ll stay here.
684.4 Fine.
689.48 Thanks, Becca.
701.08 Benny wants to go to a party on campus tomorrow. He wants to sleep there. That’s good, he’ll have fun.
708.36 He says he’s spending the night at Julie’s. Fine, she’s his friend. It’s not like he’s going to get her pregnant.
715.44 David… What? I think he’s lying to us.
721.0 – No… Really? – Don’t do this. He shouldn’t even be living with us.
726.68 And we shouldn’t know what he’s doing outside the house. Imagine if your mom knew what was going on at college.
738.48 I don’t know if I want him spending the night with that boy. What’s the problem?
744.32 I don’t know, we don’t know him yet. I’m sure he’s a good guy, Benny’s smart.
752.2 You can’t lock his dick away. It’s not funny.
758.24 Let him go because he’ll go anyway.
763.72 – Would you let Becca do the same? – Oh no! She’s not going to sleep anywhere until she’s married.
771.28 It’s not fair. Okay, I’m just kidding. Sort of.
779.0 When did he get old enough to do things that aren’t age appropriate?
787.0 Gentlemen, miss. Thank you.
792.16 To friends, to us, to a big night. To dancing!
843.2 I’m tired. Please. This is for you.
849.6 I’ll sleep at John’s and you two sleep at mine since my roommate isn’t here.
855.52 – Is that true? – Of course. Happy honeymoon. You’re the best.
861.04 Oh my God. Total perfection. It looked like it.
866.16 Still is. I love you, Benny. I love you too. Thanks.
873.6 Say goodbye to the boys, John, it’s time to go to bed. – Good night, guys. – Good night.
879.4 See you later. I’d love that.
893.16 Oh my gosh! I need to tell you which one is Julie’s?
898.24 God save her. God save her.
903.4 I want to keep you more and more.
915.12 Wait, let me do this.
974.68 Good morning. Good morning.
981.76 What time is it?
986.88 10:20.
995.2 I wish we could stay here all day. That would be great.
1001.52 But man… your breath stinks.
1007.2 – Are you ticklish? – No. Stop! Stop!
1015.32 I take it back, your breath doesn’t stink.
1029.56 How did it go? It was good. Really? Was the club good?
1036.72 Yes, it was great, there were a lot of people. And… what’s his name?
1042.84 Christopher, was he there? Yes, he was.
1048.4 – Is this going to get serious? – Mom… It’s just a question. I don’t know.
1054.4 Maybe.
1146.8 Mom? Dad? This is Christopher. – Hello, nice to meet you. – Nice to meet you.
1154.4 Nice to finally know the day you’re taking our son. I’m just kidding. It’s nice of you to invite Benny to Florida for the holidays.
1162.92 Yes, of course. I’d rather have him in a house than in one of those party hotels.
1168.92 I’m not a party animal and my mom will be there. Great. I wish I could come too.
1174.36 Maybe next time. – Do you know where you’re going? – Yes, the route is all mapped out.
1180.2 Christopher knows where we’ll sleep on the road. Okay, I’m worried, you know that.
1185.56 – You’ll hear from him. – Not while driving. Of course not. Come with me, Benny.
1204.2 Dad… Be smart.
1211.76 Come on, before she starts wondering.
1216.84 He’s cute in that picture. That’s not Benny, it’s his big brother.
1222.8 – His brother? – Benny had a big brother. My first child, Davey. I didn’t know, he never told me.
1230.56 Davey was killed when he was eight.
1236.8 I’m sorry. It’s okay, it happened a long time ago.
1244.56 Come on, the holidays can’t wait. Are you sure you want to go, you don’t even know him?
1251.68 Don’t take it the wrong way, Christopher, you really look fine, but he’s my little Benny, my baby.
1262.68 Won’t you stay? I’ll make you some dinner. It’s time for you to hit the road.
1268.56 – Bye, Dad. – Bye. It was a pleasure. Take care.
1274.24 Goodbye. There you go.
1284.76 That woman is crazy. – She didn’t do anything wrong. – Yes! Sorry it’s happening like this. Do you see why I want to leave?
1296.28 – Are you okay? – Yes. – Yes, I’m okay. – Okay.
1307.6 Vacation!
1320.92 You’ve never been out of Ohio? Never. How is that possible?
1327.32 You’ve never gone on vacation? We’d go camping here, go boating there…
1333.72 I know, it’s lame, but the one time I was supposed to go on a school trip to Washington, D.C.,
1338.76 I got mono and had to stay home. Mono? Really?
1345.88 Who did you kiss? If only… No, it was at football, sharing a water bottle.
1354.36 You bet! I could make up some hot locker room story
1359.64 , but it was the water bottle. Okay, in honor of Dr. Benny’s first trip…
1368.24 A video. No, I hate being filmed. Stop it.
1374.88 – You’re so cute. – Not when I’m driving. My turn. Say hi.
1380.2 Oh my God! What’s this? We’re going to eat well.
1385.28 We’re going to the beach for the first time. – First time for me. – For everything.
1395.52 Make a face.
1403.52 I love to travel. My mom and I traveled for 2 years after Ohio.
1411.56 We lived in Georgia and North Carolina for a bit. I went to Texas, Arizona.
1420.76 After college, I’d like to go see the world. Wouldn’t that be great?
1426.76 Yes. You should come.
1431.92 I think we’re meant to travel together. Oh yeah? Yes, for one day for now.
1439.36 I’d like to. I have school for the next I don’t know how many years.
1445.44 That’s true… Doctor Benny. Yes. Doctor Benny.
1465.88 Can I ask you something about… Why have you never told me about your brother?
1473.48 I don’t know. I haven’t really thought about it. Do you miss him?
1479.92 I don’t really think about it. What was he like?
1485.88 What? What?
1491.36 What are you doing? Come swim. It says: No swimming at night.
1497.32 It doesn’t say « no midnight swim. » Come on.
1507.76 You call that a midnight swim? That’s a midnight swim.
1527.32 It’s freezing! It’s good.
1550.28 Holy cow! A full carton? How much sex have you planned?
1555.52 – My dad gave it to me. – Your dad? Shut up. He expects there to be a lot of action so…
1562.56 Mr. Cruz. If you don’t stop, there won’t be any for the trip.
1573.92 That’s what I thought.
1620.36 Hey, Mom. We’re almost there. We’ll be there in the afternoon.
1627.6 So… I’ll see you soon. There’s something I want to talk to you about…
1636.92 I’ll tell you when I see you.
1642.36 Sorry to be weird. See you soon. Bye.
1685.36 Christopher! I thought you’d forgotten us, it’s all dark. Forget you?
1690.84 How could I? I’ve been waiting for you for weeks. Benny…
1697.2 – Welcome. – Thank you, ma’am. Carol, please. – Are you grilling? – Yes, catfish.
1703.28 Look at this, fruit, salad. The whole lot for your return. When did you start grilling?
1709.56 I had to learn how to feed myself when you left. It’s his barbecue, he was the big chef around here.
1715.88 – You have to keep an eye on him. – No, it’s all right. I can save this.
1722.72 You see, it’s… perfect. Just don’t look at it. Come on, sit down. The table’s set.
1730.6 It was very good, Carol, thank you. – It wasn’t bad, was it? – It was good.
1736.36 You could teach an old dog new tricks. You say your mother is annoying?
1742.48 I stopped when I left home. Thank you. I think so.
1747.72 – I was never a pain in the ass to you. – No. I think I was a damn good mother.
1754.28 You were a good mother. You are. I always knew how to embarrass you.
1761.4 Okay, I’ll stop. But just so you know, Benny… He turns a nice red color when he gets a little upset.
1770.4 I can’t blush, I’m Mexican. I’ll put this up. She can’t wait to ask you questions.
1778.2 Be nice and mind your own business.
1788.92 What I like about that boy. Do you like that boy?
1794.52 He’s great. Yes, he’s great.
1799.72 I’m glad he has you as a friend and that you’re here. – I want you to feel at home. – I do.
1805.64 Very humble. Akron, Ohio, right?
1811.32 Chris must have told you he was born there. I was born and raised there, too.
1816.68 Good people. Polite.
1822.56 I sense you’re a good person. It’s not that there aren’t good people here in Florida
1829.36 , but there are fewer of them. But the climate is worth any moron.
1835.76 – If you’ll pardon the expression. – In Spanish, we say pendejo. Pendejo?
1841.76 That sounds good. Come on, Benny, come see the room.
1847.2 No, I’m not done with my interrogation. – Go ahead. – Thank you so much for dinner.
1871.48 Do you think you’ll have this hot tub to yourselves on a nice evening like this?
1876.72 Mom, please… Come on. I need it for my aching old bones.
1883.84 We’re fine here without you. Is it warmer than usual? It’s fine, Christopher.
1889.76 Thanks, Benny. A true gentleman. Moving here was the best decision of my life.
1898.2 I couldn’t stand those Ohio winters anymore. Let’s get to know each other better, Benny.
1905.28 Tell me something no one else knows but you. You don’t have to.
1910.56 No, no, it’s okay. I’ll do it. If I can think of something.
1919.88 This is it. – How stupid can it be? – Better stupid than tragic.
1925.36 Fine. In high school, I had a crush on one of my football teammates.
1932.2 Everyone already knew I was gay. It was hard to crush on someone before I came out,
1938.76 but it was even harder afterward because everyone wanted to know who Benny was after.
1944.44 You know boys. Most of them mistakenly assumed I was after them.
1949.64 However, I started to have a crush on this guy. His name was Ron.
1955.4 Right tackle. Not very smart, but adorable. I pretended I didn’t notice
1962.24 and didn’t approach him because he made me uncomfortable. So, for Valentine’s Day
1967.92 when everyone was handing out cards, I made him one and slipped it into his locker.
1974.88 It said, « I’m crazy about you. » I hadn’t signed it, of course.
1980.24 It was the only one he got. He wanted to show it to the whole school
1986.52 , wondering whose daughter it was from. He beamed all day.
1992.76 I was happy to be able to make him feel that way. Even just a little.
1999.4 I’d never told anyone about it. It’s not silly.
2004.76 It’s sweet. You’ve got a romantic there, Christopher.
2009.88 You’re crazy. Haven’t you ever told your mom? You should tell her. She’d love to know that about you.
2017.52 Benny and his mom are really close. I’m lucky, I have great parents.
2023.56 What do they do? My dad’s a lawyer , and my mom’s a stay-at-home mom with my sister and me.
2031.2 The Cruz family is a perfect little Midwestern family.
2038.2 Mom. Cruz? Is that your last name?
2046.8 Yes. Mom, come inside. Is your mom Lenora Cruz?
2054.8 Yes. Go inside.
2085.92 It was weird. She’s a little crazy sometimes. How does she know my mom?
2092.92 I told her. I’m sure she is.
2111.68 Do you smoke? I’m sorry, Christopher, but I need to talk to Benny.
2119.92 Leave us alone. Benny… I was in that parking lot that day.
2126.28 With your brother. – What? – Come on, let’s go home.
2131.76 I have to say this. Benny…
2136.92 We were shopping, Christopher was with me. I was driving.
2143.84 I was coming out of the parking lot and he…
2149.64 I didn’t even see him. Your brother. He was so small.
2156.52 I swear. He was… I didn’t see him.
2163.24 It was an accident. I hope you know that.
2169.76 A terrible accident. It was the most horrible day of my life.
2175.84 You need to know that. I know it was an accident, Mrs. Gaines.
2184.56 My poor little thing. I can’t believe you’re standing here in front of me.
2196.52 I think I’m going home.
2216.48 Benny.
2224.76 I’m sorry. I’m okay.
2233.52 No. No, I’m not.
2240.2 I just… What the hell.
2247.76 I need some time. I’m having trouble breathing.
2262.92 Is there anything I can do? Not really.
2270.24 Let me rest here.
2278.2 Give me a minute. Why don’t you go take a shower?
2285.32 I’m sorry. Shower first.
2291.56 It’ll be okay.
2298.44 Okay.
2320.56 One second. No, no, no…
2325.64 Wait, it’s Benny.
2331.64 Hi, Mom. Hi, sweetie.
2336.72 Am I bothering you? No, I’m not. It looks like you’re exercising.
2343.92 No, no. I mean, I just took a walk.
2350.4 How’s it going in Florida? It’s great.
2355.48 Really? – Great. – I was just calling to say that…
2363.56 everything’s okay. Are you okay?
2369.4 Yes, I’m fine. Okay . Have fun.
2375.36 Thanks for calling. Thanks, Mom. I love you.
2380.92 Me too.
2394.92 The shower’s free. Great. Thanks.
2404.52 – I’m sorry about all this. – Are you sorry? Are you kidding?
2410.28 I’m the one who’s sorry. I’ve never heard another side of the story.
2417.6 I just called my parents while they were having sex. Shit.
2436.84 Talk to me. Please. Do
2443.2 you remember that day?
2448.28 Not really. I must have been…
2453.76 six.
2459.2 I remember Davey being there… He was on the floor.
2467.6 I remember my mom screaming. I mostly remember what happened next.
2476.4 The funeral. My dad telling me what happened
2482.48 and telling me to be a good boy.
2487.84 I remember my mom. My mom treating me differently.
2496.6 For a while. My mom does too.
2506.72 It’s crazy.
2523.92 I just want to have a nice vacation. Yes.
2530.72 Don’t worry. I’m going to shower.
2563.8 Feet together. Hands at your sides. Palms forward.
2569.92 Breathe. Right hand above your head.
2575.84 Stretch. Stretch gently.
2582.2 Open your chest. Open your hearts. And breathe.
2587.8 That’s good. You can stretch a little more, Benny.
2608.64 I want to go home. That’s where we’re going. No.
2614.52 To Akron. We just got here.
2620.92 I hate that I want to, but I’m not comfortable.
2627.56 I don’t know what to do.
2635.68 I can’t stay. If we leave now, my mom is going to feel terrible.
2641.48 I know, but… right now I’m the one who feels terrible. It must have been great.
2649.2 The two of us here.
2654.32 We’re leaving in the afternoon. Thanks.
2669.8 Benny has a lot of tests coming up and he’s starting to get a little stressed.
2676.28 Then it’s best if we bring him back. I understand. Thank you very much, Mrs. Welling.
2681.8 Carol. The pleasure is mine. I hope you’ll come back soon.
2687.36 You’re welcome anytime. Thank you. Goodbye.
2697.76 – I’ll have a quick word with him. – Yes, of course.
2705.2 We’re not leaving because of so-called exams.
2710.32 We’re leaving because of you. – What are you talking about? – You had to tell him.
2716.48 I told you over and over again to stop talking, but you couldn’t stop spilling the beans.
2723.4 – I had to tell him. – You don’t even know him. Who said you had to talk?
2729.76 You have to ruin everything. All the time!
2735.36 We were going to have a great vacation and be a real couple. And you had to do it, ruin everything.
2741.76 Like you did with Dad. The past doesn’t go away.
2749.2 You should have faced it, sooner or later. I know that, but why did you decide that?
2758.92 I was happy. I was really happy.
2764.88 You couldn’t let me be happy.
2781.72 It sucks.
2798.2 I think I’m going to go.
2806.8 Benny? Let me ask you something.
2814.52 You knew, right? You knew about Davey and you took me there.
2824.56 I didn’t find out until the day we left.
2830.6 It was too late. You knew your mother killed my brother and you took me to that house like it was nothing.
2842.64 I just wanted to have a nice vacation. Why did you do that to me?
2854.8 I didn’t know what to do. I’m sorry.
2863.36 We should go our separate ways for a while. I don’t want to be with you anymore.
2872.36 No. Yes.
2886.76 I’m sorry.
2901.36 Who cuts their vacation short? Julie, don’t do this. Tell me what happened.
2908.52 You’re not with Christopher, did he do something? No, nothing. We’re just not meant to be together.
2916.2 You’re a great match , and you love him very much. We’re very different.
2922.92 And? Can we not talk about it? – What happened? – Please, Julie.
2930.2 Sorry. Can’t I worry about you? Worry quietly.
2936.36 I wanted to be with you so you could cheer me up. Okay.
2950.28 Was the weather bad? I don’t want to talk about it. Well…
2956.36 If I was on vacation at the beach, I wouldn’t want to leave.
2962.72 – Becca! – I don’t care.
2981.2 Benny? Can I come in? Sure. What is it?
2989.64 We need to talk about it. Whatever’s eating away at you.
2994.92 I hate seeing you like this. What happened in Florida?
3000.52 Nothing happened. You can’t keep carrying that around.
3008.44 It didn’t work out. What do you mean?
3014.68 I have to study. No, Benny. You’re going to take a minute and tell me.
3023.76 You were so happy when you left. What happened with Christopher?
3030.36 He didn’t do anything. It just wasn’t working out.
3039.72 Mom… Trust me… you don’t want to know.
3046.52 Yes. You can tell me.
3051.88 Did he hurt you? No.
3057.2 So what is it? Mom…
3062.76 My baby… It’s not Christopher.
3072.64 It’s his mother.
3077.76 Her name is… Carol Welling.
3084.84 But before… when she was married…
3091.84 her name was Carol Gaines when she lived here.
3097.28 Mom… I didn’t want to tell you. Mom…
3105.84 I can’t… No, no.
3111.88 They moved to Jacksonville after that.
3119.68 So you left? You had to.
3130.92 I… I think you made the right choice.
3149.56 What’s going on, honey? Que pasa, Lenora?
3154.76 What is it? Benny… He told me.
3160.76 Christopher… Christopher
3167.6 is Christopher Gaines.
3172.68 Christopher Gaines, Carol Gaines’ son.
3182.56 How is that possible?
3188.72 That’s why he… As soon as I see Christopher, I’m going to…
3194.76 I can’t. He doesn’t see him anymore, right?
3203.32 Is that wrong? No, of course not.
3218.56 Well?
3226.56 Hello
3247.36 . Hi. Julie said you have class until 4:00.
3254.6 Same as her. I wanted to give this to you.
3265.76 I miss you, Benny. Why didn’t you tell me?
3271.64 Why did you take me to Florida? – I didn’t know what to do. – You should have told me
3278.52 and thought about how I would feel. I thought it would be okay and by telling you I would lose you.
3285.8 – I didn’t want to. – You still lost me. Yes, I lost you.
3292.48 I’m sorry.
3297.92 I miss both of us.
3306.6 Me too. I hate it.
3323.36 Is Benny here? He’s coming. I’m sure he’ll come. Here he is.
3332.76 My God. – Why did he bring him? – I don’t know.
3338.76 We’re here for Becca, okay? We’ll talk to her later.
3360.84 Aunt Abby! Aunt Martha! Come here. We’ll be there in a minute. Come right now.
3367.56 What is it? Where’s Elaine? No one was supposed to come while I was gone. Well…
3374.52 Jonathan came by and… I don’t mean Jonathan. – Dr. Einstein was with him, but… – Not Einstein either.
3382.24 Who’s in that seat? We told you, Mr. Hoskins. It’s not Mr. Hoskins.
3388.48 Ah, well… Who could it be? You mean you’ve never seen him before?
3396.32 Exactly. It’s a first meeting. Everyone thinks they can get into this house.
3418.56 Hi Mom, hi Dad. Good evening. Mrs. and Mr. Cruz, nice to see you again.
3424.44 Me too. Becca was really great. Yes, wasn’t she?
3430.72 She was very funny, wasn’t she, Mom? I’m very proud of her.
3435.92 This is our star. Come here! You were great. – I’m so proud of you. – Thank you.
3443.28 – I’m glad you came. – That’s okay. And you too. It made me happy.
3449.92 I’m sure you’ll be a star. Thank you.
3455.24 – We’ll wait for you at the car. – Okay. We’ll talk at home.
3473.52 – Hi, Dad. – Do you have a minute, son?
3479.84 Yes.
3485.44 It wasn’t tonight. I thought Becca was great.
3491.64 Sit down.
3499.56 You upset your mom and me tonight. I feel sorry for you.
3508.8 You should slow down a little with Christopher. Why? He’s not the best for you.
3516.76 You don’t choose who you fall in love with. In fact, you do.
3522.2 Adults do. You don’t just choose with your heart, you choose with your head. And you choose for the ones who love you.
3529.56 It’s stupid. It’s stupid. I tried to break up with him.
3537.48 I stayed away from him and I was even sadder. I know it hurts.
3545.44 – It’ll pass. – No, you’re wrong. Benny… We love you. So much.
3552.92 We want the best for you. And we hope you want the best for us.
3561.24 You had fun with him. You… You know you love your mom.
3569.2 How do you know you love him? I know, Dad. That’s all. Benny…
3576.36 Why can’t I choose what I want? Why can’t you be happy for me?
3585.72 Haven’t I done anything right all these years? – When did I screw up? – Calm down.
3592.28 Or what? You’ll see. Okay, Dad.
3598.92 We’ll see. Ben.
3620.4 – Hi. – Hi, what’s up? Can I sleep here? Yes.
3625.64 Sure.
3631.76 – Do you remember Trucker? – Hi, Trucker. He won’t even realize we’re here.
3646.68 – What’s up? – Routine. My parents… They don’t want me to see you.
3653.6 They don’t let me live my life.
3664.72 You should answer. I don’t want to.
3669.8 I’ll let them worry a little. – We’ll make room for you. – Great.
3681.32 And that’s it… Shit.
3686.64 What? Some people are studying at university. You’re stupid!
3696.36 – Where’s Benny? – He didn’t come home last night. I know. Where is he?
3702.36 I don’t know, ask him yourself. Holy cow. – What do you want me to tell you? – Nothing.
3731.2 Hey, Becca, are you okay? Everything’s okay. I can’t stay home.
3743.2 Becca… It’s okay, don’t cry. It’ll be over soon, I’ll be back real soon.
3751.36 I have to leave you. Everything’s going to be okay. Promise me you won’t cry anymore.
3761.56 Okay, great. Bye, Becca.
3767.36 I love you too.
3778.44 Benny?
3785.2 Benny. You can stay as long as you want, you know that?
3791.92 But you can’t keep avoiding your family. You have to make things right with them.
3797.88 – Are you kicking me out? – No, of course. Fine, my mom wouldn’t accept it.
3803.76 You don’t know that. Yes, I do.
3812.88 Your mom won’t accept it as long as you avoid her. You have to talk to her.
3819.24 – Talk to her. – Forget it! You want me to leave? Fine, I’m leaving.
3825.24 I don’t want to talk to my mother and neither do you! I want to be left alone!
4062.56 Hello. I thought I heard someone.
4068.24 Have you come to raid the fridge? I was hungry. I’m glad to see you.
4078.2 Go ahead, make your sandwich. So…
4084.24 Final showdown. Let’s see. I did very well, I think.
4091.56 Good. I’m delighted. I knew everything.
4097.36 I guess I studied well. As always.
4104.68 You know where I sleep. With Christopher.
4112.84 Benny… He has nothing to do with it. What do you want me to do?
4119.56 I don’t know what to tell you. We’ve never talked about it before.
4125.56 You and me. He’s a really good person.
4130.88 He doesn’t remember. I don’t remember either. Why does it matter? It was a long time ago.
4138.76 A long time ago? It’s still happening now. It’s about to happen.
4145.8 It’s all just one long, horrible day. I don’t want you to be sad.
4152.8 Christopher was there that day. I can see it, and you can see it. And I see Davey, it’s too much.
4159.92 He’s in my life now. I’m here right now. I can’t make you understand.
4167.8 We’ll never understand each other. Benny.
4174.76 Benny, stop!
4180.84 Benny… stop! – Have your sandwich. – I don’t want anything from you.
4207.92 Benny.
4213.64 Sorry. You really scared me.
4220.92 Are you all right? Yes.
4229.64 Look who’s here. Benny, I know you didn’t expect to see me.
4236.2 Christopher told me what was going on. He said you were sleeping here.
4241.56 I want to make things right. – I told him not to come. – I couldn’t.
4247.8 And you disappeared last night? She wants to meet your mother.
4254.2 Oh my God. I think we need to talk. You can’t fix everything all the time.
4261.36 You’re not a spiritual teacher. I need to see her.
4268.4 She won’t want to talk to you. We can handle this. I told you not to come.
4276.44 You deserve your chance. I feel responsible.
4281.56 For you, this isn’t fair. Benny, I’d like two things.
4289.92 Your home address
4295.36 and where… where your brother is buried.
4428.76 – Hello. – Hello. Lenora?
4435.68 Forgive me for coming here, but I had to. – What? – I haven’t stopped thinking about it.
4441.92 I had to come. – You have no right. – Give me a moment.
4451.84 I went to the grave before I came. I saw the flowers.
4461.8 I want you to know how sorry I am.
4466.92 So sorry.
4472.64 Not a day goes by that I don’t think about it.
4477.88 The only way I’ve found to cope is to remember.
4483.28 To tell myself it was an accident. A tragic accident.
4496.6 Then I met Benny. Your son is… He’s wonderful.
4506.2 I don’t know why, but he and my son are friends. They share something unique.
4514.68 Have you noticed?
4520.92 Forgive me.
4526.28 Please forgive me.
4531.64 Benny is unique. Christopher seems like a very fine young man.
4538.84 But you have to go. I’ll go if you want. I wanted you to know how sorry I am.
4548.68 And now you’re doing this. Yes.
4554.76 Thank you, Lenora.
4572.44 I didn’t come here for myself.
4578.44 Not for you.
4583.56 It was for our boys.
4596.24 Who was she? Christopher’s mother.
4602.92 What did she want? She came to ask my forgiveness.
4616.36 Really? Are you okay?
4622.92 I’m okay.
4629.92 What did you say to her? I don’t know.
4635.84 I asked her to leave. She’s lucky I stayed and listened.
4647.28 My heart… My heart… Do you remember what you said to me
4653.92 when we lost Davey? Do you remember?
4659.72 I thought I couldn’t take it. The sadness.
4666.92 The distance from you. Missing Davey.
4674.92 I wanted to leave and you said,
4680.24 « Hang in there. » You knew I was stronger than I thought.
4690.92 My heart, you have to hang in there. I don’t want to. You have to.
4700.48 I’m here for you. You have to.
4709.84 Benny loves Christopher. Even if it’s just temporary,
4717.28 we have to deal with it.
4722.48 It sounds crazy, but… I don’t recognize our little boy anymore.
4727.76 He isn’t, he’s a grown-up. If I lose Benny…
4735.68 it’s like losing Davey all over again. That’s how I feel.
4748.4 You have to hang in there.
4766.76 Hello, Mom. Hello, Benny. What is it?
4772.32 Come home. I don’t think so.
4778.44 We want you to come home. We miss you. It’s not a family without you.
4785.76 I don’t know. We’d like you to come to dinner with Christopher.
4794.24 Wait. She wants you to come to dinner.
4801.4 Tell her yes.
4809.64 Okay. Great. Super.
4816.72 I’m very happy. So… can you be there around 7:00?
4822.68 – Okay. – Good. See you at 7:00.
4828.36 Benny… I love you. Okay.
4847.56 That’s good. Okay, dinner at 7:00.
4863.88 – Hey, boys! – Good evening, Mom. Thanks for coming.
4869.56 Of course. I hope you’re hungry because we have a big meal for you.
4876.4 Yes, there’s plenty to eat. Thank you, Mrs. Cruz.
4881.48 You’re welcome, Christopher. – Sit down. – You can sit here.
4889.44 – Next to you, Becca? – Maybe. Thanks, I’m happy to sit next to you.
4909.84 Come on, let’s eat, I’m hungry.
5208.68 Translation and subtitles: Guillaume Lhoumaud
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