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Biblical Truth Explained #christianliving, fournis par [vid_author_name]. La description se trouve ci-dessous :« Est-ce juste une lutte privée – ou quelque chose de plus profond? La masturbation est souvent rejetée comme une habitude personnelle, mais la vérité est: elle peut facilement devenir une esclavage spirituel. Il ne ressemble pas toujours à un péché contre Dieu, mais ses conséquences – raconter, culpabilité, terne spirituelle et déconnexion émotionnelle – peuvent vous éloigner de la présence et du but de Dieu. Il ne s’agit pas d’être parfait. Il s’agit de rester libre. Ne protégez pas une habitude qui vole votre faim pour les choses de Dieu. Parlons-en. Soyons réels. Soyons gratuits. #TheChristianVillage #faithandPurit #ChristianStruggles #BreakingBondage #SEXUALPURIT ».

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Mettre en place une stratégie pour cesser

Faire ressortir la nécessité de l’entraide sociale

• Discuter avec un sexologue : Un expert en la matière pourra vous orienter vers les meilleures solutions. (voir à ce proposce site très connu chasteté.fr)
• Participer à des groupes de soutien : L’échange avec des personnes ayant des objectifs similaires est motivant.

Suggérer des solutions pour prévenir les rechutes

• Désactiver l’accès à la pornographie : Utilisez des filtres ou bloqueurs pour limiter l’accès aux contenus explicites.
• Créer un emploi du temps bien organisé : Remplissez votre journée de tâches et de loisirs bien définis.

Présenter des stratégies efficaces pour limiter cette pratique

• Identifier les déclencheurs : Notez ce qui provoque l’envie.
• Substituer cette pratique par de nouvelles passions : Faites du sport ou explorez d’autres centres d’intérêts.
• Remplacer par des alternatives saines : Essayez le sport ou explorez de nouveaux hobbies.

Faire le point sur la dépendance à la masturbation et ses conséquences

Évaluer les signes indiquant une dépendance

La dépendance à la masturbation peut se traduire par une fréquence croissante et une difficulté à limiter l’activité, ce qui peut entraîner des problèmes dans la vie intime et affective.

Rechercher les effets de ces changements sur la santé mentale et physique

La consommation habituelle de pornographie, couplée à une dépendance à la masturbation, stimule constamment le système dopaminergique, ce qui peut entraîner des conséquences comme l’éjaculation précoce, une diminution de l’énergie ou des frustrations sexuelles.

Comprendre ce qu’est la masturbation et ses différentes formes

Bien que souvent bénéfique pour diminuer le stress et mieux comprendre son propre corps, la masturbation, lorsqu’elle devient fréquente, peut causer des problèmes importants.

Analyser les bénéfices d’une rupture réussie avec la pratique

Présenter les étapes vers un équilibre mental amélioré

L’abstinence entraîne souvent un regain d’énergie, une humeur plus stable et une concentration accrue.

Expliquer comment les interactions sociales deviennent plus harmonieuses

Les liens avec un partenaire s’enrichissent, marqués par une connexion émotionnelle et physique plus forte.

Expliquer le trajet vers une joie persistante

En diminuant la dépendance, on peut expérimenter des bénéfices durables dans tous les aspects de la vie.

Défi et sexualité : comprendre l’impact de la masturbation

Pour certaines personnes, hommes et femmes, la masturbation est un acte naturel souvent associé à l’exploration de la sexualité. Toutefois, lorsque cette pratique prend le dessus et se mue en addiction, elle peut interférer avec divers aspects de la vie, rendant le processus d’arrêt particulièrement difficile.

Observer les facteurs liés à l’essor de cette pratique

Observer l’effet de la solitude sur les désirs

Le manque de satisfaction dans un couple ou dans la vie personnelle, associé à la solitude, peut être un facteur déclencheur de cette pratique.

Aborder les aspects psychologiques et émotionnels

Des émotions comme le stress, l’anxiété ou l’insatisfaction dans d’autres pans de la vie peuvent déclencher cette pratique excessive.

Analyser les conséquences de la pornographie sur les comportements

La pornographie est un facteur déterminant. Elle booste souvent l’envie de se masturber et peut nuire à la compréhension de la sexualité.

Pour conclure

Arrêter la masturbation compulsive est une démarche qui nécessite de la patience et de la persévérance. En suivant un plan détaillé et avec l’aide appropriée, il est tout à fait possible de franchir cet obstacle et de profiter des avantages d’une vie plus épanouie et orientée vers des objectifs plus gratifiants.

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Retranscription des paroles de la vidéo: shalom family You’re welcome to the Every Christian podcast where we explore the truths that shape our walk with God This is the thin line segment where we discuss the small things the things we often overlook the things we often justify the things we often assume that do not affect affect our walk with God But today let’s find out Welcome guys Thank you ma’am We’re going to be discussing a very controversial is that the right word to use Yes controversial Controversial topic today And you’re welcome to this particular se segment the theme line Thank you ma’am Yeah I’m particularly excited about this particular segment because it’s going to be a platform where we can dissect you know the little things we often overlook as Christians The little thing we often justify those little things we often assume they have nothing on us not knowing that they are slowly but gently you know taking us out of the mark you know I don’t know what I was thinking but I began thinking um having this thought some days back that it always starts from a mole heel you know it’s always small for you see the mountain it never appears as a mountain those little steps you think is is not harmful you think it’s just you doing your thing until you realize one day that what was just a decision has become a trap a prison a bondage So we are going to be discussing today on masturbation Is it a personal habit or is it a spiritual bondage And I want to get your take on that So what do you think Oh my with um masturbation I feel like masturbation works like every other sin It starts from you compromising on certain things start from you just saying oh it’s just this it’s just one time or it’s just uh I’m not doing it with anybody so it’s just selfpleasure and then it starts from there then it starts opening doors you know I think recently I learned that the way sin works it starts with a habit and then it open doors to portals then the spirit comes in and then sit upon it that’s what I learned so I feel like it’s not just it’s not just something you do yeah see masturbation is a a willful act It starts it starts from there That’s the foundation of it It starts by you just doing you know I’m pleasing myself Amazing I watched a video from a certain pastor I want to call his name so that I can avoid it And he was talking about masturbation not being a sin But talking about masturbation being of pleasure like every other you know every one It’s like you know you may start scratching your body a little spot on your body is itching you and you scratch it and it’s nice you know at the beginning Yeah It’s just nice and you it started by your choice You know you felt that thing and you wanted to and then the sensation it produced was so nice that you continue scratching it and you know it’s still nice and then you get to a point where it stops being just you wanting to scratch it It gets to the point where that thing tells you scratch me because you you you’ve created a fracture there that feeds on that scratching It fits on that thing So you you know I’ve seen people have absess wounds right But they can’t keep their hands off those wounds They just Yes because that wound makes that thing when you scratch it you feel like it’s nice but you don’t know you’ve crossed the line the same with masturbation it starts from I think this example is a very is a very explicit example the example of the wound you know that a wound is something that is not pleasant yes but then why do you keep going yes I think it’s a I think if we can come up with an article to explain probably I think no the word is not algorithm the word is something that you use a particular illustration describe another thing I feel like people get to get to the knowledge about these two examples Yes The danger of it Yes I I think um based on what she said I think um we should use the example of Jesus at the temple When the devil took him to the temple that’s Matthew 4:5-7 The devil asked him to jump Yes But he did not push him Yes So you have to know that there’s no way that the devil will destroy your life without your cooperation It cannot be a spiritual even if he has to be a spiritual position or whatever It starts with you You make the decision All he does is whisper You have the ability power to decide if you want to or you do not want to I think this scripture I just want to read the scripture um as we continue I think Romans 6:13 says no longer present your members to sin as instruments So you present when you go to give your candidate in French I can remember French word and you’re going to apply for something you go there to give your application like I want to get into this so it starts from you applying that that act on that money and the more you keep doing you know you’re applying and the moment the guy puts interest in you the devil he now see as children of God right this guy has nothing on us that’s true because the seed of God is within us but the moment When we start giving those cracks we start creating those cracks that becomes a legal ground on which he cannot work on Yes So it starts from a personal habit when you choose to do this thing It’s harmless You’re pleasing yourself You know I don’t want to get pregnant I’m avoiding Yeah I don’t want to cheat on this STD Yeah If you look at the reasons why people tend to masturbate it’s crazy I mean the reasons are so genuine themselves you know I I I met a lady one time who said she prefers to masturbate than to fornicate because she’s keeping herself her husband You know I love my future husband so much that I don’t want Excuse me I’m actually laughing because that was me Oh that was me Like that’s the message I was I was bound by masturbation for a very long time And also I had this idea I was so bound that sometimes we go for church retreats and I’m masturbating there at the retreat center It was so bad like it got to the point that I accepted it for a long time And then that’s like when the when the Bible says that the devil is the father of all liars You have to lie for him to become your father That’s it So when you start by foundation Yes When you lay the foundation there’s a spirit that comes there to enable you Yes And and and I think that’s why I got that’s why I got attracted to this particular segment of the every Christians podcast The little things that we ignore The little things that we sometimes justify you No It’s my body now You know many people have said it’s my body now It’s my body It’s not my body How is it a sin I’m not here to say whether this masturbation thing is a sin or a sin Right I’m going to read a couple of scriptures Let’s help you decide You know um the first thing I’ll do is this I read the scripture as the foundation scripture right It says that um Romans 14:23 but whoever has doubts is condemned if he eats because the eating is not from faith Mhm For whatever does not prod proceed from faith is seen That’s the first one So you asking yourself is it sin or not sin You already have doubts So you know where it is right Exactly Um Romans 2:14-16 says that for when the Gentiles who do not have the law by nature by nature also do what the law requires they are a law to themselves Even though they do not have the law they show that the work of the law is written on their hearts While their conscience also bears witness and their conflicting thoughts accuse or even excuse them on that day when according to many to my gospel God judges the secret of men’s heart So your secret thoughts accuse or excuse you So whether you’re thinking is a sin or not it’s not for us to say it’s for you to decide I have a lot of books to read on that So I’m going to read it All right Just give me a moment I don’t want because my focus on this is not to say if you’re in sin or not It’s to let you be the judge of that All right Yes But I’m going to tell us exactly what this is You know I began by saying that the Every Christians podcast is a place where we explore the truths that shape our walk with God You know and this is this has a it it has something it does to that particular thing We’re going to get there See okay sin is lawlessness I’m trying to define what sin is Then you will decide if masturbation is a sin or not a sin Sin is law lawlessness When you break God’s law it’s a sin First John 3:4 says « Everyone who sins breaks the law In fact sin is lawlessness. » So sin is not just about doing wrong but also about failing to do what is right Sin is falling short of God’s glory Then you miss the mark Romans 3:23 says follow of God’s glory Right Verse 5 says « Sin is going against one’s own conscience. » Yes When you go against your conscience is sin Romans 14:22 Person believes something is wrong but does anyway it is sin for them All right The s point says sin is rebellion against God So sin is a deliberate act of disobedience and defiance towards God’s will Sin is being enslaved to wickedness Sin is unrighteousness Sin is following the desires of the flesh Does masturbation for what Desire of the flesh Masturbation sin or not sin It’s not for us to tell It’s not for us to answer Yes I mean let me just leave with it right Sin is not just about wrong actions but about the condition of the heart rebellion against God and a deviation from his perfect will Whether by action inaction or misplaced desires sin separates us from God All right So that the reason why I I took us through this route was to bring us to this point You see I’m not here to tell you whether you’re sinning by masturbation or you’re not sinning I’m here to talk about the effects that masturbation has on you You see this innocent thing that we often over underlook or overlook starts as a personal decision graduates and becomes a bondage You know spirits now take charge and they begin to you know you’re under an influence You know the Bible even says that God has not given us the spirit of fear but to bondage but of selfcontrol but that’s that particular scripture is not being respected with this act right because it takes away your self control at some point and amazingly you never know when you get there never know when you get there and this lady’s um um goal of wanting to keep herself or her husband is so beautiful but masturbation it’s it’s against God’s own designed for intimacy You know when God created that was for man or woman to please themselves you know but the moment you start praising yourself and masturbation you you’re that’s out of God’s will which is which is sin Okay but we’ll leave that for them to decide All right So look at the many things that masturbation leads us to So what do you think I I I know of guilt that if you ever masturbate you know what you know the weight of you that falls on your shoulders Yes I I think I know of um it it arouses a certain unpleasant sexual control within you It it it increases your lipido to to make you get unnecessarily horny So to the extent that you cannot have self-control anymore you just want to have you want to do it at every moment You want to probably in the case of maybe when you get married and then you’re finally resulted to you want to start having sex then it starts getting from you having unpleasant sexual desires and and and it gets to a point where you might not even care about your partner There are certain commitments you you would do because of you know what this person offers even to the level of your your needs right but if you know that you can satisfy meet those needs without this person why do I have to you know you try go sleep I would you know you know the night I really want to have you and you acting I can just damn you and then you know so it affects your marriage somehow you don’t put in the energy you don’t put in the because you you part of it the reason why people can go to every extreme for their partner Is this no I love this person I want to be with them All right And if if you find a substitute would you like buy fake brand original brand for 22 million I can buy the fake one for 10 million and save money because it’s it seem to serve the same purpose but you’re missing something All right So I think of guilt The first thing that masturbation does is that it leaves you at the place of guilt You feel so guilty And there’s a way that this guilt keeps you away from God’s presence because you can’t even pray You feel like you’re dirty You feel like you’re not worthy of you know that you you you you come on No actually it affects your relationship with people because many people do it to like substitute relationship with people especially men And so when you get married I think I heard of a guy who um two actually I’m going to give two instances The first one was a guy who was confessing and he said he masturbated with his wife When I first heard it the first thing I was like « Excuse me. » Yeah that’s exactly the reaction I had And then he was like « Um he was on the hospital bed and he did not know he need he was honey and he needed to release quickly. » So he looked at his wife while he was masturbating She was maybe um trying to um serve food He looked at her and masturbated until he released And I’m like « Hey he that he that sits in heaven laughs What rubbish? » I’m like « Excuse you sir Please keep your wife out of this. » Like and then there’s another person that says « Um when I get married I will not masturbate again I’m just doing it for now So when I get married you think it’s that easy to switch? » The the thing is you don’t understand that at a certain point it’s no longer you Mhm You’re being controlled by the spirit that is in charge of that He enables you He makes sure that he makes he makes sure that you’re insertable by any other person That is where you will get satisfaction from There people who finish having like I don’t know intimacy with their partners and then they go to another room or sometimes in the same room and they say oh this was this is nothing They even do have enhancers for for for stuff like that Probably in a case where somebody considers his partner incapable they get enhancers that could help them privately to help them to be sexually satisfied And while Majesty was talking it just it just dawned on me that you know when the Bible says that the spirit comes in with seven uh seven other demons that are stronger than him You know that it’s difficult for you to see or it’s difficult for you to find someone who is addicted to masturbation who is not addicted to pornography True and you know that this is another is something also on its own There is no way you can be watching porn without it’s pretty difficult like that So when you find out that you’re being addicted to this kind of things other spirits start coming in Other spirits start coming in is from one thing to another You start battling one other thing to another and at the end of the day you just find out that you and God you are parallel Yes Your parallel life Yeah like like what you’re talking about about not being able to relate to people You know God brings amazing relationships away You know our father always says that God’s men are his mentor and God is going to bring a person and we are treasures in earth verses The Bible says you know God will bring people your way who have things to offer But you can’t see those things because you are lost You’re cl it it it crowds your your sense of reasoning You know it crowds your sight You can’t even see beyond because you are it narrows how far you can see a person You you begin to sexualize So because you you’re you’re helpless you know you’re helpless and you can’t relate to people the same people God brings your way You know that’s and sometimes it it it really gets you to the corner You feel like you’re not worthy to be where the others are No People are talking somewhere and you have what to say but you can’t share because you feel like all what I’m saying is the Holy Ghost even still with me Amen And then the worst act it shunts you away from your purpose Cuz you can’t speak boldly because you feel like « Oh I’m dirty I’m guilty. » If this thing was really not as bad as we or if this thing was really as good as we think it is why does it leave us guilty Exactly Why does it leave us guilty Exactly And why do you want to always do it secretly Secretly Why That’s that’s I think while while I was growing up the early stages of my life when um I just give my life to Christ I think we used to attend certain um Bible clubs together and then there was this lady who often used to define sin as anything you do in the hiding that you cannot do in the public So that mentality alone sticks in your head and tells you that even if you want to say something in the hive even if it’s something that you just want to say just when you’re alone and you cannot see this particular word outside there should be something wrong with that word Something is wrong Something is wrong with that word So this is a I think I feel like this is a very good is a very good demonstration of of what masturbation is You know we have compromised so much on certain sins to the extent that we categorize we categorize them We put them in that category of things like it’s not really bad or Yeah it’s not that bad Yeah it doesn’t matter We overlook them and then is masturbation is part of those sins that are rarely me It’s not even mentioned in the Bible True And that I think that’s why many people think exactly that’s why we we comfortably live in that because the Bible doesn’t say it’s a sin you know And I I I really think that the earlier you understand that it’s not just about the masturbation per se but what it leads you to because if you want if you’re a child of God as you say and then you want to live for God you want to do his will It masturbation doesn’t lead you to God’s will It doesn’t help you do God’s will Instead it takes you away from that You know it risk your you constantly want to be locked up in the house because you want because you can’t do it in public You want to do it in secret So you ask why I’ve seen someone I’ve seen someone who is introvert highly introverted and then I got close to this person and I got to find out that this person does not like going out because the person is already comfortable masturbating So the person feels like each time that he gets in a crowd of people and he starts feeling like he wants to he wants to masturbate is a problem So he has to go home And then I’m like but you can sustain relationship You cannot sustain relationship with people and it also leads you to lust You cannot have a genuine relationship and loss work Yes And don’t y like this See like this Yes Exactly Because you see just like what you said m that God sends valuable people to you but you cannot keep the relationship But because you know that you are Christian and you’re supposed to be in the mood of purity every time you want to compromise on that and then it results to you masturbating lusting and masturbating Losting and masturbating I’ve heard a couple I’ve read a couple of um messages online I’ve spoken to a couple of people who they get to tell you that when they start lusting over a particular person or when they or when they find someone attractive and they know that they cannot have this person probably because this person is married this person is a relationship or this person hasn’t spoken to them or the person is into purity or you know that you two cannot do it because they feel like their penetration is different from you just doing it at home privately they resort to masturbating watching pornography with that person at the back of their mind I’m like this can only be from the pit of hell True It’s a devilish act And and and guess what Masturbation I think a majority of um let me say Christians you know there’s a good number Yeah Let me rephrase A good number of Christians who are in delay today because of masturbation True You know you you can’t work You can’t maybe talking about a person who stays in the midst of people has to leave because the urge right imag you you it plays on your self-control I mean it destroys your self-control You see one timing crazy but I’ll say it right crazy I’ll say it So one time I woke up from bed this morning I was my were everywhere east western and south I feel like I so I was like God small like that you leave me to be suffering affecting my life Yeah So and then in that moment you know I just my bed I was thinking so many things let me just do this and then leave this bed or let me just that moment God spoke to my heart He says that do you think that Jesus overcame the devil from one moment you know Okay He said do you think that Jesus could just overcome the devil on that one temptation Then I was like « Yeah it’s not Jesus. » He said « No that there have been several other temptations like that. » He was able to build self-control over time So when he got to that day it was not something that was not the first time that the devil came to him with an attempt you know to to to for him sacrifice something But because over time was able to build that thing now because I was in that I felt like just masturbate and then lay on his bed and then I go my way But he said you don’t do self It’s not don’t think that you you get up one day and say oh I can overcome this on this particular day It’s a it’s there are small yes small decision you made on a daily basis to to restrain you know to hold back to keep yourself that will help you on that day So that’s what the Lord in my heart that he not just wake up that day and could resist the devil M’s word is very deep It is it’s is so deep and I could actually I could actually relate Sorry Guess what on every front It’s not self-control for this and that Self control is selfcont control and it it helps in every aspect of your life A person who lives in masturbation loses self doesn’t have self control every other thing It’s not like you have you I lack self control for this and I have no no it’s it’s a word that I mean that particular fruit that particular fruit is is is has been punctured in your life not like just for for this act and that no everything but I I I went through I came across um an Indian study an ancient Indian study about masturbation as a whole And I realized that this lady the lady talking she said before they have this ideology that every time you have um intimacy Anytime you’re intimate with someone and you release you release life because whatever it is you release is it has the potential to create life So every time you release you you release a part of your life So just imagine that you’re doing it on your own You’re wasting it And you’re not just wasting life per se as your life is like business ideas whatever You’re just letting it go The thing is sin thrives in secrecy As she said um the demon when it’s cast out it goes around and we all know that real estate is very intense in the spiritual world They don’t have way to leave So the issue is you come back and you’re like « Lord I’m sorry Lord I’m sorry. » Sometimes you even take the deliverance to go through deliverance in church and then you don’t sustain that deliverance You think um the let me say a flash a flash drive and we have a flash drive its purpose is to keep things stored in it So if you delete everything in it the masturbation the pornography everything you have to either fill it with something or someone someone else can pick it up and then put stuff in it So a virus can or a virus or a virus So the the idea for you to keep the flesh is for you to put something else in it So if you’re not putting the word of God if you’re not praying intimacy whatever then it means it’s empty And when that demon goes out and comes back and sees that oh this it’s empty So it does not come alone This time he goes around to look for seven demons that are stronger than seven brothers People that don’t have anywhere to stay and they say ah this is house free house and they come in finally we have a home and so that’s why it’s more difficult for you to to get like get off it every time you mentioned um a personal experience I have one too where I got my deliverance from was there was this day I I think it was maybe around 2:00 a.m I was awake I thought of watching a movie I did not study my Bible actually that evening and I was supposed to but I was like I’m tired but I noticed that I had the energy to watch a movie but I didn’t have the energy to study my Bible And so after a while I became like I actually my wounds as she said I was honey like crazy I was like but ah this one there’s nothing wrong And then the first thing that came to my mind was the scripture that I had read like prior to that day and that was I think 1st Samuel 11 um 11 verse1 where the Bible says that it said that that when kings in the time where kings went out to war David stayed back So that’s the first thing the Holy Spirit started talking to me and he was like David was supposed to go out to war as a king but he stayed back in his house That’s what made him decide to go He was idle So he went to stroll and then he saw Bashiba and then went into sin So what are you supposed to be doing now Men are sleeping Men are praying If you’re not productive with your destiny or your life you should be asleep Exactly So they the problem starts with you being at the wrong place at the wrong time doing the wrong thing I don’t know how but that stuff just died down like the way I just picked up my Bible I was like ah I just I was like ah you know but you know it’s it’s it’s it’s amazing how the Holy Spirit is still there but yes it’s it’s so sweet to know that we go through stuff even the darkest he doesn’t just like hey what is you think the Holy Spirit has gone far away from sorry not to call you I think that’s what makes us stay in that thing much longer than we because you still hear God Oh my god Yes My the thing is we often feel like the Holy Spirit is is is never around But then at the end of the day the moment you want to do it the Holy Spirit just comes in That’s still when you don’t expect it And that’s still and man you said something that was very amazing The illustration of um Jesus Christ having self-control and all of that Recently I watched this movie and I feel like it’s it’s very strategic that Jesus had to become a man I feel it was an intentional act of God So intentional And this movie that I watched the title of the movie is the shark And this man lost his baby girl and then receives the letter from an unknown person from his mailbox That day I mean if you watch the movie you would you would find out that it can only be an invitation from God I’m getting to the part of your your listening So it was snowing heavily to the extent that they had stopped people from going out So this is his house and then his opposite neighbor happens to be I think it’s his church brother or it’s his pastor I cannot really remember So he left and then he went to his church brother’s house to pay him a visit There were no cars moving that day And then on leaving there he made like 2 minutes there On leaving there and coming back his mailbox was open and there was a letter in there and his little baby who passed who who passed away used to call God Papa So he received a letter and that letter says he’s waiting for him at the shark and then he wrote the letter from papa and he was shocked that oh he needs to find this person he knows that this is so he went back to the place where his daughter died and then cried there left there then on coming back the whole place are transformed into paradise and funny enough they they go to this house and then this house we have God there we have Jesus and then we have the Holy Spirit all in that house they were staying there together and then this man started having encounters discussion with God he have a discuss mentioned a conversation with the Holy Spirit have a conversation with Jesus And Jesus took him under the stars one time and then they were having a conversation and along the line Jesus told him that every pain that he goes through he has gone through that pain and he said that is that is why he became man So he became man to fit in here He fit yeah to fit in the shoes of what of what the flesh can be And he came he came as man so that man can become part of divinity So that it’s possible for man to become part of the trinity And when you just explain this particular situation it just dawned on me that there is absolutely nothing that we are going through that Jesus has not gone through There’s nothing new under the sun There’s nothing new under the sun So the po the fact that Jesus Christ can overcome this then there’s a very big possibility that nobody should give an excuse You shouldn’t give an excuse on compromise You shouldn’t say that this is so toughening for me My friends are going to judge me Yes You don’t understand where I’m coming from You’re going to condemn me and all of that No Jesus Christ has been there before and he was 100% man He felt the pain He felt the agony He felt the shame He felt the dis He felt every little thing So when we are in that state I’m sorry to say but I think that at some point Jesus it’s never stated anywhere that Jesus Christ had a sweet girl somewhere It’s never stated that that he had he was intending to marry somebody But was he a stigma It could have been that there was this girl that was entering his eyes He was entering the guy’s eyes Yeah he was entering a girl’s eyes but he couldn’t just put himself in that place because that was not even what he was called He came to earth for a purpose You understood I think that should take us to that point When you understand the purpose you have been assigned to carry on earth you know the level of because that’s it’s like you’re playing with fire You know you’re not putting your hab you’re jumping on You don’t know that thing that fire will catch blow burn you because that’s what we are doing You know it’s not harmful It’s okay But the damages it keeps causing us The damage it causes in us is something that we only wake up one day and it’s beyond repair M and before you can go back on track you’ll waste Yes You’ll waste your time because trying to fix something avoided in the first place Because I think the main thing we are that that that um has become our you know our backup is is it a sin Is it a sin You’re you’re more concerned about sin See it being a sin than what is doing to your relationship with God How is affecting you from you know following this man You you love him You have to follow his will But these things matter Nobody can pray in guilt If you’re feeling guilty even to pray you feel like ah I’ll pray You keep postponing it Once you have the that that that feeling of guilt the next thing you do is I’ll pray tomorrow Next thing you do is ah I’ll just sit me here And then you’re struggling to have a better atmosphere because you can’t even have the better atmosphere You’re trying to you’re struggling You meet brethrens doing something and you’re like these people are pure I’m not pure These people are better I’m not better I better walk out of here You know and it it comes worse I think I don’t know where I I studied this You see it never it always starts at as a simple guilt From guilt the enemy attacks your life Becomes depression It start afflicting your life now with all sorts of sickness I’m not even trying to say that you you know you are you you disappointed God if you did this or not I want you to understand that every day that you let yourself you let this win or you let yourself give into this you are affecting your your your spiritual life in ways that you might not see immediately Every moment you give into this act it’s causing small damage than what your human eyes can see and that you know the goal of this Christian journey or Christian race or or whatever you call it is to become like Christ You know we behold and we become And if you keep giving into this little things you know compromises you you are not attaining that journey You’re not attaining that goal You are you are not able to behold because it’s not about it being a sin or not But what it does on you as a person what it does it’s like you dating a guy you know and you know that every time you speak um rudely to this person it breaks a part of him But every time you cheat let me use cheat because no time you let me get something different right So let’s say every time you ignore my call right it it breaks me or does something with me and then I tell you that oh glory you know I love you and I don’t like when I don’t appreciate it when I call you and then you don’t you know and glory still does keep doing it It means you’re conscious of the fact that this thing you’re doing is killing me Then you keep doing it you know I want you to see beyond it Don’t justify whether it’s a sin or not We we give you the scriptures It looks for you to decide All right Masturbation is just like every other sensual stimulation you know But when you when you when when it gets so lost the challenge is that you can’t you can’t masturbate without having those pictures that that play back on your mind All right And Jesus says if you look at a person and you lost after her you committed yes adultery So but I’m saying that look beyond the fact that it’s a sin look beyond the fact that or look beyond it being a sin or not and look at the damages it causes in your life you know and how it keeps you away from God How it stops you from fulfilling what God wants you to fulfill How it it causes cracks and then becomes a a a a legal playground for the enemy to affect your life You know some people wake up having sicknesses they can’t defend They can’t tell you for sure where it’s coming from But some the devil is wicked You know his mandate is to steal kill and destroy When it comes against you he’s not trying to see any way You have done this much you deserve this much No he just puts the load on you True So you don’t come and say « Glory have done just one seed Let me just give her 1 kilo of of pay. » No You cry God say mercy me God will say « Oh you’re done You should have done shit. » He makes sure he because the is kill this girl until you die Yes And m just to add just to add to how they don’t you right in this same in this same movie the shark God tells okay this guy has a conversation with God and tells God that God is mean because he punishes he punishes the people he says he love and then God responds and tells him that he doesn’t punishes people that sin is enough punishment and when I heard that I was like goodness because sin alone takes you out of God’s view So it’s already a punishment And then worst of all the Bible says that the wages of sin is there So when you’re out of God’s view there’s already a there’s there’s there’s there’s there’s already a consequence for you being out of Yeah Oh my god I mean please while talking you mentioned something about separation from God But I want you to I would like to say this First of all the Bible says that um we are children of God And I want us to know that you’re not God’s last resort You’re his first choice If he has a purpose for you it’s because he chose you first He wants you to do that But if you refuse to grow out of the baby state you want to keep taking me milk You’re not ready for the meat or for like for the bone You just want to keep taking milk There’s no problem You can stay in that situation But he will use somebody else He has a lot of people that he’s using like but that’s what he wanted you to do The Bible says that even the king sons even princes when they don’t know who they are as long as they are children an even an heir as long as he’s a child servants are greater than him there’s nothing that he can do at that point So why don’t you decide to grow from that Why don’t you decide to grow and say I’m working in my relationship with Christ I’ve grown beyond this I’ve grown past this This has no control over over me You have to get to that You have to get to that place You have to get to that point I mean you see um and the Bible says in Ecclesiastes 3:1 it’s a time for everything and there is for every purpose All right As much as God is merciful as much as God you know has um longsuffering and patience There’s there’s there’s a time where you your purpose the impact of your purpose expires You know purpose is time bound It’s bound to generation So you have to do this thing only for this period of time He will keep trying to call you try to you know beckon on you to come begon on you to because these things are affecting what he wants to do in your life If you don’t respond in time he’s going to move past you and guess what He might end up doing that thing but the impact of it will not be felt True You know so we sometimes see they say « Oh the current of God that repentance. » I think the reason why we feel so relaxed in these things too is because so many scriptures and preachings have given us that pervtory like you know what God loves you anyway You know what I I think I read somewhere they said God loves you God loves you unconditionally but God’s promises are not unconditional Yes he loves you I mean Christ died for us and yet sinners you know but when it comes to possessing the kingdom is your obedience what you how far you aligned You know I tell people what secures your alignment is your obedience What secures your hope story is your obedience or your alignment That’s what secures your hope Don’t think that because God says he loves you he bless you it’s going to happen like that right How how aligned are you to his instructions is what secures your hope for that promise that was given to you And if you keep messing up keep delaying keep going out of line you’re doing more harm than good So we have gone past the mast and we don’t care on us and how is affecting us from following our father you know it’s affecting us from responding aligning to his will for our lives So we we we are leaving this this uh to your judgment We are leaving this too We pray that the Holy Ghost will convict your heart of this you know that you’re going to listen to these words and he will speak to your heart and will give you a reason to you know turn again it’s not going to be easy when you decide to still to to to stop all right it’s not going to be easy you might wake up after 2 months and you see yourself there again but that should not mean that you are yes you’re not condemned don’t think oh don’t say oh after all this now I want you to step back up you know one time I read Galatians 5 I think 22 going down the scripture just say that um walk in the spirit and you shall gratify the desires of the flesh The masturbation is one of the desires of the flesh All right And he told me that time that don’t don’t try to stop sinning Try to stay in the spirit It begins to kill those desires and it begins to dry off those you know and that’s how I learned God is helping me They are telling things now that I can stand and say no need You know you get to a point where you’re not you’re not thinking about a scene or not a scene You’re saying no need See I even think about the consequence of it and it makes you not to do it I’m like you think you and I know how it keeps you the feeling he leaves you with Yes So why do you want to It’s not a feeling you like and you’re going to go every day saying I’m sorry If you think it’s not a sin why do you feel guilty That’s where we leave you with this particular but please there’s one thing I want to say Your flesh your flesh actually has no problem with you sinning It always draws you to sin because it’s not going anywhere with you You should know that your flesh is not going to face eternity with you That’s why it’s so drawn to sin It’s going to stay right here Your soul is what is going to have to suffer for anything that your flesh puts you through spiritually So you have to be very conscious of the fact that what this body wants is what will please it will not please God That’s how it was wired to that’s how it was wired to be you know and that’s why they called the desires of the flesh that’s the flesh but we have chosen a path which is to live by the spirit All right So you have to I really wish that there were no hormones There were no urges no desires right Like I don’t need to But unfortunately we have those things It’s biology It’s not wrong God kept them there for a purpose All right It’s not it’s not not nothing for you to be ashamed of or angry about But I’m saying that you should not give it into it like that Don’t let it take don’t let it have rule over you you know Don’t let it have control over you It just anything has control over you is already against God’s will because God wants you to have self control All right And I want that you would see what we are talking about and you’re going to stand up on your feet again and say Lord help me and you know let me break free from this You know it has gone past a personal habit The moment you not able to control yourself The moment you lost control over this thing that spiritual bondage is no longer a personal habit But I’m going to have a prayer you know to pray for you this moment Maybe you’re going through this You’ve been experiencing it for a while now and you’ve been trusting God for deliverance You look as every day you pray you go back to the I think I met someone who said that they pray after prayer they go back to masturbation They pray and then so you know it’s frustrating I mean sometimes we judge this you know you might be so hard on these people We don’t know how much how bad they feel Yes Sometimes you may feel so frustrating It’s so frustrating the story when you realize after all my struggles you know to stay away from this I’m here again It feels it feels so frustrating You have to keep trying Don’t give in Don’t give up You have to keep trying All right So Majesty is going to pray for you right there Pray for you for strength and pray that you’re going to have because it starts from you making up your mind The Holy Ghost will not force you He will not do anything without your permission He only convicts your heart and you have to take the first step by saying Lord I want out of this and then you see he would not begin to give you tips on what to do because you know we have people go through certain things and they have specific um you know instruction how to get out of them sometimes you have headache you know I think I I had an amazing illustration today where this person said it’s like headache one person has headache and drinks more and gets well another person has headache but needs an operation to be healed All right So if you go to the doctors they will give you the right diagnosis for you That’s where the Holy Ghost comes in when you’re trying to get out of addictions you know I might tell you I did this to get healed and you do it and nothing happens to you But the moment I the moment you repent and you start again you know going after the Holy Ghost he will tell you exactly what you can do to be free All right So my is going to pray for us and pray for strength All right that God will convict the heart and they’re not going to listen and they’re going to be delivered Hallelujah Praise God Um before we pray please I would like to tell you all you need to do is to cry out There’s a link there You can cry out You can get to somebody Please leave a message Write send a message and then definitely someone will get to you to speak with you So let’s pray Heavenly Father we pray that by the power of your word that has come through us tonight our brothers and sisters that are available that are watching this Lord they’re going to be able to cry out Give them grace to cry out for deliverance and Lord deliver them Help them Lord Jesus Remind them that you love them so much even Lord in sin And what you want to do is save them Remind them that no one is too condemned to come to you That you came for sinners And Lord that is who you are looking for to see Lord remind them of that and bring them to you Lord Jesus We pray for deliverance for anybody crying out for deliverance We pray for the Holy Spirit to take over and help them in the name of Jesus Thank you Lord because we believe that you have done it in Jesus name we pray Amen Amen Thank you so much Celestia Thank you ma’am for me Thank you for having me Mom family This was the thin line segment you know and thank you so much for being a part of this session God bless you We’ll see you in next session Shalom [Music] .

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0.24 shalom family You&;re welcome to the
0.24 Every Christian podcast where we explore
0.24 the truths that shape our walk with God
0.24 This is the thin line segment where we
0.24 discuss the small things the things we
0.24 often overlook the things we often
0.24 justify the things we often assume that
0.24 do not affect affect our walk with God
0.24 But today let&;s find out Welcome guys
0.24 Thank you ma&;am We&;re going to be
0.24 discussing a very
0.24 controversial is that the right word to
0.24 use Yes controversial Controversial
0.24 topic today And you&;re welcome to this
0.24 particular se segment the theme line
0.24 Thank you ma&;am Yeah I&;m particularly
0.24 excited about this particular segment
0.24 because it&;s going to be a platform
0.24 where we can dissect you know the little
0.24 things we often overlook as Christians
0.24 The little thing we often justify those
0.24 little things we often assume they have
0.24 nothing on us not knowing that they are
0.24 slowly but gently you know taking us out
0.24 of the mark you know I don&;t know what I
0.24 was thinking but I began thinking um
0.24 having this thought some days back that
0.24 it always starts from a mole heel you
0.24 know it&;s always small for you see the
0.24 mountain it never appears as a mountain
0.24 those little steps you think is is not
0.24 harmful you think it&;s just you doing
0.24 your thing until you realize one day
0.24 that what was just a decision has become
0.24 a trap a prison a bondage So we are
0.24 going to be discussing today on
0.24 masturbation Is it a personal habit or
0.24 is it a spiritual bondage And I want to
0.24 get your take on that So what do you
0.24 think Oh my with um masturbation I feel
0.24 like masturbation works like every other
0.24 sin It starts from you compromising on
0.24 certain things start from you just
0.24 saying oh it&;s just this it&;s just one
0.24 time or it&;s just uh I&;m not doing it
0.24 with anybody so it&;s just selfpleasure
0.24 and then it starts from there then it
0.24 starts opening doors you know I think
0.24 recently I learned that the way sin
0.24 works it starts with a habit and then it
0.24 open doors to portals then the spirit
0.24 comes in and then sit upon it that&;s
0.24 what I learned so I feel like it&;s not
0.24 just it&;s not just something you do yeah
0.24 see masturbation is a a willful act It
0.24 starts it starts from there That&;s the
0.24 foundation of it It starts by you just
0.24 doing you know I&;m pleasing myself
0.24 Amazing I watched a video from a certain
0.24 pastor I want to call his name so that I
0.24 can avoid it And he was talking about
0.24 masturbation not being a sin But talking
0.24 about masturbation being of pleasure
0.24 like every other you know every one It&;s
0.24 like you know you may start scratching
0.24 your body a little spot on your body is
0.24 itching you and you scratch it and it&;s
0.24 nice you know at the beginning Yeah It&;s
0.24 just nice and you it started by your
0.24 choice You know you felt that thing and
0.24 you wanted to and then the sensation it
0.24 produced was so nice that you continue
0.24 scratching it and you know it&;s still
0.24 nice and then you get to a point where
0.24 it stops being just you wanting to
0.24 scratch it It gets to the point where
0.24 that thing tells you scratch me because
0.24 you you you&;ve created a fracture there
0.24 that feeds on that scratching It fits on
0.24 that thing So you you know I&;ve seen
0.24 people have absess wounds right But they
0.24 can&;t keep their hands off those wounds
0.24 They just Yes because that wound makes
0.24 that thing when you scratch it you feel
0.24 like it&;s nice but you don&;t know you&;ve
0.24 crossed the line the same with
0.24 masturbation it starts from I think this
0.24 example is a very is a very explicit
0.24 example the example of the wound you
0.24 know that a wound is something that is
0.24 not pleasant yes but then why do you
0.24 keep going yes I think it&;s a I think if
0.24 we can come up with an article to
0.24 explain probably I think no the word is
0.24 not algorithm the word is something that
0.24 you use a particular illustration
0.24 describe another thing I feel like
0.24 people get to get to the knowledge about
0.24 these two
0.24 examples Yes The danger of it Yes I I
0.24 think um based on what she said I think
0.24 um we should use the example of Jesus at
0.24 the temple When the devil took him to
0.24 the temple that&;s Matthew
0.24 4:5-7 The devil asked him to jump Yes
0.24 But he did not push him Yes So you have
0.24 to know that there&;s no way that the
0.24 devil will destroy your life without
0.24 your cooperation It cannot be a
0.24 spiritual even if he has to be a
0.24 spiritual position or whatever It starts
0.24 with you You make the decision All he
0.24 does is whisper You have the
0.24 ability power to decide if you want to
0.24 or you do not want to I think this
0.24 scripture I just want to read the
0.24 scripture um as we continue I think
0.24 Romans 6:13 says no longer present your
0.24 members to sin as instruments So you
0.24 present when you go to give
0.24 your candidate in
0.24 French I can remember French word and
0.24 you&;re going to apply for something you
0.24 go there to give your application like I
0.24 want to get into this so it starts from
0.24 you applying that that act on that money
0.24 and the more you keep doing you know
0.24 you&;re applying and the moment the guy
0.24 puts interest in you the devil he now
0.24 see as children of God right this guy
0.24 has nothing on us that&;s true because
0.24 the seed of God is within us but the
0.24 moment When we start giving those cracks
0.24 we start creating those cracks that
0.24 becomes a legal ground on which he
0.24 cannot work on Yes So it starts from a
0.24 personal habit when you choose to do
0.24 this thing It&;s harmless You&;re pleasing
0.24 yourself You know I don&;t want to get
0.24 pregnant I&;m avoiding Yeah I don&;t want
0.24 to cheat on
0.24 this STD Yeah If you look at the reasons
0.24 why people tend to masturbate it&;s crazy
0.24 I mean the reasons are so genuine
0.24 themselves you know I I I met a lady one
0.24 time who said she prefers to masturbate
0.24 than to fornicate because she&;s keeping
0.24 herself her husband You know I love my
0.24 future husband so much that I don&;t want
0.24 Excuse me I&;m actually laughing because
0.24 that was me Oh that was me Like that&;s
0.24 the message I was I was bound by
0.24 masturbation for a very long time And
0.24 also I had this idea I was so bound that
0.24 sometimes we go for church retreats and
0.24 I&;m masturbating there at the retreat
0.24 center It was so bad like it got to the
0.24 point that I accepted it for a long time
0.24 And then that&;s like when the when the
0.24 Bible says that the devil is the father
0.24 of all liars You have to lie for him to
0.24 become your father That&;s it So when you
0.24 start by foundation Yes When you lay the
0.24 foundation there&;s a spirit that comes
0.24 there to enable you Yes And and and I
0.24 think that&;s why I got that&;s why I got
0.24 attracted to this particular segment of
0.24 the every Christians podcast The little
0.24 things that we ignore The little things
0.24 that we sometimes justify you No It&;s my
0.24 body now You know many people have said
0.24 it&;s my body now It&;s my body It&;s not
0.24 my body How is it a sin I&;m not here to
0.24 say whether this masturbation thing is a
0.24 sin or a sin Right I&;m going to read a
0.24 couple of scriptures Let&;s help you
0.24 decide You know um the first thing I&;ll
0.24 do is this I read the scripture as the
0.24 foundation scripture right It says that
0.24 um Romans
0.24 14:23 but whoever has doubts is
0.24 condemned if he eats because the eating
0.24 is not from faith Mhm For whatever does
0.24 not prod proceed from faith is seen
0.24 That&;s the first one So you asking
0.24 yourself is it sin or not sin You
0.24 already have doubts So you know where it
0.24 is right Exactly Um Romans 2:14-16 says
0.24 that for when the Gentiles who do not
0.24 have the law by nature by nature also do
0.24 what the law requires they are a law to
0.24 themselves Even though they do not have
0.24 the law they show that the work of the
0.24 law is written on their hearts While
0.24 their conscience also bears witness and
0.24 their conflicting thoughts accuse or
0.24 even excuse them on that day when
0.24 according to many to my gospel God
0.24 judges the secret of men&;s heart So your
0.24 secret thoughts accuse or excuse you So
0.24 whether you&;re thinking is a sin or not
0.24 it&;s not for us to say it&;s for you to
0.24 decide I have a lot of books to read on
0.24 that So I&;m going to read it All right
0.24 Just give me a moment I don&;t want
0.24 because my focus on this is not to say
0.24 if you&;re in sin or not It&;s to let you
0.24 be the judge of that All right Yes But
0.24 I&;m going to tell us exactly what this
0.24 is You know I began by saying that the
0.24 Every Christians podcast is a place
0.24 where we explore the truths that shape
0.24 our walk with God You know and this is
0.24 this has a it it has something it does
0.24 to that particular thing We&;re going to
0.24 get there See okay sin is lawlessness
0.24 I&;m trying to define what sin is Then
0.24 you will decide if masturbation is a sin
0.24 or not a sin Sin is law lawlessness When
0.24 you break God&;s law it&;s a sin First
0.24 John 3:4 says "Everyone who sins breaks
0.24 the law In fact sin is lawlessness." So
0.24 sin is not just about doing wrong but
0.24 also about failing to do what is right
0.24 Sin is falling short of God&;s glory Then
0.24 you miss the mark Romans 3:23 says
0.24 follow of God&;s glory Right Verse 5 says
0.24 "Sin is going against one&;s own
0.24 conscience."
0.24 Yes When you go against your conscience
0.24 is sin Romans 14:22 Person believes
0.24 something is wrong but does anyway it is
0.24 sin for them All right The s point says
0.24 sin is rebellion against God So sin is a
0.24 deliberate act of disobedience and
0.24 defiance towards God&;s will Sin is being
0.24 enslaved to wickedness Sin is
0.24 unrighteousness Sin is following the
0.24 desires of the flesh
0.24 Does masturbation
0.24 for what Desire of the flesh
0.24 Masturbation sin or not sin It&;s not for
0.24 us to tell It&;s not for us to answer
0.24 Yes I mean let me just leave with it
0.24 right Sin is not just about wrong
0.24 actions but about the condition of the
0.24 heart rebellion against God and a
0.24 deviation from his perfect will Whether
0.24 by action inaction or misplaced desires
0.24 sin separates us from God All right So
0.24 that the reason why I I took us through
0.24 this route was to bring us to this point
0.24 You see I&;m not here to tell you whether
0.24 you&;re sinning by masturbation or you&;re
0.24 not sinning I&;m here to talk about the
0.24 effects that masturbation has on you You
0.24 see this innocent thing that we often
0.24 over underlook or overlook starts as a
0.24 personal decision graduates and becomes
0.24 a bondage You know spirits now take
0.24 charge and they begin to you know you&;re
0.24 under an influence You know the Bible
0.24 even says that God has not given us the
0.24 spirit of fear but to bondage but of
0.24 selfcontrol but that&;s that particular
0.24 scripture is not being respected with
0.24 this act right because it takes away
0.24 your self control at some point and
0.24 amazingly you never know when you get
0.24 there never know when you get there and
0.24 this lady&;s um um goal of wanting to
0.24 keep herself or her husband is so
0.24 beautiful but masturbation it&;s it&;s
0.24 against God&;s own designed for intimacy
0.24 You know when God created that was for
0.24 man or woman to please themselves you
0.24 know but the moment you start praising
0.24 yourself and masturbation you you&;re
0.24 that&;s out of God&;s will which is which
0.24 is sin Okay but we&;ll leave that for
0.24 them to decide All right So look at the
0.24 many things that masturbation leads us
0.24 to So what do you think I I I know of
0.24 guilt that if you ever masturbate you
0.24 know what you know the weight of you
0.24 that falls on your shoulders Yes I I
0.24 think I know of um it it arouses a
0.24 certain unpleasant sexual control within
0.24 you It it it increases your lipido to to
0.24 make you get unnecessarily horny So to
0.24 the extent that you cannot have
0.24 self-control anymore you just want to
0.24 have you want to do it at every moment
0.24 You want to probably in the case of
0.24 maybe when you get married and then
0.24 you&;re finally resulted to you want to
0.24 start having sex then it starts getting
0.24 from you having unpleasant sexual
0.24 desires and and and it gets to a point
0.24 where you might not even care about your
0.24 partner There are certain commitments
0.24 you you would do because of you know
0.24 what this person offers even to the
0.24 level of your your needs right but if
0.24 you know that you can satisfy meet those
0.24 needs without this person why do I have
0.24 to you know you try go sleep I would you
0.24 know you know the night I really want to
0.24 have you and you acting I can just damn
0.24 you and then you know so it affects your
0.24 marriage somehow you don&;t put in the
0.24 energy you don&;t put in the because you
0.24 you part of it the reason why people can
0.24 go to every extreme for their partner Is
0.24 this no I love this person I want to be
0.24 with them All right And if if you find a
0.24 substitute would
0.24 you like buy fake
0.24 brand original brand for 22 million I
0.24 can buy the fake one for 10 million and
0.24 save money because it&;s it seem to serve
0.24 the same purpose but you&;re missing
0.24 something All right So I think of guilt
0.24 The first thing that masturbation does
0.24 is that it leaves you at the place of
0.24 guilt You feel so guilty And there&;s a
0.24 way that this guilt keeps you away from
0.24 God&;s presence because you can&;t even
0.24 pray You feel like you&;re dirty You feel
0.24 like you&;re not worthy of you know that
0.24 you you you you
0.24 come on No actually it affects your
0.24 relationship with people because many
0.24 people do it to like substitute
0.24 relationship with people especially men
0.24 And so when you get married I think I
0.24 heard of a guy who um two actually I&;m
0.24 going to give two instances The first
0.24 one was a guy who was confessing and he
0.24 said he masturbated with his wife When I
0.24 first heard it the first thing I was
0.24 like "Excuse me." Yeah that&;s exactly
0.24 the reaction I had And then he was like
0.24 "Um he was on the hospital bed and he
0.24 did not know he need he was honey and he
0.24 needed to release quickly." So he looked
0.24 at his wife while he was masturbating
0.24 She was maybe um trying to um serve food
0.24 He looked at her and masturbated until
0.24 he released And I&;m like "Hey he that he
0.24 that sits in heaven laughs What
0.24 rubbish?" I&;m like "Excuse you sir
0.24 Please keep your wife out of this." Like
0.24 and then there&;s another person that
0.24 says "Um when I get married I will not
0.24 masturbate again I&;m just doing it for
0.24 now So when I get married you think it&;s
0.24 that easy to switch?" The the thing is
0.24 you don&;t understand that at a certain
0.24 point it&;s no longer you Mhm You&;re
0.24 being controlled by the spirit that is
0.24 in charge of that He enables you He
0.24 makes sure that he makes he makes sure
0.24 that you&;re insertable by any other
0.24 person That is where you will get
0.24 satisfaction from There people who
0.24 finish having like I don&;t know intimacy
0.24 with their partners and then they go to
0.24 another room or sometimes in the same
0.24 room and they say oh this was this is
0.24 nothing They even do have enhancers for
0.24 for for stuff like that Probably in a
0.24 case where somebody considers his
0.24 partner incapable they get enhancers
0.24 that could help them privately to help
0.24 them to be sexually satisfied And while
0.24 Majesty was talking it just it just
0.24 dawned on me that you know when the
0.24 Bible says that the spirit comes in with
0.24 seven uh seven other demons that are
0.24 stronger than him You know that it&;s
0.24 difficult for you to see or it&;s
0.24 difficult for you to find someone who is
0.24 addicted to masturbation who is not
0.24 addicted to pornography True and you
0.24 know that this is
0.24 another is something also on its own
0.24 There is no way you can be watching porn
0.24 without it&;s pretty difficult like that
0.24 So when you find out that you&;re being
0.24 addicted to this kind of things other
0.24 spirits start coming in Other spirits
0.24 start coming in is from one thing to
0.24 another You start battling one other
0.24 thing to another and at the end of the
0.24 day you just find out that you and God
0.24 you are parallel Yes Your parallel life
0.24 Yeah like like what you&;re talking about
0.24 about not being able to relate to people
0.24 You know God brings amazing
0.24 relationships away You know our father
0.24 always says that God&;s men are his
0.24 mentor and God is going to bring a
0.24 person and we are treasures in earth
0.24 verses The Bible says you know God will
0.24 bring people your way who have things to
0.24 offer But you can&;t see those things
0.24 because you are lost You&;re cl it it it
0.24 crowds your your sense of reasoning You
0.24 know it crowds your sight You can&;t even
0.24 see beyond because you are it narrows
0.24 how far you can see a person You you
0.24 begin to sexualize So because you you&;re
0.24 you&;re helpless you know you&;re helpless
0.24 and you can&;t relate to people the same
0.24 people God brings your way You know
0.24 that&;s and sometimes it it it really
0.24 gets you to the corner You feel like
0.24 you&;re not worthy to be where the others
0.24 are No People are talking somewhere and
0.24 you have what to say but you can&;t share
0.24 because you feel like all what I&;m
0.24 saying is the Holy Ghost even still with
0.24 me Amen And then the worst act it shunts
0.24 you away from your purpose Cuz you can&;t
0.24 speak boldly because you feel like "Oh
0.24 I&;m dirty I&;m guilty." If this thing was
0.24 really not as bad as we or if this thing
0.24 was really as good as we think it is why
0.24 does it leave us guilty
0.24 Exactly Why does it leave us guilty
0.24 Exactly And why do you want to always do
0.24 it secretly Secretly Why That&;s that&;s I
0.24 think while while I was growing up the
0.24 early stages of my life when um I just
0.24 give my life to Christ I think we used
0.24 to attend certain um Bible clubs
0.24 together and then there was this lady
0.24 who often used to define sin as anything
0.24 you do in the hiding that you cannot do
0.24 in the public So that mentality alone
0.24 sticks in your head and tells you that
0.24 even if you want to say something in the
0.24 hive even if it&;s something that you
0.24 just want to say just when you&;re alone
0.24 and you cannot see this particular word
0.24 outside there should be something wrong
0.24 with that word Something is wrong
0.24 Something is wrong with that word So
0.24 this is a I think I feel like this is a
0.24 very good is a very good demonstration
0.24 of of what masturbation is You know we
0.24 have compromised so much on certain sins
0.24 to the extent that we categorize we
0.24 categorize them We put them in that
0.24 category of things like it&;s not really
0.24 bad or Yeah it&;s not that bad Yeah it
0.24 doesn&;t matter We overlook them and then
0.24 is masturbation is part of those sins
0.24 that are rarely me It&;s not even
0.24 mentioned in the Bible True And that I
0.24 think that&;s why many people think
0.24 exactly that&;s why we we comfortably
0.24 live in that because the Bible doesn&;t
0.24 say it&;s a sin you know And I I I really
0.24 think that the earlier you understand
0.24 that it&;s not just about the
0.24 masturbation per se but what it leads
0.24 you to because if you want if you&;re a
0.24 child of God as you say and then you
0.24 want to live for God you want to do his
0.24 will It masturbation doesn&;t lead you to
0.24 God&;s will It doesn&;t help you do God&;s
0.24 will Instead it takes you away from that
0.24 You know it risk your you constantly
0.24 want to be locked up in the house
0.24 because you want because you can&;t do it
0.24 in public You want to do it in secret So
0.24 you ask why I&;ve seen someone I&;ve seen
0.24 someone who is introvert highly
0.24 introverted and then I got close to this
0.24 person and I got to find out that this
0.24 person does not like going out because
0.24 the person is already comfortable
0.24 masturbating So the person feels like
0.24 each time that he gets in a crowd of
0.24 people and he starts feeling like he
0.24 wants to he wants to masturbate is a
0.24 problem So he has to go home And then
0.24 I&;m like but you can sustain
0.24 relationship You cannot sustain
0.24 relationship with people and it also
0.24 leads you to lust You cannot have a
0.24 genuine relationship and loss work
0.24 Yes And don&;t y like this See like this
0.24 Yes Exactly Because you see just like
0.24 what you said m that God sends valuable
0.24 people to you but you cannot keep the
0.24 relationship But because you know that
0.24 you are Christian and you&;re supposed to
0.24 be in the mood of purity every time you
0.24 want to compromise on that and then it
0.24 results to you masturbating lusting and
0.24 masturbating Losting and masturbating
0.24 I&;ve heard a couple I&;ve read a couple
0.24 of um messages online I&;ve spoken to a
0.24 couple of people who they get to tell
0.24 you that when they start lusting over a
0.24 particular person or when they or when
0.24 they find someone attractive and they
0.24 know that they cannot have this
0.24 person probably because this person is
0.24 married this person is a relationship or
0.24 this person hasn&;t spoken to them or the
0.24 person is into purity or you know that
0.24 you two cannot do it because they feel
0.24 like their penetration is different from
0.24 you just doing it at home privately they
0.24 resort to masturbating watching
0.24 pornography with that person at the back
0.24 of their mind I&;m like this can only be
0.24 from the pit of hell True It&;s a
0.24 devilish act And and and guess what
0.24 Masturbation I think a majority of um
0.24 let me say Christians you know there&;s a
0.24 good number Yeah Let me rephrase A good
0.24 number of Christians who are in delay
0.24 today because of masturbation True You
0.24 know you you can&;t work You can&;t maybe
0.24 talking about a person who stays in the
0.24 midst of people has to leave because the
0.24 urge right
0.24 imag you you it plays on your
0.24 self-control I mean it destroys your
0.24 self-control You see one timing crazy
0.24 but I&;ll say it right crazy I&;ll say it
0.24 So one time I woke up from bed this
0.24 morning I was my were everywhere east
0.24 western and south I feel like I so I was
0.24 like God small like that you leave me to
0.24 be
0.24 suffering affecting my life Yeah So and
0.24 then in that moment you know I just my
0.24 bed I was thinking so many things let me
0.24 just do this and then leave this bed or
0.24 let me just that moment God spoke to my
0.24 heart He says that do you think that
0.24 Jesus overcame the devil from one moment
0.24 you know Okay He said do you think that
0.24 Jesus could just overcome the devil on
0.24 that one temptation Then I was like
0.24 "Yeah it&;s not Jesus." He said "No that
0.24 there have been several other
0.24 temptations like that." He was able to
0.24 build self-control over time So when he
0.24 got to that day it was not something
0.24 that was not the first time that the
0.24 devil came to him with an attempt you
0.24 know to to to for him sacrifice
0.24 something But because over time was able
0.24 to build that thing now because I was in
0.24 that I felt like just masturbate and
0.24 then lay on his bed and then I go my way
0.24 But he said you don&;t do self It&;s not
0.24 don&;t think that you you get up one day
0.24 and say oh I can overcome this on this
0.24 particular day It&;s a it&;s there are
0.24 small yes small decision you made on a
0.24 daily basis to to restrain you know to
0.24 hold back to keep yourself that will
0.24 help you on that day So that&;s what the
0.24 Lord in my heart that he not just wake
0.24 up that day and could resist the devil
0.24 M&;s word is very deep It is it&;s is so
0.24 deep and I could actually I could
0.24 actually relate Sorry Guess what on
0.24 every front It&;s not self-control for
0.24 this and that Self control is selfcont
0.24 control and it it helps in every aspect
0.24 of your life A person who lives in
0.24 masturbation loses self doesn&;t have
0.24 self control every other thing It&;s not
0.24 like you have you I lack self control
0.24 for this and I have no no it&;s it&;s a
0.24 word that I mean that particular fruit
0.24 that particular fruit is is is has been
0.24 punctured in your life not like just for
0.24 for this act and that no everything but
0.24 I I
0.24 I went through I came across um an
0.24 Indian study an
0.24 ancient Indian study about masturbation
0.24 as a whole And I realized that this lady
0.24 the lady talking she said before they
0.24 have this ideology that every time you
0.24 have um intimacy Anytime you&;re intimate
0.24 with someone and you release you release
0.24 life because whatever it is you release
0.24 is it has the potential to create life
0.24 So every time you release you you
0.24 release a part of your life So just
0.24 imagine that you&;re doing it on your own
0.24 You&;re wasting it And you&;re not just
0.24 wasting life per se as your life is like
0.24 business ideas whatever You&;re just
0.24 letting it go The thing is sin thrives
0.24 in secrecy As she said um the demon when
0.24 it&;s cast out it goes around and we all
0.24 know that real estate is very intense in
0.24 the spiritual world They don&;t have way
0.24 to leave So the issue is you come back
0.24 and you&;re like "Lord I&;m sorry Lord I&;m
0.24 sorry." Sometimes you even take the
0.24 deliverance to go through deliverance in
0.24 church and then you don&;t sustain that
0.24 deliverance You think um the let me say
0.24 a flash a flash drive and we have a
0.24 flash drive its purpose is to keep
0.24 things stored in it So if you delete
0.24 everything in it the masturbation the
0.24 pornography everything you have to
0.24 either fill it with something or someone
0.24 someone else can pick it up and then put
0.24 stuff in it So a virus can or a virus or
0.24 a virus So the the idea for you to keep
0.24 the flesh is for you to put something
0.24 else in it So if you&;re not putting the
0.24 word of God if you&;re not praying
0.24 intimacy whatever then it means it&;s
0.24 empty And when that demon goes out and
0.24 comes back and sees that oh this it&;s
0.24 empty So it does not come alone This
0.24 time he goes around to look for seven
0.24 demons that are stronger than seven
0.24 brothers People that don&;t have anywhere
0.24 to stay and they say ah this is house
0.24 free house and they come in finally we
0.24 have a home and so that&;s why it&;s more
0.24 difficult for you to to get like get off
0.24 it every time you mentioned um a
0.24 personal experience I have one too where
0.24 I got my deliverance from was there was
0.24 this day I I think it was maybe around
0.24 2:00 a.m I was awake I thought of
0.24 watching a
0.24 movie I did not study my Bible actually
0.24 that evening and I was supposed to but I
0.24 was like I&;m tired but I noticed that I
0.24 had the energy to watch a movie but I
0.24 didn&;t have the energy to study my Bible
0.24 And so after a while I became like I
0.24 actually my wounds as she said I was
0.24 honey like crazy I was like but ah this
0.24 one there&;s nothing wrong And then the
0.24 first thing that came to my mind was the
0.24 scripture that I had read like prior to
0.24 that day and that was I think 1st Samuel
0.24 11 um 11 verse1 where the Bible says
0.24 that it said that that when kings in the
0.24 time where kings went out to war David
0.24 stayed back So that&;s the first thing
0.24 the Holy Spirit started talking to me
0.24 and he was like David was supposed to go
0.24 out to war as a king but he stayed back
0.24 in his house That&;s what made him decide
0.24 to go He was idle So he went to stroll
0.24 and then he saw Bashiba and then went
0.24 into sin So what are you supposed to be
0.24 doing now
0.24 Men are sleeping Men are praying If
0.24 you&;re not productive with your destiny
0.24 or your life you should be asleep
0.24 Exactly So they the problem starts with
0.24 you being at the wrong place at the
0.24 wrong time doing the wrong thing I don&;t
0.24 know how but that stuff just died down
0.24 like the way I just picked up my Bible I
0.24 was like ah
0.24 I just I was like ah you know but you
0.24 know it&;s it&;s it&;s it&;s amazing how the
0.24 Holy Spirit is still there but yes it&;s
0.24 it&;s so sweet to know that we go through
0.24 stuff even the darkest he doesn&;t
0.24 just like hey what is you think the Holy
0.24 Spirit has gone far away from sorry not
0.24 to call you I think that&;s what makes us
0.24 stay in that thing much longer than we
0.24 because you still hear God
0.24 Oh my god Yes My the thing is we often
0.24 feel like the Holy Spirit is is is never
0.24 around But then at the end of the day
0.24 the moment you want to do it the Holy
0.24 Spirit just comes in That&;s still when
0.24 you don&;t expect it And that&;s
0.24 still and man you said something that
0.24 was very amazing The illustration of um
0.24 Jesus Christ having self-control and all
0.24 of that Recently I watched this movie
0.24 and I feel like it&;s it&;s very strategic
0.24 that Jesus had to become a man I feel it
0.24 was an intentional act of God So
0.24 intentional And this movie that I
0.24 watched the title of the movie is the
0.24 shark And this man lost his baby girl
0.24 and then receives the letter from an
0.24 unknown person from his mailbox That day
0.24 I mean if you watch the movie you would
0.24 you would find out that it can only be
0.24 an invitation from God I&;m getting to
0.24 the part of your your listening So it
0.24 was snowing heavily to the extent that
0.24 they had stopped people from going out
0.24 So this is his house and then his
0.24 opposite neighbor happens to be I think
0.24 it&;s his church brother or it&;s his
0.24 pastor I cannot really remember So he
0.24 left and then he went to his church
0.24 brother&;s house to pay him a visit There
0.24 were no cars moving that day And then on
0.24 leaving there he made like 2 minutes
0.24 there On leaving there and coming back
0.24 his mailbox was open and there was a
0.24 letter in there and his little baby who
0.24 passed who who passed away used to call
0.24 God Papa So he received a letter and
0.24 that letter says he&;s waiting for him at
0.24 the shark and then he wrote the letter
0.24 from papa and he was shocked that oh he
0.24 needs to find this person he knows that
0.24 this is so he went back to the place
0.24 where his daughter died and then cried
0.24 there left there then on coming back the
0.24 whole place are transformed into
0.24 paradise and funny enough they they go
0.24 to this house and then this house we
0.24 have God there we have Jesus and then we
0.24 have the Holy Spirit all in that house
0.24 they were staying there together and
0.24 then this man started having encounters
0.24 discussion with God he have a discuss
0.24 mentioned a conversation with the Holy
0.24 Spirit have a conversation with Jesus
0.24 And Jesus took him under the stars one
0.24 time and then they were having a
0.24 conversation and along the line Jesus
0.24 told him that every pain that he goes
0.24 through he has gone through that pain
0.24 and he said that is that is why he
0.24 became man So he became man to fit in
0.24 here He fit yeah to fit in the shoes of
0.24 what of what the flesh can be And he
0.24 came he came as man so that man can
0.24 become part of divinity So that it&;s
0.24 possible for man to become part of the
0.24 trinity And when you just explain this
0.24 particular situation it just dawned on
0.24 me that there is absolutely nothing that
0.24 we are going through that Jesus has not
0.24 gone through There&;s nothing new under
0.24 the sun There&;s nothing new under the
0.24 sun So the po the fact that Jesus Christ
0.24 can overcome this then there&;s a very
0.24 big possibility that nobody should give
0.24 an excuse You shouldn&;t give an excuse
0.24 on compromise You shouldn&;t say that
0.24 this is so toughening for me My friends
0.24 are going to judge
0.24 me Yes You don&;t understand where I&;m
0.24 coming from You&;re going to condemn me
0.24 and all of that No Jesus Christ has been
0.24 there before and he was 100% man He felt
0.24 the pain He felt the agony He felt the
0.24 shame He felt the dis He felt every
0.24 little thing So when we are in that
0.24 state I&;m sorry to say but I think that
0.24 at some point Jesus it&;s never stated
0.24 anywhere that Jesus Christ had a sweet
0.24 girl somewhere It&;s never stated that
0.24 that he had he was intending to marry
0.24 somebody But was he a stigma It could
0.24 have been that there was this girl that
0.24 was entering his eyes He was entering
0.24 the guy&;s eyes Yeah he was entering a
0.24 girl&;s eyes but he couldn&;t just put
0.24 himself in that place because that was
0.24 not even what he was called He came to
0.24 earth for a purpose You understood I
0.24 think that should take us to that point
0.24 When you understand the purpose you have
0.24 been assigned to carry on earth you know
0.24 the level of because that&;s it&;s like
0.24 you&;re playing with fire You know you&;re
0.24 not putting your hab you&;re jumping on
0.24 You don&;t know that thing that fire will
0.24 catch blow burn you because that&;s what
0.24 we are doing You know it&;s not harmful
0.24 It&;s okay But the damages it keeps
0.24 causing us The damage it causes in us is
0.24 something that we only wake up one day
0.24 and it&;s beyond repair M and before you
0.24 can go back on track you&;ll waste Yes
0.24 You&;ll waste your time because trying to
0.24 fix something avoided in the first place
0.24 Because I think the main thing we are
0.24 that that that um has become our you
0.24 know our backup is is it a sin Is it a
0.24 sin You&;re you&;re more concerned about
0.24 sin See it being a sin than what is
0.24 doing to your relationship with God How
0.24 is affecting you from you know following
0.24 this man You you love him You have to
0.24 follow his will But these things matter
0.24 Nobody can pray in guilt If you&;re
0.24 feeling guilty even to pray you feel
0.24 like ah I&;ll pray You keep postponing it
0.24 Once you have the that that that feeling
0.24 of guilt the next thing you do is I&;ll
0.24 pray tomorrow Next thing you do is ah
0.24 I&;ll just sit me here And then you&;re
0.24 struggling to have a better atmosphere
0.24 because you can&;t even have the better
0.24 atmosphere You&;re trying to you&;re
0.24 struggling You meet brethrens doing
0.24 something and you&;re like these people
0.24 are pure I&;m not pure These people are
0.24 better I&;m not better I better walk out
0.24 of here You know and it it comes worse I
0.24 think I don&;t know where I I studied
0.24 this You see it never it always starts
0.24 at as a simple guilt From guilt the
0.24 enemy attacks your life Becomes
0.24 depression It start afflicting your life
0.24 now with all sorts of sickness I&;m not
0.24 even trying to say that you you know you
0.24 are you you disappointed God if you did
0.24 this or not I want you to understand
0.24 that every day that you let yourself you
0.24 let this win or you let yourself give
0.24 into this you are affecting your your
0.24 your spiritual life in ways that you
0.24 might not see immediately Every moment
0.24 you give into this act it&;s causing
0.24 small damage than what your human eyes
0.24 can see and that you know the goal of
0.24 this Christian journey or Christian race
0.24 or or whatever you call it is to become
0.24 like Christ You know we behold and we
0.24 become And if you keep giving into this
0.24 little things you know compromises you
0.24 you are not attaining that journey
0.24 You&;re not attaining that goal You are
0.24 you are not able to behold because it&;s
0.24 not about it being a sin or not But what
0.24 it does on you as a person what it does
0.24 it&;s like you dating a guy you know and
0.24 you know that every time you speak um
0.24 rudely to this person it breaks a part
0.24 of him But every time you cheat let me
0.24 use cheat because no time you let me get
0.24 something different right So let&;s say
0.24 every time you ignore my call right it
0.24 it breaks me or does something with me
0.24 and then I tell you that oh glory you
0.24 know I love you and I don&;t like when I
0.24 don&;t appreciate it when I call you and
0.24 then you don&;t you know and glory still
0.24 does keep doing it It means you&;re
0.24 conscious of the fact that this thing
0.24 you&;re doing is killing me Then you keep
0.24 doing it you know I want you to see
0.24 beyond it Don&;t justify whether it&;s a
0.24 sin or not We we give you the scriptures
0.24 It looks for you to decide All right
0.24 Masturbation is just like every other
0.24 sensual stimulation you know But when
0.24 you when you when when it gets so lost
0.24 the challenge is that you can&;t you
0.24 can&;t masturbate without having those
0.24 pictures that that play back on your
0.24 mind All right And Jesus says if you
0.24 look at a person and you lost after her
0.24 you committed yes adultery So but I&;m
0.24 saying that look beyond the fact that
0.24 it&;s a sin look beyond the fact that or
0.24 look beyond it being a sin or not and
0.24 look at the damages it causes in your
0.24 life you know and how it keeps you away
0.24 from God How it stops you from
0.24 fulfilling what God wants you to fulfill
0.24 How it it causes cracks and then becomes
0.24 a a a a legal playground for the enemy
0.24 to affect your life You know some people
0.24 wake up having sicknesses they can&;t
0.24 defend They can&;t tell you for sure
0.24 where it&;s coming from But some the
0.24 devil is wicked You know his mandate is
0.24 to steal kill and destroy When it comes
0.24 against you he&;s not trying to see any
0.24 way You have done this much you deserve
0.24 this much No he just puts the load on
0.24 you True So you don&;t come and say
0.24 "Glory have done just one seed Let me
0.24 just give her 1 kilo of of pay." No You
0.24 cry God say mercy me God will say "Oh
0.24 you&;re done You should have done shit."
0.24 He makes sure he because the is kill
0.24 this girl until you die Yes And m just
0.24 to add just to add to how they don&;t you
0.24 right in this same in this same movie
0.24 the shark God tells okay this guy has a
0.24 conversation with God and tells God that
0.24 God is mean because he punishes he
0.24 punishes the people he says he love and
0.24 then God responds and tells him that he
0.24 doesn&;t punishes people that sin is
0.24 enough punishment and when I heard that
0.24 I was like goodness because sin alone
0.24 takes you out of God&;s view So it&;s
0.24 already a punishment And then worst of
0.24 all the Bible says that the wages of sin
0.24 is there So when you&;re out of God&;s
0.24 view there&;s already a there&;s there&;s
0.24 there&;s there&;s there&;s already a
0.24 consequence for you being out of Yeah Oh
0.24 my god I mean please while talking you
0.24 mentioned something about separation
0.24 from God But I want you to I would like
0.24 to say this First of all the Bible says
0.24 that um we are children of God And I
0.24 want us to know that you&;re not God&;s
0.24 last resort You&;re his first choice If
0.24 he has a purpose for you it&;s because he
0.24 chose you first He wants you to do that
0.24 But if you refuse to grow out of the
0.24 baby state you want to keep taking me
0.24 milk You&;re not ready for the meat or
0.24 for like for the bone You just want to
0.24 keep taking milk There&;s no problem You
0.24 can stay in that situation But he will
0.24 use somebody else He has a lot of people
0.24 that he&;s using like but that&;s what he
0.24 wanted you to do The Bible says that
0.24 even the king sons even princes when
0.24 they don&;t know who they are as long as
0.24 they are children an even an heir as
0.24 long as he&;s a child servants are
0.24 greater than him there&;s nothing that he
0.24 can do at that point So why don&;t you
0.24 decide to grow from that Why don&;t you
0.24 decide to grow and say I&;m working in my
0.24 relationship with Christ I&;ve grown
0.24 beyond this I&;ve grown past this This
0.24 has no control over over me You have to
0.24 get to that You have to get to that
0.24 place You have to get to that point I
0.24 mean you see um and the Bible says in
0.24 Ecclesiastes 3:1 it&;s a time for
0.24 everything and there is for every
0.24 purpose All right As much as God is
0.24 merciful as much as God you know has um
0.24 longsuffering and patience There&;s
0.24 there&;s there&;s a time where you your
0.24 purpose the impact of your purpose
0.24 expires You know purpose is time bound
0.24 It&;s bound to generation So you have to
0.24 do this thing only for this period of
0.24 time He will keep trying to call you try
0.24 to you know beckon on you to come begon
0.24 on you to because these things are
0.24 affecting what he wants to do in your
0.24 life If you don&;t respond in time he&;s
0.24 going to move past you and guess what He
0.24 might end up doing that thing but the
0.24 impact of it will not be felt True You
0.24 know so we sometimes see they say "Oh
0.24 the current of God that repentance." I
0.24 think the reason why we feel so relaxed
0.24 in these things too is because so many
0.24 scriptures and preachings have given us
0.24 that pervtory like you know what God
0.24 loves you anyway You know what I I think
0.24 I read somewhere they said God loves you
0.24 God loves you unconditionally but God&;s
0.24 promises are not unconditional Yes he
0.24 loves you I mean Christ died for us and
0.24 yet sinners you know but when it comes
0.24 to possessing the kingdom
0.24 is your obedience
0.24 what you how far you aligned You know I
0.24 tell people what secures your alignment
0.24 is your obedience What secures your hope
0.24 story is your obedience or your
0.24 alignment That&;s what secures your hope
0.24 Don&;t think that because God says he
0.24 loves you he bless you it&;s going to
0.24 happen like that right How how aligned
0.24 are you to his instructions is what
0.24 secures your hope for that promise that
0.24 was given to you And if you keep messing
0.24 up keep delaying keep going out of line
0.24 you&;re doing more harm than good So we
0.24 have gone past the mast and we don&;t
0.24 care on us and how is affecting us from
0.24 following our father you know it&;s
0.24 affecting us from responding aligning to
0.24 his will for our lives So we we we are
0.24 leaving this this uh to your judgment We
0.24 are leaving this too We pray that the
0.24 Holy Ghost will convict your heart of
0.24 this you know that you&;re going to
0.24 listen to these words and he will speak
0.24 to your heart and will give you a reason
0.24 to you know turn again it&;s not going to
0.24 be easy when you decide to still to to
0.24 to stop all right it&;s not going to be
0.24 easy you might wake up after 2 months
0.24 and you see yourself there again but
0.24 that should not mean that you are yes
0.24 you&;re not condemned don&;t think oh
0.24 don&;t say oh after all this now I want
0.24 you to step back up you know one time I
0.24 read Galatians 5 I think 22 going down
0.24 the scripture just say that um walk in
0.24 the spirit and you shall gratify the
0.24 desires of the flesh The masturbation is
0.24 one of the desires of the flesh All
0.24 right And he told me that time that
0.24 don&;t don&;t try to stop sinning Try to
0.24 stay in the spirit It begins to kill
0.24 those desires and it begins to dry off
0.24 those you know and that&;s how I learned
0.24 God is helping me They are telling
0.24 things now that I can stand and say no
0.24 need You know you get to a point where
0.24 you&;re not you&;re not thinking about a
0.24 scene or not a scene You&;re saying no
0.24 need See I even think about the
0.24 consequence of it and it makes you not
0.24 to do it I&;m
0.24 like you think you and I know how it
0.24 keeps you the feeling he leaves you with
0.24 Yes So why do you want to It&;s not a
0.24 feeling you like and you&;re going to go
0.24 every day saying I&;m sorry If you think
0.24 it&;s not a sin why do you feel guilty
0.24 That&;s where we leave you with this
0.24 particular but please there&;s one thing
0.24 I want to say Your flesh your flesh
0.24 actually has no problem with you sinning
0.24 It always draws you to sin because it&;s
0.24 not going anywhere with you You should
0.24 know that your flesh is not going to
0.24 face eternity with you That&;s why it&;s
0.24 so drawn to sin It&;s going to stay right
0.24 here Your soul is what is going to have
0.24 to suffer for anything that your flesh
0.24 puts you through spiritually So you have
0.24 to be very conscious of the fact that
0.24 what this body wants is what will please
0.24 it will not please God That&;s how it was
0.24 wired to that&;s how it was wired to be
0.24 you know and that&;s why they called the
0.24 desires of the flesh that&;s the flesh
0.24 but we have chosen a path which is to
0.24 live by the spirit All right So you have
0.24 to I really wish that there were no
0.24 hormones There were no urges no desires
0.24 right Like I don&;t need to But
0.24 unfortunately we have those things It&;s
0.24 biology It&;s not wrong God kept them
0.24 there for a purpose All right It&;s not
0.24 it&;s not not nothing for you to be
0.24 ashamed of or angry about But I&;m saying
0.24 that you should not give it into it like
0.24 that Don&;t let it take don&;t let it have
0.24 rule over you you know Don&;t let it have
0.24 control over you It just anything has
0.24 control over you is already against
0.24 God&;s will because God wants you to have
0.24 self control All right And I want that
0.24 you would see what we are talking about
0.24 and you&;re going to stand up on your
0.24 feet again and say Lord help me and you
0.24 know let me break free from this You
0.24 know it has gone past a personal habit
0.24 The moment you not able to control
0.24 yourself The moment you lost control
0.24 over this thing that spiritual bondage
0.24 is no longer a personal habit But I&;m
0.24 going to have a prayer you know to pray
0.24 for you this moment Maybe you&;re going
0.24 through this You&;ve been experiencing it
0.24 for a while now and you&;ve been trusting
0.24 God for deliverance You look as every
0.24 day you pray you go back to the I think
0.24 I met someone who said that they pray
0.24 after prayer they go back to
0.24 masturbation They pray and then so you
0.24 know it&;s frustrating I mean sometimes
0.24 we judge this you know you might be so
0.24 hard on these people We don&;t know how
0.24 much how bad they feel Yes Sometimes you
0.24 may feel so frustrating It&;s so
0.24 frustrating the story when you realize
0.24 after all my struggles you know to stay
0.24 away from this I&;m here again It feels
0.24 it feels so frustrating You have to keep
0.24 trying Don&;t give in Don&;t give up You
0.24 have to keep trying All right So Majesty
0.24 is going to pray for you right there
0.24 Pray for you for strength and pray that
0.24 you&;re going to have because it starts
0.24 from you making up your mind The Holy
0.24 Ghost will not force you He will not do
0.24 anything without your permission He only
0.24 convicts your heart and you have to take
0.24 the first step by saying Lord I want out
0.24 of this and then you see he would not
0.24 begin to give you tips on what to do
0.24 because you know we have people go
0.24 through certain things and they have
0.24 specific um you know instruction how to
0.24 get out of them sometimes you have
0.24 headache you know I think I I had an
0.24 amazing illustration today where this
0.24 person said it&;s like headache one
0.24 person has headache and drinks more and
0.24 gets well another person has headache
0.24 but needs an operation to be healed All
0.24 right So if you go to the doctors they
0.24 will give you the right diagnosis for
0.24 you That&;s where the Holy Ghost comes in
0.24 when you&;re trying to get out of
0.24 addictions you know I might tell you I
0.24 did this to get healed and you do it and
0.24 nothing happens to you But the moment I
0.24 the moment you repent and you start
0.24 again you know going after the Holy
0.24 Ghost he will tell you exactly what you
0.24 can do to be free All right So my is
0.24 going to pray for us and pray for
0.24 strength All right that God will convict
0.24 the heart and they&;re not going to
0.24 listen and they&;re going to be delivered
0.24 Hallelujah Praise God Um before we pray
0.24 please I would like to tell you all you
0.24 need to do is to cry out There&;s a link
0.24 there You can cry out You can get to
0.24 somebody Please leave a message Write
0.24 send a message and then definitely
0.24 someone will get to you to speak with
0.24 you So let&;s pray Heavenly Father we
0.24 pray that by the power of your word that
0.24 has come through us tonight our brothers
0.24 and sisters that are available that are
0.24 watching this Lord they&;re going to be
0.24 able to cry out Give them grace to cry
0.24 out for deliverance and Lord deliver
0.24 them Help them Lord Jesus Remind them
0.24 that you love them so much even Lord in
0.24 sin And what you want to do is save them
0.24 Remind them that no one is too condemned
0.24 to come to you That you came for sinners
0.24 And Lord that is who you are looking for
0.24 to see Lord remind them of that and
0.24 bring them to you Lord Jesus We pray for
0.24 deliverance for anybody crying out for
0.24 deliverance We pray for the Holy Spirit
0.24 to take over and help them in the name
0.24 of Jesus Thank you Lord because we
0.24 believe that you have done it in Jesus
0.24 name we pray Amen Amen Thank you so much
0.24 Celestia Thank you ma&;am for me Thank
0.24 you for having me Mom family This was
0.24 the thin line segment you know and thank
0.24 you so much for being a part of this
0.24 session God bless you We&;ll see you in
0.24 next session Shalom
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