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Grâce à sa vaste audience, YouTube permet aux utilisateurs d’explorer une multitude de thématiques tout en garantissant un espace où le respect des autres et l’anonymat sont préservés. C’est une plateforme qui facilite la découverte et le partage de vidéos qui engagent des discussions ouvertes et constructives autour des idées personnelles.

Mesurer l’impact d’un sevrage complet

Mettre en évidence les progrès dans les relations avec les autres

Les échanges avec un partenaire deviennent plus riches, avec une relation émotionnelle et physique solidifiée.

Mettre en lumière le parcours vers une joie pérenne

Réduire la dépendance ouvre la porte à des avantages durables dans la vie quotidienne, professionnelle et sociale.

Illustrer le parcours menant à une meilleure stabilité mentale

L’arrêt de cette pratique peut conduire à une augmentation de l’énergie, à une humeur plus stable et à une concentration améliorée.

Rechercher les causes de l’intensification de cette pratique

Réfléchir à l’influence de la solitude et du désir sur le comportement

Le manque de satisfaction dans un couple ou dans la vie personnelle, couplé à la solitude, peuvent aussi pousser à cette pratique.

Revoir les facteurs liés à l’esprit et aux émotions

Le stress, l’anxiété ou un sentiment d’insatisfaction dans d’autres domaines de la vie peuvent mener à cette pratique instinctive.

Analyser les effets comportementaux de l’exposition à la pornographie

La pornographie est un facteur significatif. Elle accroît fréquemment l’envie de se masturber et peut altérer la perception de la sexualité.

Surmonter la masturbation : un challenge pour votre sexualité

Se libérer de l’habitude de la masturbation peut constituer un défi majeur pour beaucoup. Cette pratique, bien que souvent reconnue comme un moyen sain d’explorer la sexualité, peut se transformer en un problème sérieux lorsqu’elle se manifeste sous forme de dépendance, interférant alors avec les relations interpersonnelles, la santé psychologique et les obligations professionnelles.

Appréhender les enjeux liés à la dépendance à la masturbation

Donner une définition claire de la masturbation et ses usages

La masturbation, en tant qu’acte sexuel, offre des avantages pour la santé, comme un apaisement du stress et une exploration de son corps. Pourtant, si elle devient envahissante, elle peut poser des défis.

Évaluer les signes indiquant une dépendance

La dépendance se manifeste par une augmentation de la fréquence de la masturbation et une perte de contrôle, ce qui affecte souvent la qualité des rapports avec un partenaire.

Réfléchir aux impacts sur le corps et l’esprit

La consommation habituelle de pornographie, couplée à une dépendance à la masturbation, stimule constamment le système dopaminergique, ce qui peut entraîner des conséquences comme l’éjaculation précoce, une diminution de l’énergie ou des frustrations sexuelles.

Construire un plan d’action pour rompre avec cette habitude

Souligner la valeur du soutien social

• Voir un sexologue : Ce professionnel peut fournir des stratégies adaptées à vos besoins. (en particulierce leader de cage de chasteté)
• Participer à des groupes de soutien : Partager ses expériences avec d’autres aide à garder le cap.

Présenter des stratégies pour prévenir les rechutes

• Bloquer l’accès à la pornographie : Activez des outils de filtrage pour limiter l’accès aux sites explicites.
• Organiser un emploi du temps quotidien : Planifiez des tâches à accomplir pour occuper vos journées efficacement.

Mettre en avant des stratégies efficaces pour contrôler cette pratique

• Substituer à la pratique par d’autres loisirs : Explorez de nouvelles passions ou engagez-vous dans des activités sportives.
• Substituer cette pratique par de nouvelles passions : Faites du sport ou explorez d’autres centres d’intérêts.
• Remplacer par des alternatives saines : Essayez le sport ou explorez de nouveaux hobbies.

Pour résumer

Cesser la masturbation habituelle est un processus lent mais réalisable. Un plan structuré et un soutien adapté permettent de surmonter ce challenge et d’atteindre une vie plus équilibrée, pleine d’objectifs plus enrichissants.

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Retranscription des paroles de la vidéo: these emails obviously I’m not going to expose anyone by name or anything so no one will feel hurt but in all honesty you will be amazed as at what I read amazed almost in a state of disbelief that I’m reading this that this is happening to Muslims some calamities and disasters and all of them revolve around the issue of addiction addiction in the Muslim household so I decided to speak about them straightforward in your face kind of thing so that we will be aware of them and you all know that this is a manage from the manh of the sah who knows the name of the sahabi who used to always ask about the fan and the evil that will come so he could be aware of it he said the people used to ask the messenger of Allah s alh wasallam about good and I would ask him about the the evil and the bad so that I may be aware of it it’s away from the ways of the sahab now it’s not the the normal standard procedure but it is there and we have to address these issues for the Muslims to be aware so if I say something that you consider to be uh x-rated or extreme understand that there’s a reason behind it okay and I apologize beforehand if you find it to be uh repulsive or offensive or whatever but honestly I have to speak about these things don’t worry I’m not going to show you anything nor am I going to say anything too much just so you will not your mind will not go far away when I say x-rated it doesn’t mean what what comes to mind so the first among the addictions which are prevalent are things pertaining into sexual addictions and on top of the list of sexual addictions is masturbation and this is an issue which is common among men and women and allaham if I were to search on the Gmail how many emails I’ve received with the keyword masturbation they will probably be above 3 to 400 from Young uh even not young but mainly young men and women who are in this predicament disastrous predicament something that they have become so addicted to there’s there’s no way they can help themselves even though there are many ways they can help themselves the first thing we need to discuss is this Behavior or this act is Haram and don’t listen to the fatawa which tell you that it is or that it is merely Mak the reason why it is because of textual evidence from the Quran and the Sunnah Allah when praising the believer said and this occurs in more than one Surah in the Quran and those who protect and guard their private parts except when it comes to their spouses or their right-and possession in regards to that they are not blameworthy however whosoever seeks anything beyond that and it is those who are the transgressors and Allah says in the [Applause] Quran and let those who cannot find who are unable to get married let them remain chased until Allah provides them from his provision those who cannot get married let them remain chased until Allah provides for them so that they can get married in thei of the Prophet sallam said the prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam said young men he was speaking to young men he said whoever is able among you to get married get married and who because it is means for you to lower your gaze and it is means for you to protect your private parts from anything which is harmful and sinful and then he said if you’re unable to get married upon you is fasting because fasting will be a form of protection now look at the amazing scholarly analysis when you combine the understanding of the Ayah with the Hadith you will find that Allah said that anything besides the husband and besides the wife spouse huh and the rightand possession is no good then the prophet Alam when the shabab are unable to get married we know that the messenger of Allah he was never given a choice between two things except that he chose the easiest provided it was Halal H had masturbation been a valid option which is easier masturbation or fasting masturbation masturbation however that was not offered as an option for anyone rather fasting was offered as an option therefore dismissing the idea of masturbation altogether so there’s no room for anyone to bring anything other than that thank you and this issue is an epidemic it’s it’s something that we have to follow certain steps to rid ourselves from it so we have to follow a bunch of steps to acquire the Cure the first of which is what you fasting good but let’s go back be why do you fast that’s it that is the answer so you actually still gave us an answer indirectly it’s the tawa if we fear Allah it will be tough to do it if we do it it doesn’t mean that we don’t fear Allah completely but it means we have a serious deficiency in the fear of Allah why because the idea of fearing Allah entails identifying and recognizing and internalizing the greatness and the Majesty of Allah his comprehensive knowledge of everything his observance of everything his knowledge of everything his control of everything and we are being watched all the time do you not know did you not know that Allah sees regarding everything you do is allseeing so once you bring this to mind you will be shy that’s the end result if we allow the shatan to cover that up and not think in this manner then anything goes Subhan Allah the Islam our religion the Quran and the Sunnah there there such a perfect harmony in the teaching it’s an amazing thing this is why the messenger of allaham said if you don’t have any shamefulness any bashfulness you will wind up doing whatever you want he’s not telling you to do it but you will wind up doing anything that you want once you have shamefulness specifically from Allah then you will have a hard time doing it so if we learn every time we’re about to engage in a sin any sin specifically this one that Allah is watching then we will be able to leave it alone if we don’t have the fear of Allah then it’s easy to do anything number one number two marriage and this is a call to all the parents and I feel with the youngsters who send these emails and it’s it’s agonizing to read the emails brother I am 23 years old and my parents do not allow me to get married until I become a professor and however there’s this sister that I want it’s the same story over and over again and because of that they are resorting to masturbation and then later on Zena and then later on homosexuality you will be shocked at the things that happen when you become an obstacle in your children’s marriage let them get married who told you that for you to get married you have to be a graduate from some University where did that come from from where in our Dean does it entail that you have to do this nowhere we all agree as parents that you don’t want to marry you don’t want your CH your your son to marry anyone unless they’re able to provide agreed however the scholars say if you got money you are obliged to help your son get married and you spend on him until he can stand on his feet or you stacking up all this money in the bank for who and for what while you could you can get him married in no time and he will learn to take care of himself he can get a part-time job while he’s learning there are ways we have to make an effort when it fails alhamdulillah the parent can also say w I tried I was willing to give you my money and I was willing to help you out but it doesn’t seem that you’ll be able to afford it so you have to be patient even your son will say Baba I agree but when you just don’t understand you’re just blocking your mind that he has to finish until he gets married you don’t know what your son is doing behind your back or your daughter behind your back they’re not going to come and tell you they will not tell you never but what happens behind your back is disastrous if you were to know you would go crazy I’m telling you now I’m I’m putting that that card out I’m telling you from what I’ve read what winds up happening when you don’t know much worse than having let him having them get married so marriage is an ultimate solution ultimate solution for this problem and IT addresses masturbation and Zena at the same time so parents be flexible try to work it out if it doesn’t at least you could say that you did something for your children thirdly busy yourself with that which is good if you don’t busy yourself with that which is good then you will easily fall into the sin over and over again because you have plenty of time on your hand fourthly lower the Gaze when you see so many naked women this will lead you at some point your your body will react a certain way and then you you have to relieve yourself but what led to that point is what you were looking at before what whether it is on TV or it is on the Internet or it is the in in the actual streets which you see all of the above if we lower the Gaze and it’s not Mission Impossible it’s not easy it is not easy 100% agreed but it is doable the first look alhamdulillah you’re excused and the first look is 1 second just in case someone you know gave you that other fatwa you know they say it’s a it’s a it became a joke actually that he kept looking at her for 2 minutes and said it’s the first look how is that the first look yeah Captain the first look is The Accidental look and the prophet called it accidental look yeah you’re driving and a woman is is you know walking and the thing you have no choice she walked in front of you you have to see otherwise you run her over and that look is accidental after which kalas you’re no longer looking if you keep checking her out you didn’t do the job and this is among the means which lead to this uh you know secret habit they call it the secret habit uh fooling oneself that it is lesser than Zena that is this satanic fatwa it is available in some cases it is in some cases when the the scholars say if you go to this country and d d da and you’re about to fall into Zena then do this as opposed to falling into Zena but how often that happens rarely what usually happens is look I’m in I’m in a foreign country or I’m in a place where I’m are surrounded with FNA so for me to stay in a good condition I just masturbate all the time so that I will not fall into Zena so I’m so I’m saving myself from Zena by doing this regularly where did he get this fwa from the scholars gave this fatwa to someone who’s on the verge he’s in a situation where he’s has a woman there or and or the lady with the man and then kalas this is the last resort but you can’t give this feta to yourself even in that predicament you cannot let alone to make it a regular habit based on I might fall into Zena later on drop this drop this idea all together you cannot do this you have to leave it alone and be mindful of the health effects and know this is not criticizing people with glasses but it gives you a bad Vision huh everybody with glass like not me brother same here don’t worry I’m just saying the to doctors it gives you bad Vision it makes you weak and it may affect your marital relationship in the future this is where I cannot elaborate but it will eventually ruin your marital relationship very possibly that it will because you get used to certain things which are abnormal no strings attached what happens is it’s among the and this is very common it’s among the main reasons why people abandoned Salah and it happens to students who go to America or the UK or Canada or one of these countries and you know there’s they in the beginning they’re excited about Islam and and they tell you from here no inshallah brother I will be straightforward and I’m a good practicing Muslim and I will never go astray which is amazing for someone to say this about himself the messenger of Allah sallallah alaihi wasallam says oh Allah the one who turns the hearts over keep my heart firm on your religion and uh Mr Ahmed nowadays tells you when I go there I’m Islam don’t worry how where did you get this fatwa where did you get this guarantee that Allah will protect you and preserve you that you will be a they will remain on a straight path when you travel to countries of fan whether it is for education or otherwise you’re one of three people either you are uh guided and you remain guided it happens to many people that noise stop it please or you are guide you are misguided Allah guides you over there alhamdulillah or you are guided and you will go astray can anyone stand and say I will be the third I will be the first I’m sorry or the second can anyone say no way that I will be the one who’s guided and Allah will misguide me if you say so then Allah says don’t don’t praise yourselves No Escape so I’m saying this as a disclaimer be careful of this fascination with you know the degrees from the west and so on and so forth only expense that you lose your religion because you go to this University and I don’t know how the situation is here and I don’t want to know actually but you go and then you have ladies all over the place or for the Sisters you have you know men all over the place and it’s a mixed environment and everybody’s half naked and then this will now you’re either Zena or masturbation so you choose masturbation Salah time comes you could couldn’t shower and so you missed the Salah and then you couldn’t shower later and you missed the Salah and then lack of shower and it’s too cold in that country you the Shan will keep dragging you until you abandon Salah because you can’t pray in the state of janaba and you can’t make W either you have to make so the Shan will use this as means to make one lazy and they eventually reach a point where they’re not they cannot shower in in on campus and so they say I will wait till I go home to shower he goes home tired that day goes without Salah then the next day and then the one after then they abandon Salah once they abandon Salah kiss them goodbye kiss their Islam goodbye it will eventually disappear and vanish and as me and the brothers were discussing the only thing he will keep is I will not eat pig and I will not drink alcohol as if this is Islam he doesn’t pray and he does riba and he falls into all kinds of sins but brother alhamdulillah I I never eat bacon is this going to take you to Jenna not eating bacon in fact it’s allowed for you to eat bacon if you were about to die in the desert and the only thing you found is a pig it’s Halal for you to eat it then this is not our Dean so it’s one of the tricks of the Shan and what leads to This Disaster is masturbation uh what we should do is make a lot of Dua and this is an element which we miss you speak to any one of us who’s falling into a sin and he will tell you say you know you know this is wrong he says I know brother I’ve been trying and he tell you a long story and sometimes you’ll find that in the whole story of his effort making Dua was not part of the process even though the first thing one should do is what make Dua because if Allah wi it will be done instantly but where’s the sincerity in making Dua so when we connect with Allah we have a solution for all the problems so you just make Dua with the Sunnah of raising the hands what we said before is you you don’t raise your hands after Salah raising your hands is a Sunnah of the prophet in making Dua but don’t make it a habit to do it after every Salah you raise your hands make Dua because the messenger of Allah sallallahu alaihi wasallam never did that never rais his hand after any Salah whether voluntary or obligatory so that’s why we say it’s not from the Sunnah some people Mis misunderstood that so raise your hands and make Dua oh Allah I’m I’m Afflicted with This calamity oh Allah save me and be sincere be sincere one Dua you make from the from your heart Allah will accept and it’s done it’s done or Allah may want to test you further or he want to see how patient you are or how persistent you’re in Dua it doesn’t have to be with you it’s according to Allah’s time not your time not when we want when Allah wants and Allah knows when but our job is to make this particular Dua so make Dua and repent to Allah from that so this is a reminder for all of the brothers and sisters is in Islam masturbation is a prohibited act in Islam that leads to the corruption of the physical being and the spiritual being and there’s no room for it and don’t let the Shan continue to trick you for another 3 four years until you find a wife or until the sister finds a husband because people before us survived without doing that and you can survive and we can survive without doing that as well inshallah .

Déroulement de la vidéo:

0.199 these emails obviously I&;m not going to
0.199 expose anyone by name or anything so no
0.199 one will feel hurt but in all honesty
0.199 you will be amazed as at what I
0.199 read amazed almost in a state of
0.199 disbelief that I&;m reading this that
0.199 this is happening to Muslims some
0.199 calamities and disasters and all of them
0.199 revolve around the issue of addiction
0.199 addiction in the Muslim
0.199 household
0.199 so I decided
0.199 to speak about
0.199 them
0.199 straightforward in your face kind of
0.199 thing so that we will be aware of them
0.199 and you all know that this is a manage
0.199 from the manh of the sah who knows the
0.199 name of the sahabi who used to always
0.199 ask about the fan and the evil that will
0.199 come so he could be aware of it
0.199 he said the people used to ask the
0.199 messenger of Allah s alh wasallam about
0.199 good and I would ask him about the the
0.199 evil and the bad so that I may be aware
0.199 of it it&;s away from the ways of the
0.199 sahab now it&;s not the the normal
0.199 standard procedure but it is there and
0.199 we have to address these issues for the
0.199 Muslims to be aware so if I say
0.199 something that you consider to be uh
0.199 x-rated or
0.199 extreme understand that there&;s a reason
0.199 behind it okay and I apologize
0.199 beforehand if you find it to be uh
0.199 repulsive or offensive or whatever but
0.199 honestly I have to speak about these
0.199 things don&;t worry I&;m not going to show
0.199 you anything nor am I going to say
0.199 anything too much just so you will not
0.199 your mind will not go far away when I
0.199 say x-rated it doesn&;t mean what what
0.199 comes to
0.199 mind so the first among the addictions
0.199 which are prevalent are things
0.199 pertaining
0.199 into sexual
0.199 addictions and on top of the list of
0.199 sexual addictions is
0.199 masturbation and this is an issue which
0.199 is common among men and
0.199 women and allaham if I were to search on
0.199 the Gmail how many emails I&;ve received
0.199 with the keyword masturbation they will
0.199 probably be above 3 to
0.199 400 from Young uh even not young but
0.199 mainly young men and women who are in
0.199 this predicament disastrous predicament
0.199 something that they have become so
0.199 addicted to there&;s there&;s no way they
0.199 can help themselves even though there
0.199 are many ways they can help themselves
0.199 the first thing we need to discuss is
0.199 this Behavior or this act is
0.199 Haram and don&;t listen to the fatawa
0.199 which tell you that it
0.199 is or that it is merely Mak the reason
0.199 why it is
0.199 because of textual evidence from the
0.199 Quran and the Sunnah Allah when praising
0.199 the believer
0.199 said and this occurs in more than one
0.199 Surah in the
0.199 Quran and those who protect and guard
0.199 their private parts except when it comes
0.199 to their spouses or their right-and
0.199 possession in regards to that they are
0.199 not blameworthy however whosoever seeks
0.199 anything beyond that and it is those who
0.199 are the
0.199 transgressors and Allah says in the
0.199 [Applause]
0.199 Quran and let those who cannot
0.199 find who are unable to get married let
0.199 them remain chased until Allah provides
0.199 them from his provision those who cannot
0.199 get married let them remain chased until
0.199 Allah provides for them so that they can
0.199 get
0.199 married in thei of the Prophet sallam
0.199 said the prophet sallallahu alaihi
0.199 wasallam said young men he was speaking
0.199 to young men he said whoever is able
0.199 among you to get married get
0.199 married and who because it is means for
0.199 you to lower your gaze and it is means
0.199 for you to protect your private parts
0.199 from anything which is harmful and
0.199 sinful and then he said if you&;re unable
0.199 to get married upon you is fasting
0.199 because fasting will be a form of
0.199 protection now look at the amazing
0.199 scholarly
0.199 analysis when you combine the
0.199 understanding of the Ayah with the
0.199 Hadith you will find that Allah said
0.199 that anything besides the husband and
0.199 besides the wife spouse huh and the
0.199 rightand possession is no good then the
0.199 prophet
0.199 Alam when the shabab are unable to get
0.199 married we know that the messenger of
0.199 Allah he was never given a choice
0.199 between two things except that he chose
0.199 the easiest provided it
0.199 was Halal H had masturbation been a
0.199 valid option which is easier
0.199 masturbation or fasting masturbation
0.199 masturbation however that was not
0.199 offered as an option for anyone rather
0.199 fasting was offered as an option
0.199 therefore dismissing the idea of
0.199 masturbation
0.199 altogether so there&;s no room for anyone
0.199 to bring anything other than
0.199 that thank you and this
0.199 issue is an epidemic it&;s it&;s something
0.199 that we have to follow certain steps to
0.199 rid ourselves from it so we have to
0.199 follow a bunch of steps to acquire the
0.199 Cure the first of which
0.199 is what
0.199 you fasting good but let&;s go back be
0.199 why do you
0.199 fast that&;s it that is the answer so you
0.199 actually still gave us an answer
0.199 indirectly it&;s the
0.199 tawa if we fear Allah it will be tough
0.199 to do
0.199 it if we do it it doesn&;t mean that we
0.199 don&;t fear Allah completely but it means
0.199 we have a serious deficiency in the fear
0.199 of Allah why because the idea of fearing
0.199 Allah entails identifying and
0.199 recognizing and internalizing the
0.199 greatness and the Majesty of Allah his
0.199 comprehensive knowledge of everything
0.199 his observance of everything his
0.199 knowledge of everything his control of
0.199 everything and we are being watched all
0.199 the
0.199 time do you not know did you not know
0.199 that Allah
0.199 sees regarding everything you do is
0.199 allseeing so once you bring this to mind
0.199 you will be
0.199 shy that&;s the end
0.199 result if we allow the shatan to cover
0.199 that up
0.199 and not think in this manner then
0.199 anything
0.199 goes Subhan Allah the Islam our religion
0.199 the Quran and the Sunnah there there
0.199 such a perfect harmony in the teaching
0.199 it&;s an amazing thing this is why the
0.199 messenger of allaham said if you don&;t
0.199 have any shamefulness any bashfulness
0.199 you will wind up doing whatever you want
0.199 he&;s not telling you to do it but you
0.199 will wind up doing anything that you
0.199 want once you have shamefulness
0.199 specifically from Allah then you will
0.199 have a hard time doing it so if we learn
0.199 every time we&;re about to engage in a
0.199 sin any sin specifically this one that
0.199 Allah is watching then we will be able
0.199 to leave it alone if we don&;t have the
0.199 fear of Allah then it&;s easy to do
0.199 anything number one number two
0.199 marriage and this is a call to all the
0.199 parents and I feel with the youngsters
0.199 who send these emails and it&;s it&;s
0.199 agonizing to read the emails brother I
0.199 am 23 years old and my parents do not
0.199 allow me to get married until I become a
0.199 professor and however there&;s this
0.199 sister that I want it&;s the same story
0.199 over and over again and because of that
0.199 they are resorting to masturbation and
0.199 then later on Zena and then later on
0.199 homosexuality you will be shocked at the
0.199 things that happen when you become an
0.199 obstacle in your children&;s marriage let
0.199 them get married who told you that for
0.199 you to get married you have to be a
0.199 graduate from some University where did
0.199 that come from from where in our Dean
0.199 does it entail that you have to do this
0.199 nowhere we all agree as parents that you
0.199 don&;t want to marry you don&;t want your
0.199 CH your your son to marry anyone unless
0.199 they&;re able to provide
0.199 agreed however the scholars say if you
0.199 got money you are obliged to help your
0.199 son get married and you spend on him
0.199 until he can stand on his feet or you
0.199 stacking up all this money in the
0.199 bank for who and for what while you
0.199 could you can get him married in no
0.199 time and he will learn to take care of
0.199 himself he can get a part-time job while
0.199 he&;s learning there are ways we have to
0.199 make an effort when it fails
0.199 alhamdulillah the parent can also say w
0.199 I tried I was willing to give you my
0.199 money and I was willing to help you out
0.199 but it doesn&;t seem that you&;ll be able
0.199 to afford it so you have to be patient
0.199 even your son will say Baba I
0.199 agree but when you just don&;t understand
0.199 you&;re just blocking your mind that he
0.199 has to finish until he gets married you
0.199 don&;t know what your son is doing behind
0.199 your back or your daughter behind your
0.199 back they&;re not going to come and tell
0.199 you they will not tell you never but
0.199 what happens behind your back is
0.199 disastrous if you were to know you would
0.199 go crazy I&;m telling you now
0.199 I&;m I&;m putting that that card out I&;m
0.199 telling you from what I&;ve read what
0.199 winds up happening when you don&;t
0.199 know much worse than having let him
0.199 having them get married so marriage is
0.199 an ultimate solution ultimate solution
0.199 for this problem and IT addresses
0.199 masturbation and Zena at the same time
0.199 so parents be
0.199 flexible try to work it out if it
0.199 doesn&;t at least you could say that you
0.199 did something for your children thirdly
0.199 busy yourself with that which is
0.199 good if you don&;t busy yourself with
0.199 that which is good then you will easily
0.199 fall into the sin over and over again
0.199 because you have plenty of time on your
0.199 hand fourthly lower the
0.199 Gaze when you see so many naked women
0.199 this will lead you at some point your
0.199 your body will react a certain way and
0.199 then you you have to relieve
0.199 yourself but what led to that point is
0.199 what you were looking at before what
0.199 whether it is on TV or it is on the
0.199 Internet or it is the in in the actual
0.199 streets which you see all of the
0.199 above if we lower the Gaze and it&;s not
0.199 Mission Impossible it&;s not easy it is
0.199 not easy 100% agreed but it is doable
0.199 the first look alhamdulillah you&;re
0.199 excused and the first look is 1
0.199 second just in case someone you know
0.199 gave you that other fatwa you know they
0.199 say it&;s a it&;s a it became a joke
0.199 actually that he kept looking at her for
0.199 2 minutes and said it&;s the first look
0.199 how is that the first look yeah Captain
0.199 the first look is The Accidental look
0.199 and the prophet called it accidental
0.199 look yeah you&;re driving and a woman is
0.199 is you know walking and the thing you
0.199 have no choice she walked in front of
0.199 you you have to see otherwise you run
0.199 her
0.199 over and that look is accidental after
0.199 which kalas you&;re no longer looking if
0.199 you keep checking her out you didn&;t do
0.199 the job and this is among the means
0.199 which lead to this uh you know secret
0.199 habit they call it the secret
0.199 habit uh fooling oneself that it is
0.199 lesser than
0.199 Zena that is this satanic
0.199 fatwa it is available in some cases it
0.199 is in some cases when the the scholars
0.199 say if you go to this country and d d da
0.199 and you&;re about to fall into Zena then
0.199 do this as opposed to falling into Zena
0.199 but how often that happens rarely what
0.199 usually happens is look I&;m in I&;m in a
0.199 foreign country or I&;m in a place where
0.199 I&;m are surrounded with FNA so for me to
0.199 stay in a good condition I just
0.199 masturbate all the time so that I will
0.199 not fall into Zena so I&;m so I&;m saving
0.199 myself from Zena by doing this regularly
0.199 where did he get this fwa from the
0.199 scholars gave this fatwa to someone
0.199 who&;s on the verge he&;s in a situation
0.199 where he&;s has a woman there or and or
0.199 the lady with the man and then kalas
0.199 this is the last resort but you can&;t
0.199 give this feta to yourself even in that
0.199 predicament you cannot let alone to make
0.199 it a regular habit based on I might fall
0.199 into Zena later on drop this drop this
0.199 idea all together you cannot do this you
0.199 have to leave it
0.199 alone and be mindful of the health
0.199 effects and know this is not criticizing
0.199 people with glasses but it gives you a
0.199 bad
0.199 Vision huh everybody with glass
0.199 like not me
0.199 brother same here don&;t worry I&;m just
0.199 saying the to doctors it gives you bad
0.199 Vision it makes you weak and it may
0.199 affect your marital relationship in the
0.199 future this is where I cannot
0.199 elaborate but it will eventually ruin
0.199 your marital relationship very possibly
0.199 that it will because you get used to
0.199 certain things which are
0.199 abnormal no strings
0.199 attached what happens is it&;s among the
0.199 and this is very common it&;s among the
0.199 main reasons why people abandoned
0.199 Salah and it happens to students who go
0.199 to America or the UK or Canada or one of
0.199 these countries and you know there&;s
0.199 they in the beginning they&;re excited
0.199 about Islam and and they tell you from
0.199 here no inshallah brother I will be
0.199 straightforward and I&;m a good
0.199 practicing Muslim and I will never go
0.199 astray which is amazing for someone to
0.199 say this about himself the messenger of
0.199 Allah sallallah alaihi wasallam says oh
0.199 Allah the one who turns the hearts over
0.199 keep my heart firm on your religion and
0.199 uh Mr Ahmed nowadays tells you when I go
0.199 there I&;m Islam don&;t
0.199 worry how where did you get this fatwa
0.199 where did you get this guarantee that
0.199 Allah will protect you and preserve you
0.199 that you will be a they will remain on a
0.199 straight path when you travel to
0.199 countries of fan whether it is for
0.199 education or otherwise you&;re one of
0.199 three people either you are uh guided
0.199 and you remain guided it happens to many
0.199 people that noise stop it please or you
0.199 are guide you are misguided Allah guides
0.199 you over there alhamdulillah or you are
0.199 guided and you will go
0.199 astray can anyone stand and say I will
0.199 be the third I will be the first I&;m
0.199 sorry or the second can anyone say no
0.199 way that I will be the one who&;s guided
0.199 and Allah will misguide me if you say so
0.199 then Allah
0.199 says don&;t don&;t praise
0.199 yourselves No Escape so I&;m saying this
0.199 as a disclaimer be careful of this
0.199 fascination with you know the degrees
0.199 from the west and so on and so forth
0.199 only expense that you lose your religion
0.199 because you go to this University and I
0.199 don&;t know how the situation is here and
0.199 I don&;t want to know actually but you go
0.199 and then you have ladies all over the
0.199 place or for the Sisters you have you
0.199 know men all over the place and it&;s a
0.199 mixed environment and everybody&;s half
0.199 naked and then this will now you&;re
0.199 either Zena or masturbation so you
0.199 choose masturbation Salah time comes you
0.199 could couldn&;t
0.199 shower and so you missed the Salah and
0.199 then you couldn&;t shower later and you
0.199 missed the Salah and then lack of shower
0.199 and it&;s too cold in that country you
0.199 the Shan will keep dragging you until
0.199 you abandon
0.199 Salah because you can&;t pray in the
0.199 state of janaba and you can&;t make W
0.199 either you have to
0.199 make so the Shan will use this as means
0.199 to make one lazy and they eventually
0.199 reach a point where they&;re not they
0.199 cannot shower in in on
0.199 campus and so they say I will wait till
0.199 I go home to shower he goes home tired
0.199 that day goes without Salah then the
0.199 next day and then the one after then
0.199 they abandon Salah once they abandon
0.199 Salah kiss them goodbye kiss their Islam
0.199 goodbye it will eventually disappear and
0.199 vanish and as me and the brothers were
0.199 discussing the only thing he will keep
0.199 is I will not eat pig and I will not
0.199 drink alcohol as if this is Islam he
0.199 doesn&;t pray and he does riba and he
0.199 falls into all kinds of sins but brother
0.199 alhamdulillah I I never eat
0.199 bacon is this going to take you to Jenna
0.199 not eating bacon in fact it&;s allowed
0.199 for you to eat bacon if you were about
0.199 to die in the desert and the only thing
0.199 you found is a pig it&;s Halal for you to
0.199 eat it then this is not our
0.199 Dean so it&;s one of the tricks of the
0.199 Shan and what leads to This Disaster is
0.199 masturbation uh what we should do is
0.199 make a lot of Dua and this is an element
0.199 which we
0.199 miss you speak to any one of us who&;s
0.199 falling into a sin and he will tell you
0.199 say you know you know this is wrong he
0.199 says I know brother I&;ve been trying and
0.199 he tell you a long story and sometimes
0.199 you&;ll find that in the whole story of
0.199 his effort making Dua was not part of
0.199 the process even though the first thing
0.199 one should do is what make Dua because
0.199 if Allah wi it will be done
0.199 instantly but where&;s the sincerity in
0.199 making
0.199 Dua so when we connect with Allah we
0.199 have a solution for all the
0.199 problems so you just make Dua with the
0.199 Sunnah of raising the hands what we said
0.199 before is you you don&;t raise your hands
0.199 after Salah raising your hands is a
0.199 Sunnah of the prophet in making Dua but
0.199 don&;t make it a habit to do it after
0.199 every Salah you raise your hands make
0.199 Dua because the messenger of Allah
0.199 sallallahu alaihi wasallam never did
0.199 that never rais his hand after any Salah
0.199 whether voluntary or obligatory so
0.199 that&;s why we say it&;s not from the
0.199 Sunnah some people Mis misunderstood
0.199 that so raise your hands and make Dua oh
0.199 Allah I&;m I&;m Afflicted with This
0.199 calamity oh Allah save me and be sincere
0.199 be sincere one Dua you make from the
0.199 from your heart Allah will accept and
0.199 it&;s done it&;s done or Allah may want to
0.199 test you further or he want to see how
0.199 patient you are or how persistent you&;re
0.199 in Dua it doesn&;t have to be with
0.199 you it&;s according to Allah&;s time not
0.199 your
0.199 time not when we want when Allah wants
0.199 and Allah knows when but our job is to
0.199 make this particular Dua so make Dua and
0.199 repent to Allah from that so this is a
0.199 reminder for all of the brothers and
0.199 sisters is in Islam masturbation is a
0.199 prohibited act in Islam that leads to
0.199 the corruption of the physical being and
0.199 the spiritual being and there&;s no room
0.199 for it and don&;t let the Shan continue
0.199 to trick you for another 3 four years
0.199 until you find a wife or until the
0.199 sister finds a husband because people
0.199 before us survived without doing that
0.199 and you can survive and we can survive
0.199 without doing that as well inshallah
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